Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

My dad, he just came back from Iraq after 4 months of being away(he's not a soldier just a civilian worker) and although I'm really happy to see him again, it feels like I hardly know him any more. I've had millions of emotions and thoughts run through me since he's been gone all building up to when he got back, and now its like I have nothing to say. I dont know how to tell him how much I've missed him, how much I love him, and how much I would give to see he more than a week or two every four months. I'm a bit of a wreck and just dont know what to do.

2006-07-24 15:57:28 · 14 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Family

We've been on for 8 months but I feel like this is not going anywhere. He always wants to go out with friends and party all the time. He makes me feel special but his lifestyle is just not what I like. I also go out but not as much as he does. How will I break up with him in a nice way? I feel trapped.

2006-07-24 15:57:25 · 7 answers · asked by yodge_123 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother and my boyfriend's brother got into a fight and I sided with my boyfriend's brother because I felt that he was right. I got into the physicality of the fight and knocked my brother out. Everyone in my family that doesn't know about how the fight started is so angry with me, they refuse to talk to me. What would any of you done in that situation??

2006-07-24 15:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i have this beautiful ring from my fiancee that is my promise ring/engaggment ring and i want it to be my wedding ring. my fiancee however thinks we should get a new engaggment ring like a princess cut or something like that and a new wedding ring. hes like "you can of course keep and wear your promise ring but on your right hand. i want to get you a real wedding ring set." so my question is do i let him or do i put my foot down and say i want my promise ring as my wedding ring and thats final? so what do i do? im not a selfish person as some of you might think. my ring is just very imortant to me and i dont want to take it off my left had and replace it with a new ring. ya know?

2006-07-24 15:56:45 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

My brother and my boyfriend's brother got into a fight and I sided with my boyfriend's brother because I felt that he was right. I got into the physicality of the fight and knocked my brother out. Everyone in my family that doesn't know about how the fight started is so angry with me, they refuse to talk to me. What would any of you done in that situation??

2006-07-24 15:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Family

I have to get this one boy. he is sooooooooo hot. And when were together what do boy and girlfreinds do? Thanks!!!

2006-07-24 15:55:27 · 18 answers · asked by ~I <3 dogs~ 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend, well soon to be fiancée is in south korea right now in the army i was wondering is it as crazy as iraq or is it a little safer. please help i love him to death and i want him to come back so we could get engaged and one day get married.

2006-07-24 15:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by Edwina n 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am not really sure what to do about this problem I have. I am 15 and pretty much get easily aroused. For example, when I am grinding with a girl and shes hot, after a little while I might get an erection. I don't want to get embarrased or have it be awkward. Also, I know when I get get close and kiss I am gonna get one too. I am really not sure what to do.

2006-07-24 15:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by Fitzpatrick 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone!

I have looked and looked but all of the flower girl baskets that I have found (Michael's, Hobby Lobby, Garden Ridge,online etc.) are tiny! My flower girl is 8 years old so I wanted something a little bigger. The ones that I have found are so small that only a few petals can fit into them. I really want the flower girl to have a variety of flower petal colors and to be able to throw enough to be visible.

I thought about making one, but I don't want it to look cheap or home made. Any ideas? Pictures would be perfect! Also, if you know of a bigger basket that I can purchase, please let me know!

Thanks! :-D

2006-07-24 15:53:25 · 19 answers · asked by bridetobe 1 in Weddings

2006-07-24 15:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by Hesaya 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 15:53:11 · 21 answers · asked by Dreamy Lover 2 in Singles & Dating

would you pick a girl thats blond and acts like it or a girl thats blond and is really smart? Or even in-between?

2006-07-24 15:52:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive got a friend that goes with this girl thats my friend also.. i just found out that he cheated on her and has another girlfriend.. should i talk to her and him about it seperately or should i just leave things alone? (ALSO i feel more closely with the girlfriend) should I tell her NO MATTER WHAT?

2006-07-24 15:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Earlz 1 in Friends

I want to settle down, but I've realized the reason I date miscellaneous women is because I find 'parts' of what I want in all of them: fun in one...fineness in one...straight 'freak' in another...intelligence in one...ambition in another...time is wasting if you will... So lower my expectations and settle for the one with most of the qualities I desire or hold out for the 'ONE' ? tick...tock...tick...tock

2006-07-24 15:52:30 · 13 answers · asked by Doc 2 in Singles & Dating

I grew up watching my dad and brothers. I can do alot around the house. Well I have to do all of it. So I would think he should appreciate all the hard work I do and the money I save us. He only acts as though it's no big deal and honey could you please go fix the leak in the attic while you're up! I get so frustrated and begin to think why the heck do I need him anyway? I guess because he is the father of my children. Just frustrated!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-24 15:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by lisalou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is that when u have an guy baby he started thinking that you is his property and he can controlling your life and say mean things to you and just treat you like crap why is that???

2006-07-24 15:51:28 · 3 answers · asked by cowanelmo 4 in Singles & Dating

I found that I like to stay with the man who is over 20 years old than me. and I feel happy staying with him. I know we wont get married in the end but i still like to stay with him talking and exchaning ideas.

2006-07-24 15:50:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Every time he has a boyfriend I get totally ignored! Every time he does not have one he spends most of his time with me.

Even when he is spending time with me, I feel really depressed, because I know that soon I will not see him for a long time, because he will be ignoring me! :'-(

I am kind of selfish, but I wish I had him all to myself.

2006-07-24 15:50:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has express the urge to go to the Navy. She says she would want us all to go (move ) where ever she is stationed. I would possibly do this but I don't think it would be fair to put the household finances completely on her and does the military pay that much? I would have to leave my well paying job that I just started about 4 months ago. What do you guys think.........thanks

2006-07-24 15:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by Atypical Marvel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is a correction of my last question..how stupid of me to use the word and yet....many got two points from it:);) now here am waiting..

2006-07-24 15:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by tshingk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met a girl like a year ago,she was living with her boyfriend since 7 or 8 years ago,in january i started looking at her and she told that their relation was getting to the end,i told her about what i was starting to feel to her and we started to look at each other as more than friends,we didnt had sex,just foreplay,she left this guy a couple of months ago and asked me for time,she needed space for herself,she went to spain like 3 weeks to vacations and when she returned she told me that she wanted to be alone...no boyfriends in her life,she didnt want to feel trapped again in other relation.
i love her,and that hurts me,know we are just like friends,i want to know her better and that she knows me better too.
what can i do?i want her to be with me?i started to think in having like a freelance relation with her,i dont know,i really love her.
every day is the same,i think,i dream with her
i need your help....thank you

2006-07-24 15:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 15:48:29 · 6 answers · asked by ainZ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 15:47:58 · 5 answers · asked by ryle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 15:46:44 · 31 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 15:46:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you really love that guy and want it to work, but both of you have issues with the other person should you walk away now or try to work it out? What if you argue about stupid things and call each other names when you're mad, but make up later? That gets old after awhile. Is there an easy solution to a simple problem?

2006-07-24 15:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by babegirll23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If your girl gave u head and then all of a sudden stop giving to u would you cheat on her or would u leave her and find someone that would give it to you

2006-07-24 15:45:25 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a complete and total virgin, i have never popped my cherry, because im catholic and dont believe in premaritual sex, i am getting married and i want to beable to have great sex after my wedding, but i do not want to ruin it by having to stop because i am in so much pain or not to beable to enjoy it because i am so uncomferatable. my body type is 5'10 well breasted and 125 pounds does that mean anything? , i have waited so long and said no to so many people (being the most popular girl in my school in highschool didnt help) i just want to beable to not be in tears on my wedding night. what should i do?

2006-07-24 15:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend who promised me the world... told me that he loved me. And I believed it! Last May he needed $200 to for a consulate appointment to get a visa to come visit me.. and he asked for my help. I sent it. He told me that they "denied" his visa..and the money was nonrefundable. It wasn't until last week.. he told me he doesn't love me and that he doesn't want to be friends anymore. AND.... he admitted that he "USED" me all this time (a period of 3 years.. we met when he was in bible college in the U.S. He graduated last year.. went home due a teaching contract in his country at a bible institute).My heart is broken. I honestly believed in his goodness because of his profession. I was mistaken. I have spent at least three thousand dollars on long distance... not to mention presents.. on birthdays, Christmas..etc... I am asking for advice on how to deal with this.. I am hurting.. Please help!

2006-07-24 15:44:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with my bf. We have been together for over a year. He tells me that he is waiting to get a new apartment, settle things with his kids,etc before he ask me to marry him so he can't give me a timeframe and if I loved him I'd wait. WTF? Any advice? Guys, I would love to hear your thoughts. Is this his way to buy time or do men like to get things situated first. BTW I am 33 and he is 29.

2006-07-24 15:43:49 · 34 answers · asked by A M 3 in Marriage & Divorce