I have a good friend that has been in my life for 7 years and I find myslef falling in love with him but can we have a relationship that will last? We are always intament so whats the diffrence? He is afraid we will ruen our frindship.
2006-09-11 07:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... If you both feel the same, you have to risk your friendship fo your love. You shouldnt go ahead just because your afraid what will happen if you do. Well... What will happen if you dont, you guys could have been soul mates and never knew it. I know if you guys want to become more than friends, it can happen even though you have such long history as friends. Do what you feel is right. Good luck!
2006-09-11 07:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by intimate- if you are having sex with him, he's already getting what he wants with no commitment so its up to you to make him a friend that gets no lovin from you or tell him to step his game up and stop playing you for a dum dum, because hes good on his end- the girl is always the one that feels used in the end- and you are being used, whether you think of him as a "friend" or not
2006-09-11 07:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I were just Friends for many years before we got together. We've been married now for 5 years and we have a 3 year old girl.
2006-09-11 07:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the example of Bill & Hillary Clinton. She said, after the whole Monica thing, that they have been best friends since they met. They have wonderful conversations. I try to remember to make sure that my fiance knows that she is my best friend and more.
2006-09-11 07:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always intimate?
So your fvcking him and you can't figure this out?
He just wants to fvck you. He doesn't think your the kinda person he would marry, your just a wet pussy hanging off his belt. Do yourself a favor and forget about your feelings for him, they will never be reciprocated.
2006-09-11 07:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband and excellent buddy basically did that to me a twelve months in the past. I wasn't fortunate sufficient for him to desert our son, nonetheless, so I ought to work out him countless circumstances a week as quickly as we commerce him. and in some circumstances he brings her. It nevertheless hurts, in spite of the fact that it rather is been 10 months considering that he left me and we are formally divorced and at an identical time as the soreness continues to be there, it rather is lessened lots. I went to a counselor for some months and advised him basically get me over him, so as that's what he worked on. I replaced my suggestions-set and way of watching issues to an outstanding way and life has strengthen into lots extra appropriate than it EVER replaced into with him! suggestions-set is each little thing! After hitting all-time low while he left & pondering suicide, I directly found out that i could no longer try this to my son & that I had to alter my outlook or lose the conflict. i've got by no skill been happier in my life. i've got made extra progression in mere months than maximum folk do interior the years following certainly one of those betrayal. i've got had a pair relationships in that factor that have been extra appropriate than my marriage ever replaced into & I went back to college to commence a sparkling occupation after being a stay at abode mom. It DOES get extra appropriate in case you enable it. they are going to sleep interior the mattress they have made, and that style of relationship can no longer final with the aid of fact they're the two cheaters, and that they comprehend it. i'm to no longer the factor the place i do no longer care approximately them yet, yet i'm getting there. whether they get married, i will't enable it difficulty me. They deserve one yet another, and you and that i deserve extra appropriate. we are going to locate it. You e mail me in case you should. i've got been there, and am nevertheless getting to understand to handle it, yet I promise, it gets extra appropriate in case you decide directly to think of surely and comprehend which you're extra appropriate off.
2016-11-07 02:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you probably know them better than anybody else so you know their faults and all the good points. If you think you could make a go of something go for it but make sure you're not going to ruin a good friendshi if it does go wrong.
2006-09-11 07:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by lucystott87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how it is with that
just be careful that ur friendship is strong enough to handle the attempt of a relationship and if not you 2 can go back to friends
2006-09-11 07:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by tiggermouse73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is worrying about "ruining your friendship"...he is not on the same page with you - nice way of saying - I don't want more than a friendship (most of the time)
2006-09-11 07:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may work out - look at Wynonna Judd she hooked up with one of her friends and are now married
2006-09-11 07:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋