Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

2006-09-05 12:30:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell her parents that she's leaving to join me in aus to live and work here, its long distance at the moment but she's comming out here at the start of next year and she has no idea of how to tell her parents,
she's 19 so techneclly her mum and dad cant do anything to stop her but I want the blow to be softened so to speak.

serious answers only thankyou,

cheers.

2006-09-05 12:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been married for 5 months now. I am 27 (with a 7 year old who lives with her mother) and she is 20 with a 4 year old. I am currently a full time college student (making a little money since I am a veteran) and she works full time. We have huge debts (which is killing our marriage), but she insists on wanting a baby! She is "sooo" ready to have one and I keep on saying I wanna wait. My reasoning is we are NOT financially ready to start our own family! Money is a huge problem and she has been throwing this in my face "You can't give me anything I want. A house or a child!"
Am I wrong for feeling like this? Wanting to wait since our marriage has been very, very rocky since the beginning. My goal is to have a house and start a family by the time I turn 30. And she has known that since the beginning! I keep on asking her to be patient!

2006-09-05 12:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Stuart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So I like this girl she likes me & we kiss and do all that ****. We're not going out so I guess were more of friends with benefits. But, we like to spend a lot of time together & talk on the phone every night or w/e. But, she got a job and goes to work like right after school till late at night. And frankly i go crazy until she gets home. I can't find anything intresting to do. Any ideas on what i can do?

p.s. Don't say get a job. Cus im not gunna --

2006-09-05 12:29:52 · 5 answers · asked by Luckiest Guy Alive 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It was because of our sins and salvation that Jesus died on the cross for us. The world now has nothing to offer mankind, but the prophecies that the Bible talked about concerning the end of the world are all coming to pass. Don't go to hell and suffer, turn unto Jesus and let him save you and take you into heaven. Simply, pray and ask him to forgive you of your sins and accept you as his son, and you will see the change that will come into your life. God bless you my friend.

2006-09-05 12:29:26 · 25 answers · asked by Sam M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It was because of our sins and salvation that Jesus died on the cross for us. The world now has nothing to offer mankind, but the prophecies that the Bible talked about concerning the end of the world are all coming to pass. Don't go to hell and suffer, turn unto Jesus and let him save you and take you into heaven. Simply, pray and ask him to forgive you of your sins and accept you as his son, and you will see the change that will come into your life. God bless you my friend.

2006-09-05 12:29:10 · 18 answers · asked by Sam M 1 in Weddings

i have moved out 3 months go and took my kids due to a mental abuse marriage. my husband has moved in the same complex that I lived in. we have 2 girls ages 8 and 12 he moved in a one bedroom townshouse. he kept my girls while i work afternoon. child support if about to hit him and i know I will have a problem becuase he is money crazy. he never gave me any money and said i will never hand you any money. he is materialital what i want to know outside the stuipd husband i have is will the court or judge order him to get a two bedroom for the girls he feel he doesn't have to because he has a sofa bed. also why do you think he moved in the same complex as be. I haved to leave because i was tired of his be havior. also he told me i was a wife, this isn't a marriage and I didn't marry you to take care of you. he would leave so I had to because I didn't wasnt to tolerate his action. we i left he had to because to placed was in my name. he said i broke the family up.

2006-09-05 12:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i allow my daughter to see my mother n law when i know she has a problem with me?

2006-09-05 12:27:23 · 35 answers · asked by sexy sultry 1 in Family

In a domination/submission lifestyle relationship when the Dom collar's his sub is it the same as a marriage in a vanilla relationsip or engagement?

2006-09-05 12:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by wonderingmind 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I kinda want to know because im the only black girl and my whole school, so whenever i have a crush, it on a white guy , but they never seem to like me!

2006-09-05 12:26:36 · 34 answers · asked by blackbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

Why?

2006-09-05 12:26:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of a year and a half is eleven years older than me. i have two kids, he has none. I am divorced, he has never been married. What are the chances of a happily ever after for us? He says he wants to be with me forever. Is this for real?

2006-09-05 12:26:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ordinarily I despise/fear online matchmaking but 2 of my close friends have met really great people from it. One of them is actually getting married after dating the guy for 4 years. My friends told me to try, but I still have my doubts. I think I might be better off just meeting people in person. What do you all think?

2006-09-05 12:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by naijababy425 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 12:24:18 · 27 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried to trust him, he has had affairs in his past. they both are acting a bit nervous of late, and also I have asked him - his reply was no. Just need to ask her. My intuition is saying yes they did have an affair when they both were away last wk in the same place. I cant shake the thought out of my head.

2006-09-05 12:24:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 12:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by Kara L 1 in Friends

ok u guys in ur opinion tell me if having arguments in a relationship is a good thing or not...ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and we havent had one single argument i told this to my friend and she said it wont last cuz u have to have at least one argument to make ur relationship stronger

2006-09-05 12:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by vanessa g 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 12:22:38 · 29 answers · asked by churchl8e 1 in Friends

Ok so i like this guy, and I was gonna ask him to homecoming but i haven't yet. And theres this other guy who just a friend but likes me as more than that, but he got a date to homecoming with the most hated person in the freshman class, and he was goin to ask me but got scared and didn't. i told him he shouldn't go out with the girl he's going to the dance with and he asked why i cared and i told him no one should have to tolerate the girl he's going with. (she's a b***h beleive me). anyway, i don't like him as more than a friend and I don't know if I gave him the wrong impression just then or not. I don't kno what to do! i don't want him to be hurt but should i just leave it alone or press it further. i don't want him to get the wrong idea. I'm still going to ask the guy i mentioned 1st 2 homecoming. but i can't help feeling it's partially my fault that the other guy is going with the biotchy chick because i would have went w/him as friends if he asked. I don't kno wut to do..HELP!

2006-09-05 12:22:29 · 25 answers · asked by Biscuit 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has gotten into it with her baby daddy in a real serious way I think she really cares for him but she thinks hes not really sorry for what he's done should she leave town or try and work things out for the sake of their child who's only 3 and neva had his father in his life.

2006-09-05 12:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Sassy Sistah 1 in Friends

We hear about it all the time, but what makes someone your "girlfriend"???

2006-09-05 12:20:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 5 and her father has been in and out of jail since her birth. she has his last name and i don' t see the point since he's never been around. I want to change her last name to mine or if thats not possible then hyphonate my name to the end of his. How do l go about doing this?

2006-09-05 12:20:49 · 13 answers · asked by vmesa3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 12:20:21 · 24 answers · asked by Hey What You Think? 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that i LOVE, and not just cause shes pretty, i mean dont get me wrong she's BEAUTIFUL, but shes also nice and kind and funny,(just to name a few things), and if i had to descibe her with a few words i'd probly say shes beautiful beyond desciption, too marvelous for words, too wonderful for comprehension like nothing ever seen or heard", and yes i no thats a christain song (were both chistain) but shes so wonderful that its the only way i can descibe her, and i think she might be "the one", and i gave my friend a note that said "do you like (my name)" and told him to give it to her and he did and she told him she would tell me next class (this happened on friday), but we got slit up in groups so she couldn't but friday and today (tuesday) she had plenty of chances to tell me but i think she's shy right now. and im pretty sure shes gunna say yes cause every time i look at her (which is as much as possible) shes lookin back at me. so whats up? Tell me as much as you can!!

2006-09-05 12:20:02 · 25 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been masterbating alot. The more he masterbates the less sex i get. how do i bring up the subject and talk to him without upseting him. I feel jealous somehow.

2006-09-05 12:20:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my mom do nothing but fight and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been dating a long time and we want to live together. i really want to get out of this house before i go crazy so what can i do or get to leave. and what are the laws against this?

2006-09-05 12:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by April J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife says that my family is not normal because we dont have alot of arguements when we are together. She thinks there is something is just not right. It is causing alot of strife between me and her. She is from a family that seems to argue each time we see them. I stay out of the fights and she gets mad at me when I dont take her side. I dont like to argue and that is all me and her seem to do because she does not let me be me. When my family gets together we enjoy it alot more when she is not there. I have two kids and they argue all the time and I want to change it,but I have no support because she thinks it is normal. HELP

2006-09-05 12:19:37 · 28 answers · asked by Tool 1 in Family

I'm bored but i'mm willing to talk to anybody right about now

2006-09-05 12:19:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

buns of steel or abs like a washboard?

just how important are these things too you? they make it sound like all women want to have both. What about you?

2006-09-05 12:17:17 · 28 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

yesterday me and my best friends boyfriend got into a big *** fight! and he told her until she got rid of me... he wasnt coming back... my friend chose him so now what do i do? he lies to her about everything and that was what our fight was about? i dont want to sit around and watch her get hurt by someone who is only with her for a free piece of *** and a place to stay, free food and a job? im stuck now without her and we have been friends longer than they have been together... im so confused!

2006-09-05 12:17:14 · 31 answers · asked by boicarazi12 1 in Friends