ok u guys in ur opinion tell me if having arguments in a relationship is a good thing or not...ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and we havent had one single argument i told this to my friend and she said it wont last cuz u have to have at least one argument to make ur relationship stronger
2006-09-05 12:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by vanessa g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have to agree with your friend. I have been seeing my fiance for almost 3 years now and in that time we have only had two arguments but they were both doozies. If all remained perfect in relationships they would become a little predictable, so some disagreements/arguments can be very healthy for you both. Not continual arguing but the odd little spat is healthy and is good for relationships.
2006-09-05 12:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why the worry ??
U mean, having no arguments yet is not a good thing ??
Heck, dun every1 wants to be happy all the time ??
Actually, u might have arguments later, as it is normal. But please remember that those arguments are not done juz for the sake of arguing, but to make amends on the partner & the realtionship.
2006-09-05 19:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be good or bad.
If you don't argue because you communicate very well, and work out problems by talking, then it's ok.
But if you never argue because you bottle things up and avoid problems and issues, then that's NOT a good thing.
Maybe your friend is mistaking ARGUING for PROBLEMS. They are NOT the same thing. Everyone couple has problems. But NOT everyone argues in the same way or even at all.
2006-09-05 19:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been w/my bf for 1 1/2 we haven't argued we get along u don't need a argument to make a relationship strong. love makes it stronger not fighting
2006-09-05 19:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's harder if it turns out to be a long term relationship. My bf and I never fought for the first year. 5 years later we drive each other crazy. And it's all over the stuff we should have got out of our systems years ago. Good luck.
2006-09-05 19:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one agree's 100% of the time, so don't worry, You will eventually argue. Untill then, enjoy each other company, and when you do argue, keep a level head.
2006-09-05 19:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal u just have to keep the communication going
2006-09-05 19:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by sexy sultry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋