Ive got a friend that goes with this girl thats my friend also.. i just found out that he cheated on her and has another girlfriend.. should i talk to her and him about it seperately or should i just leave things alone? (ALSO i feel more closely with the girlfriend) should I tell her NO MATTER WHAT?
2006-07-24 15:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Earlz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are a true friend to both of them you need to talk to them. You dont have to do it seperately but if u feel more comfortable then thats fine but she's basically getting her heart broken behind her back and thats not right. If you dont tell her and then she finds out on her own or from somebody else then she will be very upset with you and probably will think "What kind of friend is he?" As for him, he's not a positive influence and u need to talk to him and tell him that what he's doin isnt right!
~Rickeisha
2006-07-24 15:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can get in the middle of it if you can handle it but yes, you need to talk to them individually and get them to confess to one another. Now, if this guy friend does not know that you know then you can get you girl friend to catch him in the act by accident. If he know then you can still do the same thing since you really didn't(did) know that he was there.
Or you can really sit on this and see who you really love the most and then let that person know about it. Now a day, people will just think you're lying so proof is really needed to avoid upsetting of the friendship.
Good Luck!
2006-07-24 16:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay out of it......you don;t want to get involved in people's relationships. That is a whole other animal. Just keep quiet and let the relationship play itself out...you may hurt someone or get hurt yourself
2006-07-24 15:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, let her find out on her own. Just pretend you don't know anything. It will keep the peace between you all.
2006-07-24 15:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋