me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were born...we just started dating but i realy want 2 go farther with him....like sleeping with him...but im nervous...what should i do?
2006-09-05 12:30:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you are young still. Take your time. Know the consequences of sex. There are diseases, babies, stuff like that. You need to have a candid conversation with him & learn some stuff. You may want to have a conversation with an adult too.
2006-09-05 12:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie, I know everyone else will say: Save sex for marraige. I too, like to think that is the best solution, but it doesn't always work cause it didn't for me. If it works for you, great, I'm happy for you but if not: always use protection no matter how long you have known him. When the moment is right for the two of you to sleep together, you will know. It's not something you really have to discuss and figure out. You and he will both know that something more is about to happen. It's not something you can plan. But please be careful.
2006-09-05 19:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it and why are you nervous? Rejection? Ask him: Could we talk about sleeping with you? then... Listen. Listen. Take a few days, weeks, and let him choose too. Write down what you might decide and dates and review it. Often, we don't really hear their answer unless it's written. It's always negotiable even written but more tangible and less assumptions. Let him choose too as you are needie and this will pass, hopefully, to a more calmer situation.
2006-09-05 19:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by nanbeloved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, here's a NEW plan!
Close your legs, finish school, get a degree, get a great job and become successful. Pick your husband from the top pedegree.
OR, go ahead, get knocked up, watch him run away, be a child raising a child, don't even dream about a future that doesn't include the term W.I.C., food stamps, welfare. Yee Hahhh!!!!
2006-09-05 19:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok , heres the deal. Next time he does a pooh, kick down the toilet door and scream BOOH, he will jump up startled. Then examine his pooh, If its an off green colour then he is in heat and ready. If its dark brown then he is not time. You must be quick now , you may only see a glimpse of it for seconds. Good luck and happy mating.
2006-09-05 19:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be honest with him. If you want a relationship with him, you have to let him know exactly how you feel. You could get rejected, and your dreams could come true. Go for it.
2006-09-05 19:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Why be in such a hurry to grow up. There is plenty of time for sex later in life.
2006-09-05 19:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 'till u are older and then consider marriage. THEN sleep with him.
2006-09-05 19:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by Roger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married. If you save yurself for him, he will love you forever.
2006-09-05 19:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Movie Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first.
2006-09-05 19:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋