This is assuming he's in love with you as well...maybe just afraid of commitment.
2006-09-05 12:32:11 · 17 answers · asked by jh361 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at least a year after that it's over or when i feel that our relationship has reached the highest point
2006-09-05 12:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by caramelcutie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I told him to marry me someday or i'll leave and my plan is before i'm 30(i didn't tell him about this coz the sooner the better) now i'm 26 (why i told him someday? coz that seems fair for both of us since we've been dating 1,5 years.. still need some time to get to know each other plus we have long distance relationship which is sometimes so hard!) hang in there for a while is not gonna hurt you but when the time is right let him know, if he can't then leave him.. there's no way another delay and wasting our times. People who don't wanna get married they usually already married before and divorced.. i've never been married and of course i deserve to get married someday coz that's like everygirls dreams.. to find the right guy, get married, have family and live happily ever after, hopefully, eventually, who knows? Marriage is not all about a piece of paper, for me it's stronger than that and i do respect a marriage and i won't ruin my marriage or others especially when it comes about disloyalty coz i know that there's no such thing as a harmless affair, they all harm somebody, they all break more than one heart.. and i don't wanna be somebody like that.. i just wanna be a better person in the future.. for my own good and others.
2006-09-05 19:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nadia Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was honestly in love with him then i would stay with him as long as it may take for him to be ready to commit there is no need to rush into anything if u ask me and just being with him would make me the happiest woman in the world. I mean all that marriage is, is paper work and a lot of money and all that can wait cause if u really love someone that is all that matters and as long as u are faithful to them then what is a peice of paper that costed all that money to express your love for one another
2006-09-05 19:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to a therapist I had talked too, most people are afraid of the committment, lots easier to walk away if you don't commit to anything.
I would sit down, have a talk, and see where that goes. If it seems like there is not going to be a committment, and she really wants one, I would pick a date (not too far in advance) and leave. Maybe that will shock him into realizing what he is losing.
2006-09-05 19:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by lynnette m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with him a while.... I mean, I am a little afraid of commitment too, so I'm in no hurry for the commitment/proposal thing. I mean, if I knew he was in love with me, that would make me pretty happy and be enough for me. :)
2006-09-05 19:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people feel like they have to be married! I would stay with someone forever if I had too, If we loved and respected each other that why do we need a piece of paper to prove it. Marriage doesnt last anymore anyway. Your better off just being common law. I was married once for 1 year, My relationships lasted longer than my marriage.
2006-09-05 19:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by RIA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i'm with right now had a terrible previous marrige that left him with uncertainties and some deep scars....because of this, i know he will probably never ask me to marry him...but he is the love of my life and i know how very much he loves me....he's already shown how he will do anything he possibly can for me, etc....so, to answer your question, even though i know i will probably never here "that question" from him to me...i will stay with him indefinately.....i love him and he loves me....is that peice of paper really so neccessary? i don't think so.....you can show your commitment to each other in other ways....thru your actions, and if u both truly love each other, than i belive you've already made a big commitment to each other.
2006-09-05 19:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by artstudent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only answer this based on my current relationship. He doesn't want to get married he has been married before. He is however commited to me we live together and i love him deeply and i will stay with him forever as long as he is faithful, and honest.
2006-09-05 19:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he treats me well and all my needs are met except for this one thing, probably until I meet a guy who treats me the same and is willing to commit.
2006-09-05 19:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by RedColette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im only 13 but if i were with a guy i would stay with him forever just because you dont propose dosnt mean i would have to leave you when your with someone specail your with them because you love them not because you have to marry them but propose to your specail some 1 when you think your ready to ... lsten if you need anymore help email me at lildixieprincess13@yahoo.com
2006-09-05 19:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now...you said "never", then I guess I didn't care.....lol.
But realistically, I wouldn't pressure a guy at "any time" as to a time limit on giving me his last name.
Marriage is not for everyone. What does it validate that isn't already validated in your affection toward one another?
2006-09-05 19:38:45 · answer #11 · answered by Inquiring mind wants to know.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋