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Should I be concerned about this relationship becoming abusive?
Should I be concerned about this relationship becoming abusive?
I'm getting married in the next few weeks but, I have some concerns. Lately he seems more controlling but, only in the way of what he says is what goes, regardless of what I say. Sometimes he talks to me like I'm only 12 yrs. old. Lately when we wrestle around he hits me harder than what I think he should. BUT he has never been physically abusive at all. He has called me names when we've gotten in arguments and only then. We petsitted for some friends of ours and the puppy would use the bathroom in the floor and he would spank it too hard, hard enough I couldn't watch and then throw it in the floor. My bird bit him and he thumped it and knocked it out for a while and told me that anything in is house is not going to act like that. I'm not sure if it something to worry about or not, as far as the way he might oneday treat me? He has always treated me like any girl would want to be treated, that is why I'm confused???.
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19 hours ago
He is not the jealous type at all. He does not follow me everywhere I go and he does not try to be right up under me all the time. He does not question my every move or acuse me of cheating or anything. So a lot of his characteristics are not those of an abuser. This is why I am so confused.
2006-09-05
00:19:58
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