im having a hard time being married to a so called churchman but theres very little that i see that christ like . he wants me to sumit and do wife things but he still lives with mommy and makes every excuse why he cant live where i live . he just started a new job great. he goes to school fantansic! and he works out good but this take all his time up im 17 weeks pregnate and i want him to notice that im his pregnate wife with a 7 year old son and theres no bond there and he asks me why? should i stay or go now help . i feel trapped.
2006-09-11 06:37:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um, I agree you have problems. You don't live together. You are pregnant. I would give him the choice to either get on board with you and start behaving like a committed, married couple, or start divorce proceedings. Good Luck!
2006-09-11 06:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop worrying about the so called marriage and go back to school. Get your GED and learn to spell and phrase questions properly. Come on, you must be very young or extraordinarily naive to truly believe this is a marriage that will work. Take charge of your life NOW! Start by putting your children first.
2006-09-11 06:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah why doesnt he live with u thats not really a marriage thats like a partnership with children involved, u need to get him in ur house because until then hes his mommas boy and when he lives with u he will begin to see u as his wife.
2006-09-11 06:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry him? a man is supposed to leave his family and cleave to his wife. he needs help. he needs to grow up and let go of mommy's hand....he's too old to be breast fed. tell him that's what he needs to do, otherwise you'll leave.
2006-09-11 06:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total loser. This "marriage" is not going to benefit you at all. What would be best for your children?
2006-09-11 06:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell---u got married and let him stay living with mommy---get out quick
2006-09-11 06:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
untrapped yoursefl
it will be harder because mama boy doesn't want to be a husband and father
and it seems that his mother is not helping she should kick him out
Now is your job to kick out your life
you don't seems needy so don't act it
Good Luck
2006-09-11 06:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel trapped if he doesn't even live with you? Make your own life.
2006-09-11 06:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask him the question, me or mommy? ask him if responsibility ever entered his mind.
2006-09-11 06:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he need to do is get out of his mom house and be with u and he needs to be there for u and your son !!!!
2006-09-11 06:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥l.0.v.E♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋