i have moved out 3 months go and took my kids due to a mental abuse marriage. my husband has moved in the same complex that I lived in. we have 2 girls ages 8 and 12 he moved in a one bedroom townshouse. he kept my girls while i work afternoon. child support if about to hit him and i know I will have a problem becuase he is money crazy. he never gave me any money and said i will never hand you any money. he is materialital what i want to know outside the stuipd husband i have is will the court or judge order him to get a two bedroom for the girls he feel he doesn't have to because he has a sofa bed. also why do you think he moved in the same complex as be. I haved to leave because i was tired of his be havior. also he told me i was a wife, this isn't a marriage and I didn't marry you to take care of you. he would leave so I had to because I didn't wasnt to tolerate his action. we i left he had to because to placed was in my name. he said i broke the family up.
2006-09-05 12:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You may have to go back to family court and file to have the order made. Depending on what state you live in, most demand the children have a room to themselves. Having a one-bedroom isn't a big deal unless you're talking prolonged visitations. Your divorce attorney (or a court advisor) would be the best person to seek advise from.
2006-09-05 12:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Cambion Chadeauwaulker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. I think that the Judge should not put children in any environment of any type of abuse. But unfortunately society says that the child should have relationship with both parents. I think that the children needs to be protected from most parents.
I am so sorry that you are in this environment. More so for the kids.
Good for you for leaving. And don't worry about the child support thing it will happen Oh yeah he will pay. They will take any means possible sooner or later. You may get past due in one lump sum. Take it easy and get counseling for yourself and the kids. A support group is good! Don't forget to talk to your Minister.
2006-09-05 19:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a control freak on your hands. How can you move on with your life with him right there watching whatever you do? I would suggest that once you get child support, you move again to someplace close so that he'll still have access to the children, but secure enough where eventually you can have friends over. I don't know if you two tried marriage counseling, but you might be able to make things better for the two of you eventually if he gets some help.
2006-09-05 19:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will have to pay child support but he can also get visitation rights. He does not have to do anything with a 2 bedroom.
2006-09-05 19:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your self a faver get away from him with guys like that things can get bad and get his ss number because you will need that for child support keep track of all bills any mony you spind and any money he spind on the kids be cause he will try to say he payed bills or he bought things for the kids and so on keep notes and dates time placs things and people good luck
2006-09-05 19:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have the child support garnished from his wages. As far as the one bedroom deal. Contact an attorney.
2006-09-05 19:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by mistymeadoww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him taunt you. If he gets intolerable you can always file for a restraining order when you go to court...
2006-09-05 19:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him for everything he is a jerk my kids always come before me
2006-09-05 19:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What state u in? THAT MIGHT HELP!
2006-09-05 19:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LONG QUESTION FRND.
2006-09-05 19:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by babai_ib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋