My girlfriend and I have talked at great length particulary for my enjoyment about what she would do to another girls and what another girl would be allowed to do me. What do single girls think about joining another couple and how do girls in relationships feel about doing this. Of course not all threesomes involce 2 girls so how do men feel about the same situation but with another chap.
2006-09-05 00:22:55 · 17 answers · asked by Barry Von Leotard III 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ViolinChick09 answers like your are not really what I was looking for if you are insecure about sex and sexuality you should avoid answering questions which seem to bring out the worst in you.
Thank you to others so far for your reasoned responses. I see nothing wrong in exploring each others fantasies some of which are practicle some of which should remain just fantasies.
2006-09-05 00:41:21 · update #1
Hey good question. I am not single and have been with my partner a long time, we have fantastic sex. I would like to experiment with a threesome. I would like to have a threesome with my partner and another girl as I do not find the idea of having sex with two men attractive, which of course is all down to personal choice.
Saying that, I think you would have to choose carefully who the 3rd person would be, and, have some kind of code to let the other people know you are not enjoying it (if it happened that you didn't enjoy it) so as not to feel pressured in to anything.
2006-09-05 00:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my girlfriend is bi so a few times after being out drinking all night we've ended up back in my place with a 3rd girl. Only by mutual consent of course. The reason it works for us is because she doesn't get paranoid about the girl because she's never as good looking as my girlfriend plus I'm not allowed to have sex with the 3rd girl. You might think this would annoy me but it doesn't because there's lot's of great things two girls can do to a guy in a big bed besides penetrative sex, if you know what I mean...
2006-09-05 01:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I do not understand why a third person is needed.
This just means you arent satisfying her, or she isnt satisfying you.
There is a lot at stake when you involve that third person. One of them is sexual transmitted diseases. Then the next topper would be the emotions that might come about. Just say she falls in love with that third person then what.
If you are going to involve another male. If you haven't already experienced this. There is a lot that effects anal sex. One of them is it mental. You have to want to do it in order for it to happen.
I hope if you follow through with this you and her are VERY careful. And I hope the best out come for you and her both.
2006-09-05 00:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the obvious advantages I think this sort of situation is quite dangerous .. I mean .. what do you do if your girl decides she likes girls more .. what if you prefer the new girl more .. I think there is a whole range of emotional stuff that could go horribly wrong but if you are comfortable then good luck to ya!
Personally I would never share my girl with another man and so by comparison would never expect her to share me. I do think that 2 girls happens more since girls are more open with their sexuality than guys and more willing to 'experiment' without being convinced that they have become a lesbian ... guys reading this I am sure will know what mean .."errr...you are gayyyyyyy" .. childish but true :)
2006-09-05 00:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a threesome, as the girlfriend with another woman and my boyfriend. It completely destroyed my relationship with my boyfriend - though I won't deny it was a lot of fun at the time. How much do you like your girlfriend? Are you truly serious about her? If you are, skip the threesome. Curiosity kills. If you just want to have two women at your disposal for a night, go for it. See where it takes you.
2006-09-05 00:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a threesome with my brother and my girlfriend at the time. The main thing is that you distinguish between love and lust, which, me and my girlfriend could do, but my brother fell in love with her. I was living with him at the time, and had to move out, cause I had a small argument with my girlfriend once, and my brother pulled a gun out on me in her protection, and she looked over at him, and said"what the f are you doing?" We moved out the next day. He ruined a good thing. Remember this can ruin your relationship. Weigh the consequences before you do it, if you can handle it, then do it.
2006-09-05 00:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think threesomes are just the ultimate slap in the face. No one wants to hear that their sex is so boring that they need another person in there to help. I think it's disgusting, vile, and immature. You obviously don't love your girlfriend or you wouldn't be letting her or subjecting her to this sadisticness. Threesomes are for disturbed ppl b/c they are never satisfied w/ just one. And we all wonder why everyone is getting divorced now days. It's cause of ppl like you who destroy the base of a relationship! You are our reason for social dispair! Shame on you...Grow up.
2006-09-05 00:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by VandyViolin09 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I had a threesome when I was younger with 2 girls and it was top
2006-09-05 00:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by alismudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't live up to expectations (girl-girl-fella) and couldn't share my lady with anyone, so can't answer that one.
If she's cool with it (really), then give it a go, but I reckon you've got more to lose than to gain.
2006-09-05 00:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by BushRaider69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not do a threesome.
i think ithat if you are in a realationship and u want sex with someone else you should think whether that realationship is good for you.
one man at a time for me
2006-09-05 00:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋