I am smart. Does this intimidate women? Why are girls always nervous around me? I don't beat them or anything like that. I am well read and I have vast real world knowledge. I do not try to act smart but it comes out in the way I speak. My vocabulary is quite extensive and I try to dumb it down. Do women prefer stupid guys? Honestly.
2006-09-11
07:12:57
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Let me add this. I have always been in relationships and women who have been with me for years still act nervous around me. They try to do everyhting perfectly and avoid annoying me. One of my exes said she was always worried I would criticize her. I asked her if I ever did that and she said no. So why was she still scared of me?
2006-09-11
07:18:54 ·
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No, of course women do not want stupid men.... or at least intelligent women do not... now perhaps you are dating stupid women? lol... if you have to " dumb down" for any person- you are definitely not with the right person... you need to date intelligent, educated women.. and perhaps not act superior or condescending... no one likes that.... if you act that way it would explain why women are "nervous" around you... in reality you are making them uncomfortable...try not being so subjective... or at least ask a neutral friend who can give you an unbiased/ objective opinion of your attitude...
2006-09-11 07:21:40
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answered by Ms Fortune 7
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I'm not big on criticizing questions but you're asking an imposible question to answer. And for someone that is supposed to be smart, you should maybe go back & reevaluate yourself. Becuase you might not be as smart as you think you are. There are gazillions of women in the world. A general question like do women like..., like every woman likes the same thing like they're robots or something. Everybody asks questions like this so you shouldn't feel stupid. But the answer to your question is quite simple to me. It depends on the female. If she does not have an inferiority complex she should not be threatened by your intelligence. Maybe the females you have been trying to persue just don't have anything in common with you. If you start talking to a female about world politics or art & she's not into that but would rather talk about nick at night don't be surprised if she clicks better with someone else. Anybody that is intimidated by your intelligence or feels like they have to be smarter then you has issues you might not want to deal with. I suggest you try to go after females that you consider as intelligent or more intelligent than yourself. This way you won't have to dumb it down like you say. And you can connect on a mental level as well as a physical & spiritual level.
2006-09-11 07:34:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Only stupid girls prefer stupid guys, you are probably hanging around the wrong kind of girls. Do not try to dumb it down, you don't want some flake anyways, you want someone you can talk to and have an intelligent conversation with. Look for someone with the same interests as you and not for girls that look a certain way. Here's a hint for you: boob size does not correlate positively with brain size. Good Luck.
2006-09-11 07:18:10
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answered by Ferosia 3
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Women prefer men like me who are very intelligent, very funny, in great shape, and have a HUGE and I mean HUGE magic wand! I also have a long tongue!!! Ladies can say all they want. . . but the fact is they want a guy who can lavish them with orgasm after orgasm. . . . They want to look good on the arm of a sophisticated, sexy, well spoken, intelligent, debonair, chivalrous, and classy man. . . but what they can not control is their buring, screaming , lust for a man that can really rock thier world. Thats why a guy like me has had to be careful with the ladies. . . . they have been very attracted to me all my life. . . . but once I sleep with them. . . . wow. . . . . then they go insane and become pagen beasts who will stop at almost nothing to have me!!! They also think that there is this cosmic, out of this world, once in a lifetime connection or bond between us because they think only a man who was their true soul mate could know every curve and pleasure point on their body to make them feel so good. The reality is however. . . .I'm just a sex machine and make all the ladies feel that way.
2006-09-11 07:19:59
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answered by Anonymous
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GIRLS like guys that are fooling around, making fun of them self's, say stupid jokes... But only WOMEN that are mature can see the ignorance of that type of guys and the advantage to have a boy like u intelligent, always knowing what to say, charming...Believe me if u r so smart as u say than u have the biggest blessing of all the guys out there....
2006-09-11 07:19:16
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answered by Anonymous
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You can have all that, but do you have a job? The shallow women whom are just interested in dating and not marrying are interested only in hunks, cars and money and what they can get out of you at the time. Guys play this game too. The not so shallow women, who want to date but with the purpose of marriage are looking for stability, honesty and education. They aren't so much into looks by then.
2006-09-11 07:17:00
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answered by Pinolera 6
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No I would date a smart guy over a stupid guy in a heart beat! Also I'm smart and it gets really annoying dealing with stupid people.
2006-09-11 07:15:46
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answered by sarah u 1
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different girls different opinions theres no ONE REAL ANSWER really.
well in my opinion there was this guy once and i thought he was always really rude coz everytime i spoke or whatever he would correct my grammar and tell me i was wrong about things and all. so eventually i couldnt stand being around him and i avoid him now cause i find him arogant and a 'know it all' i mean so what if im not as smart??!?!? so what that your really smart?!?!? theres no need to rub it in!! anyways my friend recently told me that he really fancied me and i asked him and he said he did! now i would never go out with him not because hes smart but because hes too full of himself and his big smart brain!!!
phew! so thats my story to do with your question which i cant remember........ o yeah about women and all well yeah thats true and false for different people i guess.
um i hope this helped which it probably didnt but oh well i enjoyed telling my story to you............ =)
2006-09-11 07:19:49
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answered by Anonymous
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No...I like smart guys who don't feel so superior they have to "dumb" things down for me. Maybe that's why you think women are nervous around you, they're just trying to avoid you.
2006-09-11 07:17:09
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answered by i have no idea 6
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They are probably nervous around you because they are afraid of saying something stupid. Try putting yourself in their shoes. Maybe your conversations are to deep and they are afraid they might not be able to keep up with you. Maybe keep your communication to a minimum and be more a listener and it will help you both I'm sure. Good Luck.
2006-09-11 07:19:18
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answered by aimstir31 5
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