He was into drugs for a bit, went to jail for a year, and is now in rehab, but has been clean for nearly a year. I have great interest in a relationship with this man, but I do have two small children to think of.
2006-09-11 07:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by heandI 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at his age, and for the amount of time he has been clean, I would say the chances are pretty good that he has seen the error of his ways, and has truely decided to clean up and move on to a life of sobriety.....good luck
2006-09-11 07:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me u can do better! Its not worth the stress of him robbing u for drug money or having DSS take your kids away cause some jerk phoned in that there is a drug addict in your house and ur kids are in harms way! Go fishing for some one else and stay away from the bottom feeders will ya!!
good luck!!
2006-09-11 07:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard because once an addict ALWAYS an addict. It really depends on HIM. You never know when addicts will fall off the wagon....neither do they. I tried to live life with an addict over and over again and it failed to the point that I REFUSE to get with an addict. This is my experience...it doesnt have to be yours. A apart of me wants to say take the chance...the other part wants to say don't do it. So I say he needs to get his own place and you need to feel him out for a while. I wouldn't expose him to the kids unless I knew for sure he was going to be around. Its a wait and see type of thing.
2006-09-11 07:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50% and is greatly influenced on him. Can sway either way. You go girl. Just make sure he knows up front drugs are not an option for you.
2006-09-11 07:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people can change and kick the habit, but then again some people dont change so you have to be cautious, im not saying dont date him, but keep a hawk eye out for his behavior, but dont act like mother hen, because if he really did kick the habit, he will resent you for not trusting him
2006-09-11 07:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance, see what happends.
2006-09-11 07:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋