Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

My wife an I have been married for 18 yrs
We have had our ups and downs
A few months ago I got a anonyms letter stateting that my wife had meet someone at a local Club and they have allso meet near her work at least once, the letter was very detailed, witch makes it seemits someone that knows us!
They also know about a new car that I had bought, and she was upset with that
(She know about that before I bought it)
And it also said the she needed to leave her alcoholic husband
About two weeks later a Birthday card was left at my neboures home addressed to my wife no name was on the card just said “sorry this is sooooo late- SOON”
Yes I drink but not near the level that the letter states (but may be I do)
It has gotten me to think(A Lot)
I did confront her about this and she denied it whole heartily (which the letter said she would do also----like anyone would admit it)
I dont whant to throw it all away on that DAMM letter

2006-09-05 12:44:52 · 4 answers · asked by William 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it's horrible we still have gender inequality these days, shame on all of you!


*goes back to his tv and cheetos while his wife is working*

2006-09-05 12:44:15 · 16 answers · asked by Alabama lib killer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My favorite number is 5 b/c it was 1/5/05 when me & my boyf start going out... Today is our anniversary well kind of...lol... we r going out 4...1 year & 8 months...so what's your favotite # & y?

2006-09-05 12:44:04 · 19 answers · asked by solymar 3 in Family

I always wondered how embarrasing that would be

2006-09-05 12:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by Calamity 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife came home from work drunk yesterday, I was there with my girlfriend wilma and she burst in all mad. I told her to calm down and then wilma jumped out the back window of the trailor. while she was running she got her foot snagged in one of my wifes bear traps. I had to go get her out of it. I dont know why my wife keeps bear traps outside, she said somthing about her pet possum stinky, but i dont care.

So how to I get my wife to accept that wilma is apart of our lives. My wife is pregnant again, and so is wilma, but i think wilma will make better mother. I would rather be with wilma anyhow. So what do i do to keep my wife from flying into a rage and trying to hurt her? Shes already started trash talkin her at Walmart, where they are both employees. Wilma works in the gardening section but my wife is just a janitor. Wilma just bought me a computer, so its obvious she cares about me more then my wife does.

2006-09-05 12:43:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

neither of my kids god parenst are very good at keeping in touch, for me its not the religouse aspect, but the ethics of friendship.. when my elder son died, one set of god parenst just dropped off the face of the earth.. some times it would be nice to share some of those special memories with them, even after 17 years.. and i do send cards at xmas, birthdays etc..

2006-09-05 12:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by dianafpacker 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my friends always did that.she want to stop it now,But she can't...

Can u help her?What shall she do?Or can I help her?

2006-09-05 12:42:40 · 13 answers · asked by ninaz2t 1 in Friends

Some people say it is for American citizenship. I don't rule out the possibility of this but I don't think this is the case with every woman who marriy someone in that circumstances. Could someone help me understand their reasons and mentality please?

2006-09-05 12:41:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or should u wait till he asks out u?

2006-09-05 12:40:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know how 2 tell my mom that i want and need birth controll pills...

2006-09-05 12:40:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with my boyfriend and i was wodering if that was the right thing to do... I broke up with him becasue he said that he wanted time for hiself and now i am all hating myself cause i feel like crap... I still love him and i am scareed that i did the wrong thing... Please help me.

2006-09-05 12:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by Sara Z 1 in Singles & Dating

I run naked down the local high street, i was totally wrecked because i remember it was snowing, I don't drink half as much now........ lol

2006-09-05 12:38:49 · 29 answers · asked by Grizley Bear 3 in Friends

How can I get my dad to see the woman he married is not good for him he's a devoted deacon in the church and we are always hearing stories about this woman he married that she is on the street (crack head) she went through all my dads money like water she's gone for days at a time and the just come back to the house like nothing happened. I need advice on what to say to my dad b/c I feel he can do bad by himself but he'd be a lot better if she was gone

2006-09-05 12:38:15 · 12 answers · asked by Sassy Sistah 1 in Family

I asked this question yesterday but the response is poor. I don't mean legally recognized marriage. I just want to know if people get close enough on the Internet to want to have a virtual reality spouse.

2006-09-05 12:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

also is artmoney.exe a virus

2006-09-05 12:37:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 8 months gives me headaches. I knew we were different people when we met but thought hey? We love each other but he's got low self esteem. I think its because of his lack of education (he failed his matric 8 years ago but he's been working for almost 5 years now). I am a masters student at a university. I have had several relationships with guys of my literate level, which failed. I either found guys who are not available or just selfish guys who used me.

Ever since I met this guy, everything changed although I had fears about OUR future financial security. I felt love for the first time in ages. We planned to get married but I fell pregnant b4 it could happen.

We were both excited as we've been planning a family together. But the problem is that he likes drinking out with friends and stays up late, and sometimes he returns home the next day. I forbade his behaviour but he never listens. We fight over it& it hurts me. What should I do? Will this relationship work?

2006-09-05 12:36:56 · 6 answers · asked by brandy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the boy who asked me out for the 7th time has already dated me 6 times. and hes my nieghbor. ive told him no, but he just keeps on asking me. hes been in love wit me since first grade.

2006-09-05 12:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by chocolatecat592 3 in Singles & Dating

What kind of answers do you give when people keep asking "when are you getting married?"

2006-09-05 12:36:12 · 37 answers · asked by sexy sultry 1 in Weddings

My day: wake up at 2:00 am, and not fall back asleep. Get on a bus at 6:30 to drive an hour to orientation for a new school. Have orientation with 45 other girls, 40 of whom I don't know. Get home at 11:45. Go to the airport at 3:00 to say goodbye to brother and his family who is moving to another country. come home and have a tylenole because I'm not really not feeling well. Can you spell rough day? I'm really stressed out right now and i need tips on how to relax. Help!!

2006-09-05 12:35:48 · 7 answers · asked by yourstruley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

k! i got this problem! i was with this guy for about 5 months. and we broke up for the summer just to take alil brake of each other. so when sckool came we started talking again. ok 3 days past and i call him and he sayz" ya some one told me that you broke uo with me for some one else!!" and i told him that it wasnt true!! cus it wasnt!! and he said " well i dont really care no more cus i have a gurl friend anywayz." and his girl friend is one of my good friends. i cant stand looking at them together it hurts me bad!! and it always catches ma eye when they kiss and stuff!! i dont kno what to do!! help me out here please!!!

2006-09-05 12:35:15 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dont get me wrong all of you, he did not cheat on me it was with his 2 previous partners (his exes) over a 12 yr period. Plus I know they both would say no being confronted by me. But hey that still does not mean to say that they did or will or still continue to have. And I am sticking with my gut instinct, even though I may give him the benefit of the doubt and yes this woman is married I believe even though I have not seen her husband with her. So what do you do?

2006-09-05 12:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've always had our grievances.
she is jealous of me, I was the homecoming Queen, I married a rich man, I adopted to sweet girls, ...and she is forever making rude remarks to me.
No matter what I say or do, she doesn't like my friends, my kids do wrong, and she thinks I talk, and laugh too much.
When we both go home to visit Mother, she thinks that I get all the attention, and not her.
I really want to be close to her.
I've aplogized over and over again about what I have done wrong.
She I just ignore her now? Should I send her flowers? She lives 6 hours from me, so I can't just go there.
We are suppose to fly down together soon to visit Mother, and I am dreading it!!
what would you do?

2006-09-05 12:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by tuna 3 in Family

You girls show off a lot when you perform certain exercises. I love those bent over dumbell rows. Do you hate it when guys are checking you out while you are trying to workout?

2006-09-05 12:33:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to this guy for a couple weeks and we hung out a few times. Everything was great, but we did sleep together. I wrote him a message telling him that I hope I didn't give him the wrong impression by sleeping with him and he told me that he was upset that I would think that about him. However, he has not called me or acknowledged my presence since last Wednesday. I think I should break all contact with him because I don't think he's into me like he said he was. I want to send him an email though. Should I send him one?

And I want it to say something like how I wish things could have been different between us, and that he's missing out on something great. What do you guys think it should say??

Guys out there: what would you want to see in an email if you were the guy in this situation?

2006-09-05 12:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by kankles919 1 in Singles & Dating

is this normal. my husband is a little disapppointed at me

2006-09-05 12:32:57 · 21 answers · asked by justsexy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a feeling that my sister in-law is jealous of me. For one thing, she's 21, married, has a 16th month old daugther, is a house wife with a GED while her husband works full-time in the Construction business and yes, he makes money and is supporting her and their daughter. The thing is, she is jealous in what I have and get from my own husband. I'm 25, married, no children yet, I am a house wife, college graduate and know that when I got engaged my husband had bought and given me a really nice engagement ring worth a lot while the engagment ring she got from her own husband was decent, but not as good as mine. She used the word "jealous" in a sentence like, "April, I am SO jealous of you and I sure do love your engagement ring!!" Her husband was nice enough to buy her a ring that he could afford from Sears while my husband bought me a ring that he could afford from a place you don't need to know.

2006-09-05 12:32:50 · 12 answers · asked by Bobcat9 2 in Family

This is assuming he's in love with you as well...maybe just afraid of commitment.

2006-09-05 12:32:11 · 17 answers · asked by jh361 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 12:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont get what the big deal is with girls asking boys to dances.? is it ok or not ok.? plz help me!

2006-09-05 12:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by jesso 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were born...we just started dating but i realy want 2 go farther with him....like sleeping with him...but im nervous...what should i do?

2006-09-05 12:30:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships