me and my mom do nothing but fight and my boyfriend is 18 and we have been dating a long time and we want to live together. i really want to get out of this house before i go crazy so what can i do or get to leave. and what are the laws against this?
2006-09-05 12:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by April J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I moved in with my boyfriend when I was 16 and now it is ten years later and we are still together. Make sure it is a good move on your part because you are the younger one here. Just saying if it does not work out with the two of you , you will be the one left without. I think you have to be 17 in the state of NH to be considered an adult where the police can't do anything or you need your parents permission.
2006-09-05 12:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing the laws will look at with you and your boyfriend living together, is what many people now call, "statutory rape." In other words, he would get burned for this and go to jail. Now to avoid this, there are some states that will allow marriage at your age. Some, but not many.
Next, he's 18, your 16. You're desperate to leave your parents. He's desperate to get in your pants ( testosterone peak ). Sounds like fun in the beginning, but then you both will have to work to make ends meet. Do you both have the maturity to accomplish this? What if you get pregnant? There are many sad stories of 16 year olds getting pregnant. I'm not saying you want this, but it can happen. Is he mature enough to deal with this. I don't think so. Trust me. Think long term before making any rash decisions. I know....I know....you're probably thinking, "but we love each other, and that's enough!" That only works in fairy tales. Life is a whole different game. Talk to other teens that made this decision, to see if everything went as they hoped it would. Good luck.
2006-09-05 19:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think different states have different laws about moving out at 16, but I'm pretty sure it's not legal. At 16, you are still a minor, so if you leave, your mom could file a missing child report and probably get you back. You only have 2 more years of being a minor.. if you and your boyfriend are still together then, you can move it with him; otherwise, you will have to deal with your mom.
2006-09-05 19:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by <3 Kaitlyn* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when i was 15 my ex was 18 my mother try to put him in jail because i was a minor but the police didn't do nothing because i made the choice to be with him.But i just wanted to get away from my mom, so trust me don't do it because me and ex was fighting almost everyday and he was cheated on me now im 27 and my son is 10 and he doesnt want to pay child support.So trust me if you think its going to better off living with your boyfriend then your wrong but please think this thru and good luck.
2006-09-05 19:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by ANNIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 16, you are still young and I'm sure that life at home is a drag but you need to hang in there for a couple more years. You are too young to be living in your own. You probably think its gonna be great but trust me, living in your own isn't all its cracked up to be. Sta home. Good luck!!!
2006-09-05 19:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young. You and your mom may fight but it's not going to be any better living w/ your bf now.
2006-09-05 19:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down,calm down,hold it right there,you should not trust your guy and what you suppose you do after you go away from home
2006-09-05 19:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by zee2wearefool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no darlin' this will be the biggest mistake you can make! I know, I've been there done that...
2006-09-05 19:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by SeraMcKay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it...Wait two years and then you can make that choice....
2006-09-05 19:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be stupid
2006-09-05 19:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋