Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

Is it normal to have an erection everytime I am close to my wife? This has been happening in the last 4 weeks. Our sex life is great, better than 10 years ago. Please advise

2006-09-05 03:03:19 · 26 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy Jason at a party two years ago. We kissed before I went
home that night. Anyway, I only got to see him once after that before he
rejoined the army and I had to go back to college. We kept in touch and
actually I'm not talking to him at the moment. Why? Well
Almost a year after we met he told me he was interested in other girls.
(One of whom is a good friend of mine Jenn Hoy and this other girl named
Claire.) I told him I couldn't compete with friends for that. Jenn Hoy
finds another boyfriend so she's happy now. Jason and I decide to be
friends. Anyway, he tells me that he got stationed in Ft. Lewis. I thought
that was cool because I go to college in Washington state. Anyway I see him
when he gets there and we end up making out. But he still says friends.
Anyway we keep in touch after that. Then I find out some friends of ours
got stationed in Ft. Lewis too. ( Aaron and his wife Amber.) So the four
of us hang out. He makes out with me again and still says just friends.
Time goes on. I get added to Jason's Yahoo 360 page.
I'm bored and I'm looking at who Jason has on his buddy list and I come
across Claire. I click to go to her page and I read some of her blogs.
Jason is the only guy she writes about. It says they're in a relationship
and she went to see him this past July. After they spend the week together
Jason says we're friends with benefits and that he and Claire are in an
open relationship.
( Meaning they can see other people.) I ask Claire if it's the truth
because of what he said to me. Claire doesn't email me back. Instead I get
a phone call from Jason saying he's upset about what I asked. He said it
seemed like I was trying to break them up and that luckily he and Claire
are very honest with each other and he would never cheat on Claire.
However I know he's been online dating her and he had a girlfriend in
Seattle at the same time at one point. This is on top of making out with
me mind you. I haven't really talked to him since. My question is should
I completely rat Jason out to Claire so she knows what he's been doing if
she doesn't know already. Or should I just let her figure this out
herself? Im asking because she deserves to know the truth and if he is
doing this behind her back she deserves someone better.

2006-09-05 03:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Singles & Dating

steve erwin the croc hunter ..... :-O.............man he was the best.!.how did he die???? i heard a rumour tat a sting ray stung him or sumtin................is tat correct?

2006-09-05 03:01:56 · 23 answers · asked by vu 1 in Friends

i love someone very very much , for me he is the world . but sometimes i feel he doesnt care about me , i dont know why i have such feeling , but this make me sad .

2006-09-05 03:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-09-05 03:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by applecheeks 1 in Friends

we were together for 3 yrs before he left the country and he is been so wonderful few years after he began to behave in a funny way he wont call.wont own up to his responsibilities i had to put up alot of reminders be4 he does them and whenever i made up my mind as never to call him even without his knowledge somehow he just get to know but i dont know how? and before you know he starts being so sweet and this is not once or twice so am getting bothered cos i've waited for too long for him and other suitors are coming but the thing is that of all that has been coming they dont have the qualities i want in a man.I am a christian and wants a God fearing man not just any man.Just help me out friends,looking 4ward to wonderful answers friends am worried waitng desperately to get your reply so i will know what to do.Thanks

2006-09-05 03:01:26 · 14 answers · asked by flo.g 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if your starting to go in the wrong direction?

2006-09-05 03:00:34 · 4 answers · asked by nm 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, Me and boyfriend have known each other for 8 years.. At first he was in love with me and i didnt want nothing to so with him I never knew if he was serious or not... It took me years to figure out that he really did love me and its been like a year we have been togther.just last month everything is goign down hill (very slowly)..It seems that when i didnt care for him at all he was always there for me , Call me for everything ..and know that im his girl Its like theres barly time for me..He could go days with out calling me if i dont call him i have to ask him wheres hes at.. I leave him messages and nothign .. He wanted a kid BADLY so we decided to try to have one .. I still dont know yet if i am or not .. We have talked SO MANY TIMES about the same subject he SWARES on everyhting that he didnt change, says he still loves me .. but i know there is something wrong and im tired of goign to sleep asking my self is it me ? or if i have made a mistake?

2006-09-05 03:00:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is 27 n a girl.she had a string of boyfriends but is currently single.we're pretty good buds but even so stuff she has been doing lately has sort of made me wonder what she is doing. Like:
1)she calls me all the time to hang out - even if its just to sit and watch tv. 2) she called me at work 1 day n asked me out for lunch -she paid 3) she has a bad nightmare one night n called me cause she needed to calm down. 4) i said i want to move to another city eventually n she said she'd go with me.
5) i picked her n her friends up from a pub this past weekend n when she got into the car she gave me this weird smile n then played with my hair.6) a guy friend stayed over at her place n i teased her about what might happen n she got all upset and told me "nothing was going to happen between the guy n her" and she wanted me to believe her cause she values my opinion of her SO much.7) she teases me all the time n brings up stuff ive said to back up her teasing.

what the?

2006-09-05 03:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

conceiving. I heard on the news about a woman who spent her young years in sports and stuff and decided she was ready to have a baby when she was late 40's and then had to use an fertility treatment or something because she had trouble conceiving. What do they expect. They had plenty of years to have children but chose to put other stuff first so I say they deserve what they get. Most of these women could have married earlier and had children but decided to put it off for more important things. They are very selfish giving their young years to sports or a career and then burdening their children with their old age when the children are still teenagers.

2006-09-05 03:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah well I have no guts so I called the girl I've had a crush on for 2 years and I used a microphone and turned up the pitch and literally sounded like mickey mouse. I told her I'm short and ugly and I've had a crush on her for 2 years (all true) but she doesn't know its me. She agreed to go out with me if I asked her out. She kept saying to turn off the mic so she could figure out who I am but I was too gutless. I'm scared of talking to her. I completely opened up on the phone and I think she was touched, but when she finds out its me she may cry cuz I'm ugly like ***. What do I do now?

2006-09-05 03:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

she punched me in tha face, grabbed me by my hair and slammed my face into the side of her car...then she burned my face with a cigarette.........does this mean she likes me? Oh and yes this is the girl from work that i secretly like....does this mean there will be a second date? or should i just give up on her and try gettin with my boss...i think it is bout time for a raise....

2006-09-05 02:59:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced for 4 years now, and I hate when my kids are away from me at their dad's. I get real depressed. They were gone over the weekend and I didn't have any fun, even though I was out with friends, I miss my kids terribly. Do you ever get over this feeling?

2006-09-05 02:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 02:58:50 · 13 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-05 02:58:49 · 14 answers · asked by hog4ubaby 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband seemed to change overnight. He is 63 and we have been together for 21 years. Some very tough times raising four boys and going through custody battles, teen years, etc.

Just over 18 months ago, he began to act differently, angry, judgmental, needed his space. No tolerance for anything. He loved me but was not 'in love'. He was ready to flee. We finally talked about seeing a doctor as he realized he was miserable and confused by all of this, too. It took months to finally get results that showed his pituitary gland was not functioning properly. Shut down pretty much. He now takes testosterone, human growth hormone, & cortisone. But, it is such a slow process to try various doses to see what will really work.

In the mean time, he has a 'friend' that he met early on when he first began to feel these changes. They talk maybe three times a day for about 2 minutes each time, see each other maybe an hour a week or less to visit.

I have a very hard time with this as we are having sex now, though not as often as before but we went 11 months with no intimacy so am happy to have this, at least. He swears he and his 'friend' are not having sex and with his lack of stamina, I tend to believe this. She is his 'comfort zone'. He says he can't explain it but right now it is important to him to have this relationship.

I just need to hear some success stories. Is there any hope we can get through this intact. How can I better understand and cope with his need for this woman.

I have read so much on all of this, talked with Jed Diamond early on, etc. I know hormones have so much to do with how we feel, behave, love, etc. But, it is so hard to share him. And so hard when others tell me he is using me and that he can control this but chooses not to.

He sleeps in his office trailer otherwise he is as much a part of this household as ever. We laugh, watch movies, eat together, hug goodnight and he goes out, calls her and goes to bed.

I need encouragement and help understanding......

2006-09-05 02:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by Cynthia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married to my sweet Filipina fiancee and it is very important for her to keep the Filipino customs before and on our wedding day. I will appreciate any information about the Filipino traditions - I want to surprise her nicely since this is very important for her.

2006-09-05 02:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Steve W 1 in Weddings

2006-09-05 02:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Joe Royal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and a half and we have tried alot of things to keep the sex life sizzling.but now i have a feeling he is getting bored.i dont want to end up finding out he is cheating on me cause he is bored.do guys always cheat when they are bored with their partners?i hope not.but any ideas on how to spice it up?details would be nice.

2006-09-05 02:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She ia my rolemodel

2006-09-05 02:56:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

Single has always meant to me "not married" but it seems that today people use the term to mean they aren't in a relationship. This really sounds ridiculous when I hear a teenager say they are single again, being that most teenagers, especially 15 year olds have never been married. I believe single means "not married" .

2006-09-05 02:55:39 · 21 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 02:55:17 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 02:54:24 · 4 answers · asked by PANKHURI M 1 in Friends

if you go out and see a girl in a very sexy outfit i.e low cut top high heels and a mini skirt and you saw she was being harrassed by men would you say she was asking for it dressed like that? or would you say women can wear what the hell they like without being branded easy?

2006-09-05 02:54:14 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is the situation. I rent a room in a house with a total of five people, the majority of us come from various countries.
Everything about everyone irritates this person, if it is not religion, it's a simple laugh. The people in the house treat him with respect even kindness, they give him a lot, yet he continuously causes misery in everyone’s lives.
It all started off good, I think we were even friends. But slowly my problems started to increase, but I really did not mind. Then I decided to quit my previous job, this afforded me time to stop and think about my current situation. I realised that I was telling him everything to do with my life while he told me nothing, he was using me, and I was treating the other people in the house extremely bad.
I try to distance myself from him, swallow my guilt and rebuild everything without him. Later, we had a heavy fall-out about something stupid. I want to get far away from his negativity. Help?

2006-09-05 02:52:56 · 8 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend asked me to marry him and gave me a tear drop shaped ring. should the wide side point in or the narrow side? or does it matter at all?

2006-09-05 02:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by adnama_n_werd 3 in Weddings

not much

2006-09-05 02:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by jorenfx 1 in Family

2006-09-05 02:51:20 · 6 answers · asked by nixhe_vip 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years, and our love life, friendship, communication, etc seems that it is almost all gone. I want it all back, but dont know what to do. I love this girl to death, and am TOTALLY lost. She is truly my all. What can I do to spark things back up? How can I make us both realize what we have? I really would appreciate honest answers and NO sarcasm. I am close to losing everything that keeps me going. We are stuck in a routine that is killing us...work all day, little time between us to relax, no time for a healthy sex life, and a lack of self-esteem between the both of us. Life seems pretty bad right now! PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-09-05 02:51:13 · 16 answers · asked by IdahoJoe 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 02:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating