I was talking to this guy for a couple weeks and we hung out a few times. Everything was great, but we did sleep together. I wrote him a message telling him that I hope I didn't give him the wrong impression by sleeping with him and he told me that he was upset that I would think that about him. However, he has not called me or acknowledged my presence since last Wednesday. I think I should break all contact with him because I don't think he's into me like he said he was. I want to send him an email though. Should I send him one?
And I want it to say something like how I wish things could have been different between us, and that he's missing out on something great. What do you guys think it should say??
Guys out there: what would you want to see in an email if you were the guy in this situation?
2006-09-05 12:33:53 · 9 answers · asked by kankles919 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were just a one night stand,and he's using what you said agiainst you. Or something could have happenend to him you never know! that's why he has'nt called
2006-09-05 12:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but he probally only wanted the sex! You can try the email it could work it depends on how u feel about the guy also.I Would try the email and attempt to fix the situation
2006-09-05 19:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by digibluh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try to organise another date first, if he flat out refuses then do send him an email telling him your feelings, its good to express yourself, as long as you dont see him regularly anyway and the email isnt really nastily worded.
2006-09-05 19:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paul H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's not making contact, than move on. If you want to send him an E-mail, that's fine I guess. But, it's not really necessary. Don't bend over backwards for someone whose not meeting you half way.
2006-09-05 19:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.......that answer he gave you is a standard. I think they teach that to all guys at like the age 10...lol jk. Serously, let it go and learn from the experience.
2006-09-05 19:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh id proberly answer back to you but i mena if it takes an email for him to answer you is he really worth it honestly, i mean you shouldnt have to chase him up it should be us guys chasing you just leave him and find a guy who will treat you like you should someone like ME lol
2006-09-05 19:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by liam_jones_10_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no...just let it go, play hard to get....do not contact him again....he will think you are crazy and clingy...let him be the one to contact you, if he doesn't then chalk it up as a life lesson learned.
2006-09-05 19:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweetiepi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be a player and played you good.
2006-09-05 19:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not like to see anything in an e-mail i would prefer you to do it face to face
2006-09-05 20:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋