Ok so i like this guy, and I was gonna ask him to homecoming but i haven't yet. And theres this other guy who just a friend but likes me as more than that, but he got a date to homecoming with the most hated person in the freshman class, and he was goin to ask me but got scared and didn't. i told him he shouldn't go out with the girl he's going to the dance with and he asked why i cared and i told him no one should have to tolerate the girl he's going with. (she's a b***h beleive me). anyway, i don't like him as more than a friend and I don't know if I gave him the wrong impression just then or not. I don't kno what to do! i don't want him to be hurt but should i just leave it alone or press it further. i don't want him to get the wrong idea. I'm still going to ask the guy i mentioned 1st 2 homecoming. but i can't help feeling it's partially my fault that the other guy is going with the biotchy chick because i would have went w/him as friends if he asked. I don't kno wut to do..HELP!
2006-09-05 12:22:29 · 25 answers · asked by Biscuit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there , it sounds like you are worried about this guy . But i also think that you may like the attention that you are getting from him . If you are genuinely worried that this girl is gona hurt him in some way then give your opinion to him as a friend ( and don't call her a ***** cos that will get his back up ) and that's it . Best not to pick at it , all you can do is tell him what you think and leave him to make his own decision
2006-09-05 12:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone girl, ask the guy your talking about to homecoming. I think the other guy will find out what a b**ch the other girl is but you know some guys like girls like that. Also if he was to scared to ask you to homecoming, why are you worried about him. I hate to think that I worried about someone scared to ask me out; I mean what else is he scared to do or does he need mommy to hold his hand.
2006-09-05 19:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by tammy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weather the girl is a ***** or not it is the one that he chose to go to homecoming with and you should respect his wishes.. you are going to ask some one else so what do you care what he does..
ask your guy and leave your friend alone to enjoy his night at homecoming.. and remember it is your place to be courtesy if you happen to meet at the dance no matter what you think of her.. don't ruin his night because you don't like his friend.
just stay out of it
2006-09-05 19:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already made your decision as to who you wanted to go with, so ask him. Your friend is free to go with whoever he wants to homecoming....it is not your responsibility to make sure he goes with the right person. The other problem of you asking him and not really liking him (and he really likes you), is just making it more painful for him after homecoming. If he is a friend, then you need to treat him with respect and respect his decision. Don't play with his emotions...no fair.
2006-09-05 19:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?
Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.
2006-09-05 19:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r really friends with the second guy go with him. u havent even asked the first one. what if he sayd no. then ur friend will think that just because u got rejected u have come to him.if she is a real b...h then u have to help him and get him out of that. friends always come first
2006-09-05 19:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you wonderful little biscuit, you must pay attention to your spelling and grammer. You seem to be sweet and caring, However what the dear boy does and the crap he gets into with this "*****" as you call her is his fault, amusement and or experience. NOT yours! Learn to stay away from those who
disturb you to this degree. Choose friends with care.
2006-09-05 19:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by gordjca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you don't want this guy but you don't want him to be with anyone else. leave him alone and stop manipulating him. if he wants to go to the dance with this girl you hate it's none of your business. leave him alone. stop playing games and leading him on. you are giving him the wrong impression and it's not fair to him. the world doesn't revolve around you.
2006-09-05 19:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already answered it.
Leave it alone and don't give him the wrong idea.
2006-09-05 19:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Movie Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him live his life, you live yours. Be supportive when you can and forgiving when you have to. That is being a friend.
2006-09-05 19:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by icetender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋