Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

he llies about money and things he calls little. i love him but my health keeps getting worse ...he adds stress to my life........should it be that simple?

2006-09-05 01:16:38 · 27 answers · asked by sissy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 01:16:14 · 17 answers · asked by jc041174 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi.
My wife had a brief affair with a married man she had long had a desire for a while back. It ended - as far as I know - about a year ago. Just to be sure - and I hate doing this - I checked her cellphone for any sign that they were still in contact. I havn't seen any messages or record of calls made from or to this man by my wife.

Recently, my wife has asked me for a separation because - as she says - she wants her freedom and the fact that she does not have the same feelings for me as before. (We have been married for 6 1/ 2 years - we have a 5 1/2 year old son )

About 2 weeks ago I checked her cellphone and found that she has been in contact with a man I have never heard of before. She sends and receives message and calls from/to him. She has even ended one message to him with "your darling" .

My question is should I confront her ? Or don't even bother since she evidently wants a separation from me. Just for the record I have never cheated on her .

2006-09-05 01:15:17 · 32 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 01:15:02 · 12 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married, but I like someone else also. I have never expressed my love for her. But I think she has guessed it. I feel that going ahead is possible, but in the long run it might result in spoiling her life as well as my life and the life of my family members. I am staying with my wife and family, but I feel that my wife is more interested in my income than me. I earn well. I don't know what will be the future of my marital relationship. My daughter is 10 yrs old. Therefore I am not taking any drastic steps. I really really don't know what should I be doing further ???? I am sensitive and easy going in nature. Not very tough type. God fearing type. I feel that I deserve a good love life as well as I fear that I will land in soup if I persue with this. I am struggling with this dilemma. Can anyone give me logical choice in this?

2006-09-05 01:14:00 · 12 answers · asked by Roger 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 01:13:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best time to have sex ????

2006-09-05 01:11:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....and you had your attacker by the testicles, how hard would you squeeze?

2006-09-05 01:10:01 · 16 answers · asked by andy_anna_jones 1 in Singles & Dating

stefano2sharks@yahoo.com

2006-09-05 01:08:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 01:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by Shengjie Su 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 37, m. am i too old to make GFs.

2006-09-05 01:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by aftab24ff 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 01:07:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1st, this is a long distance relationship. She has many male friends which is ok, but 1 bothers me. I started talking to her in may and fell in love, the male friend that bothers me was her lover in April then just became friends, he talks to her several times a week, mostly him calling her. She recently went out with him for drinks without telling me, taking pictures of them together. Then this weekend as I came up to visit her I’m trying to call her because the road signs are in French and cant get through, she was on the phone with him and it was just past midnight. There is a party coming up this month in which they were invited as a couple and she says she may go and that bothers me allot. Am I being stupid or am I right to be hurt, even if nothing is going on? There are more examples like this I could write, and I think it would be different if he was an old friend not a resent lover.

2006-09-05 01:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by axl_32779 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my mum made friends with these german couple and now their beutiful hot daughters are living with us for 15 days, and its up to me to take them around gozo(where i'm from), to the beach, ect....(lucky, am I not?).

But I fear i'm to shy to ask one of them out, i'm usually very shy around people. I already know they like me, coz I overheared them saying, but I really want to ask them. any help please. I don't usually ask these question, but ...meh I really like one of the girls.

What I really want to know what can I say, when to say it and what to do to get to kiss her......

2006-09-05 01:06:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 01:05:59 · 15 answers · asked by Dreamer 3 in Weddings

why do men give their penises names. Like for example "little [guy's name]" and that sort of thing.

2006-09-05 01:04:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I deserve better. So what should I say to him?

2006-09-05 01:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my adult stepdaughter says my husband made advances towards her, which he is her father....she went thru both sides of our families and told it...I am very humiliated and he says it is not true...what should I do? I need some good advice

2006-09-05 01:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by ondrea b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 01:04:21 · 6 answers · asked by shanota 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i meet this chick on a cruise, i danced near her, and later on in the night she approached me, we ended up chatting and going on a date the following night (we're now going out). I later ask her out of curiousity what her first impressions were of me on the night, and she thought i was weird....i felt pretty bad about that.........normally a chick who thinks ur weird wouldn't approach u and go out on a date now would they? wouldn't they normally avoid u from atleast a 20 m radious?

2006-09-05 01:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 01:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by blue moon 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 01:02:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine has been taking advantage of me.. Our thing is "Let's do Lunch" ..well lately he will say to me, "hey if you pay with your $20 I'll get the money back to you later" First it was 5 bucks for his meal at taco bell last week (okay thats no biggie, 5 bucks, no big deal right?) Well yesterday it was 12 dollars at Big Boy..( he said he would bring the money to my work later in the evening and never showed up). So a couple weeks ago I invited him to this dinner for a lady we used to work with.. and i said i would pay his portion if he'd accompany me.. except now im out the money for those OTHER dine-outs so I feel like he should pay his own way on this one.. how should i go about it? He is very schmoozy and clever and I'm too spineless..argh.. HELP please!

2006-09-05 01:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by yes_i_am 2 in Friends

2006-09-05 00:58:16 · 20 answers · asked by Moo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she thought my name was billy, i told her it was willy, she said she watch my tv show, and i was very silly, i told her i was from philly, she look at me said really....................now wat?

2006-09-05 00:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by blue moon 2 in Friends

i can't stand the l;ittle bastards myself, so where is the urge?

2006-09-05 00:57:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a situation where my wife of 7 years has realized she no longer has the fire for me. She loves me but is not in love with me anymore. We have been together a total of 10 years and I want to know if there is anyway to help her get the fire back? I have always given everything I could to her. The reason we grew apart was because we work opposite shifts so our daughter never had to be in day care. The time apart must have brought some kind of void into her heart. We are working on getting the flame back but she refuses to speak with a professional to see if they could help us? Can someone please help me?

2006-09-05 00:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by modega3131 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is that picture really you???
Of course it is why would anybody put a picture
up of a bald fat 42 year old if he wanted to look good?


Here is the proof it is me
http://www.freewebs.com/andywhoelse/


If i wanted to put a false pic up surely i would put a slim younger guy with hair on

2006-09-05 00:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When is the best timing to take your boyfriend home and meet your parents? I and he are dating for a year, we are in a long D relationship, we meet 4 to 5 times a year, he is not living with his family, they are in another country. He suggests I should meet his mom and family sometimes, and he said he wants to meet my parents next time he is in town. Well, I am not sure if it is suitable to do that now.

2006-09-05 00:57:02 · 4 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 00:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by shveta 1 in Family