A friend of mine has gotten into it with her baby daddy in a real serious way I think she really cares for him but she thinks hes not really sorry for what he's done should she leave town or try and work things out for the sake of their child who's only 3 and neva had his father in his life.
2006-09-05 12:21:05 · 12 answers · asked by Sassy Sistah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What has he done????
2006-09-05 12:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should stay and try to work things out for the sake of the child and herself. If she is willing and really loves him. If not move on but still keep him in the child's life. Take Care and God bless.
2006-09-05 20:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by sexy sultry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it involves being safe from him, she should leave with the child! But - be careful of the laws with regard to joint custody. There may be penalties for leaving the state with out permission from the other parent. If he is constantly cheating or hurting her (physically or emotionally) then he isn't a good role model for the baby anyway.
2006-09-05 19:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by saraelsa78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd be better if she left....Whatever he did to her in the past, he's bound to do it again..Like they say "A tree that grows bent it's roots will never straighten.." If they try to work things out it will most likely last for a few months and then he'll take off. That's what happened to me....Why wait til the baby is 3 yrs to come into her life as a stranger???
2006-09-05 19:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should move on and look forward to a normal, better life for herself and her child. A better man will come along if she loves herself and her child enough and decides not to settle for less.
2006-09-05 19:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur friend has to make that decison... i mean if u have n e thing to do with it talk to her about it and then talk to him... try to let them work it out and if that doesnt work than u come in and solve it for them... she cant move though b/c her son is at stake too... and if her baby daddy wants to get involved in the child's life than he needs too... its never too late i promise!
2006-09-05 19:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by boicarazi12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave if he's been an asswhole trust me us women can be independent n who noes one day a really good guy might come into her life n he could be the father if shes lucky...to be the father it doesnt nessarily have to be the childs blood its really the person who brings him up
2006-09-05 19:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by jaslyndaunstoppablepimpett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the child's father isn't in his life and doesn't want to be, she should ditch him and get child support. my son's dad cheated on me,but he is still in his son's life. but he pays his child support so i can't complain too much,however i still have things to complain about. anyway i'm rambling, yeah she should ditch him.
2006-09-05 19:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by amariahliegh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babys don't keep parents together and usually are better off if the parents aren't together. Its her call though. Best of luck to her!
2006-09-05 19:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should leave. Move onto another home and find someplace to be happy.
2006-09-05 19:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends... father has a say in it too.
2006-09-05 19:23:30 · answer #11 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋