My sister put me on ignore!!?

Question

We've always had our grievances.
she is jealous of me, I was the homecoming Queen, I married a rich man, I adopted to sweet girls, ...and she is forever making rude remarks to me.
No matter what I say or do, she doesn't like my friends, my kids do wrong, and she thinks I talk, and laugh too much.
When we both go home to visit Mother, she thinks that I get all the attention, and not her.
I really want to be close to her.
I've aplogized over and over again about what I have done wrong.
She I just ignore her now? Should I send her flowers? She lives 6 hours from me, so I can't just go there.
We are suppose to fly down together soon to visit Mother, and I am dreading it!!
what would you do?

Answer 1

sounds like your both 13

Answer 2

I actually have a youthful sister and a youthful brother ( it rather is like residing hell ) For ignoring your youthful sister it rather is what you're able to do: - in simple terms think of she isn't there and dont answer if she is chatting with you (in simple terms forget approximately approximately her) dont difficulty if she shouts she will lose interest with it If she tells your mothers and fathers say you didnt hear it constantly artwork nicely it rather is an previous approach yet constantly artwork out stable so stable good fortune x) i'm hoping that this could help

Answer 3

You said thinks I get all the attention.....well is it possible that you do have a tendency upstage her inadvertantly? It may just be that you are excited about the things in your life and want to share them with her, but sounds like she feels as though you aren't interested in her stories. Maybe while visiting your mother, you could take extra care to be interested what she has to say. Also be sure to have a talk about your relationship. Find out why she feels the way she does and how the two of you could go about working things out. While on the topic of your relationship, you may also want to ask why says rude things to you, and tell her it hurts.

Answer 4

You shouldnt ignore her I mean she is you sister....So dont ever ignore her...sending flowers wont be good ethier.I think having a good life is really important since you have one life.If you dont have one than you will have a bad life.If people are jealous of you since you have a better life than them..you really should not take it away from you cause not everyone has a good life like you.SO try talking with your sister and settle things with her.It was her responibiltiy that she no good life.You did a very good job at what you were supposed to do.

Answer 5

why don't you try sitting down and talking to her. I don't think sending flowers will help, because that's like kissing-up. And try to make sure you don't get that much attention from your mother, that could be a start. But other than that, this isn't your fault, so don't worry to much. You guys will come around.

Answer 6

It's her not you. Consult her about it. Find out exactly what happened. She is jealous that your life came out better than hers. She may be going through hard times like money problems and she doesn't want you to know for fear of being mocked and rejected. Hon, give her time if she doesn't want to talk. Hope things turn out good for you and your sis.

Answer 7

Give your sister a compliment everychance you get, I know it will feel like your just letting her walk on you, but she's insecure about you, so let her know you're not a threat, but don't just say it, you have to ACT non-threatening. Compliment her, tell your mom about the wonderful thing she did, if you can think of one. She wants to feel admired, so try and be as nice as possible.

Answer 8

there is not much that you can do. my sister and i are not close at all. in fact, we have not spoken since my mothers funeral. mother knew that we didnt get along and knew that we would be sworn enemies after she died. she was right.

she was always jealous of me because i was the baby and closer to dad. i was always jealous because she was mothers golden girl.

i just kept visiting mother when she wasnt around and she returned the favor. i dont speak to her and she doesnt speak to me for reasons like mothers funeral when she tried to get me thrown out of the funeral home because i brought her daughter with me for support. she doesnt appreciate the fact that i am close to her daughters and they wont speak to her.

thats just the tip of the iceberg.

if you cant get along with her, just visit when she doesnt. call your mother often. why are you supposed to fly down together? is there a law that says that you have to visit at the same time? can you schedule a visit with your mom coming to see her on the same day that your sister is going to leave?

best wishes on this one. just remember, it does hurt your mother that you dont get along, but it would hurt her even worse to have to listen to you two fight.

Answer 9

theres not much you can do leave it alone.doesnt sound like she is ever going to give in to your happiness and will be jelious of you for ever you can only do so much to try to make someone happy.i also would go to my mothers at a different time why make your time with your mother miserable.its not fair to you or your mother not including your children.they dont need to be in an imviroment as such.so be happy for yourself thats who counts

Answer 10

sounds like you havn't done anything wrong... ignore her and hopefully at some point in her life whe will want to know her sister. if she treats you badly.. don't push a relationship. good luck!!!