What to do?

Question

My wife an I have been married for 18 yrs
We have had our ups and downs
A few months ago I got a anonyms letter stateting that my wife had meet someone at a local Club and they have allso meet near her work at least once, the letter was very detailed, witch makes it seemits someone that knows us!
They also know about a new car that I had bought, and she was upset with that
(She know about that before I bought it)
And it also said the she needed to leave her alcoholic husband
About two weeks later a Birthday card was left at my neboures home addressed to my wife no name was on the card just said “sorry this is sooooo late- SOON”
Yes I drink but not near the level that the letter states (but may be I do)
It has gotten me to think(A Lot)
I did confront her about this and she denied it whole heartily (which the letter said she would do also----like anyone would admit it)
I dont whant to throw it all away on that DAMM letter

Answer 1

This is hard one. It is hard to know whether the letter is for real or whether there is someone out there trying to make trouble for the two of you. It might be someone who likes your wife but whom your wife is not involved with. Also, could it be there is a woman somewhere in your life who has showed some interest in you but you've deflected her because you're married?

You can't totally discard the letter. I think you need to do some investigating of your own.

Good luck.

Answer 2

I agree with Sarah, there's a possibility that it's either someone who's stalking your wife or someone who's interested in you, and trying to break up the marriage.

Answer 3

Magnum P.I.

Answer 4

just go with your heart , and if your heart is telling you to ask her ,then just see and go from there .