I'M 18
HE'S 25
MY PARENTS WONT LET US DATE BECAUSE HES TOO OLD
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IM CRYIN SO HARD.
2006-09-11 06:56:47 · 17 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I JUST THREW UP BECAUSE IM SO UPSET.
2006-09-11 07:01:52 · update #1
Wanna go out with me?
read my questions.
2006-09-11 06:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Perry N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend was in a similar situtuion a couple of weeks ago. the thing was, her parents didnt like the guy, he was "too old", and he had been in trouble with the law, you gotta see where there coming from, sometimes paretns want the best for you, and they end up giveing you the worst thing ever, only to make sure that your safe.
but if hes not been in trouble woth the law, you should show your parents that you are both mature enough, but you two stay friends b/c he can go to jail, and if your paretns know about it, they can loose you for real, sooo just wait, let some years go by, and if you both still feel the same way, then let the relationship start!!
2006-09-11 14:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're 18 and living on your own - I would say you're an adult now - doesn't matter. But if you are 18 and still living at home and not paying room/board and for your own bills - if they are totally still supporting you?..then if under their roof and living on their dime...then yes, you have to abide by their rules.
I'm not understanding though- I wouldn't have a problem with 25 - if my daughter was 18...doesn't seem THAT bad...but, as I said - all depends if you are truly living on your own (which is what really translates as an adult) or under their roof...sorry hun...seems a shame...that's not really that many years (not to me) Of course it always depends on the guy himself. Maybe they see something they don't like and are just defaulting to the "he's too old" point. If he was married before, has kids, not working, etc...then they might have reason to be hesitant to let you date him. Hope it all works out.
2006-09-11 14:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that is my situation my girl is like 18 and I am 24. You know he is a cool guy he should meet your parents and try to charm them. If that doesnt work well like everybody saids you are 18 u can make ur own decisions good luck
2006-09-11 14:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hey! don't cry over this!! there are bigger fish in the sea than just him!! If he cares about you that much he will wait till you move out of your parents house, chances are he won't cause guys that age just want to bang and run. Sorry to tell u that but its true and your his prime target!
good luck
2006-09-11 14:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to work it out with your parents. Maybe just try being friends with the guy first. If not, find someone closer to your age, there are many fish in the sea. Hope this helps :D
2006-09-11 13:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Trista 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rub the vomit in your hair and fashion your pillow case into a diaper. Write on your bare chest in ancient runes, "100% cholesterol free" and in this manner, confront your parents about their control issues.
2006-09-11 14:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 18 n hez 25.its ok.men shud be mature.going out wid mamaz boy embarreses me.its simply fine n ok to date wid dis age difference!
2006-09-11 13:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 7 years separate you Does he look old or what? No need to cry though, better meet him and have fun..just do it!
2006-09-11 14:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Owl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live at home? I am dating a guy who is 27...I am 20. Age doesnt matter
2006-09-11 14:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋