Here is the situation. I rent a room in a house with a total of five people, the majority of us come from various countries.
Everything about everyone irritates this person, if it is not religion, it's a simple laugh. The people in the house treat him with respect even kindness, they give him a lot, yet he continuously causes misery in everyone’s lives.
It all started off good, I think we were even friends. But slowly my problems started to increase, but I really did not mind. Then I decided to quit my previous job, this afforded me time to stop and think about my current situation. I realised that I was telling him everything to do with my life while he told me nothing, he was using me, and I was treating the other people in the house extremely bad.
I try to distance myself from him, swallow my guilt and rebuild everything without him. Later, we had a heavy fall-out about something stupid. I want to get far away from his negativity. Help?
2006-09-05 02:52:56 · 8 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thank you for your anwers. I support someone else in the house, it is not easy to find another place with two rooms for rent in the Netherlands.
2006-09-05 03:07:26 · update #1
if you really can't move out - force yourself to stop talking to him. get the other people to help you, it sounds like they'd be more than willing. find something else to do with your time - don't let yourself keep thinking about this, it'll only make you feel worse. it's tough when you've got too much time on your hands, you tend to overanalyse and overreact.
if all else fails - chuck him out! its not fair to any of you.
2006-09-05 04:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by runtotheangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only supporting one person in the house. why do you need two rooms if you need to shift house?
If you have the will to move away, even if it is difficult, it can be done. What is stopping you from your action?
Something else seems to be holding you back. Be firm and move on.
2006-09-05 10:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the inner you deep down inside and stop taking the mental abuse.You are someone special love yourself enough to escape go to freinds and family if you need to but leave!!
2006-09-05 09:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not comfortable then find another living arragement. once ur out of there then do not bother with him. if he bothers u get a restraining order from the police.
2006-09-05 09:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new room with new people move out elanor rosevelt once said do the thing you think you cannot do
2006-09-05 10:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by pat m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to another house
2006-09-05 09:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move somewhere else.
2006-09-05 09:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat is forcing u to stay with him is not clear to me
2006-09-05 09:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋