If you really love that guy and want it to work, but both of you have issues with the other person should you walk away now or try to work it out? What if you argue about stupid things and call each other names when you're mad, but make up later? That gets old after awhile. Is there an easy solution to a simple problem?
2006-07-24 15:45:51 · 13 answers · asked by babegirll23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If the relationship is not going anywhere, don't settle.
You're better than that.
2006-07-24 15:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by treday25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years... and possibly have called each other names a total of 3 or 4 times.
This isn't a simple problem. If it were a simple problem, you wouldn't be on here asking for an answer.
I think deep down you know what you need to do... but you're looking for "Answers" to be reassured that it's the "right" thing to do. When did you start doubting yourself so much? When he started calling you those names?
Personally, I feel that if it gets to the point where there is even semi-regularly name-calling... the relationship is too far gone to ever repair. But you didn't need me to tell you that, did you?
2006-07-24 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by hottiewithin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you two are very compatible if you fight all the time. I would move on and find someone that you can be happy with. It sounds as if the only way you two could make it work is for one or both of you to change, and love is supposed to just happen, you shouldn't have to change in order to be together.
2006-07-24 15:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by tamitones1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Relationships aren't easy for anyone. If you don't see it going anywhere it would be easier to walk out now before you get too used to being stuck in a place you don't enjoy anymore.
2006-07-24 15:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by DragonHeart18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, well where do you want it to go? and why?
some times people argue because they feel comfortable with their relationship.. they fight over petty things to make things more exciting, to fill in the void, of actuall happiness. i know it's strange but i doubt you'd get that answer from anyone else, i was a victim of that, but now we're married, and we're good, it was a big relationship phase. ithappens to people who've known eachother for a really long time.
2006-07-24 15:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to picture your self a couple months or even years from now. Do you see any improvement or do you see your self not going anywhere. Wanting it to work isnt enough, if you can see things improving then give it another chance but if you dont end it.
2006-07-24 15:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by mistyeyed12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone argues. What are you arguing over and more importantly how are you arguing?
If you attack the other person while arguing, you shouldn't be in a relationship until you grow up. Very black and white, it's a yes/no answer.
2006-07-24 15:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously don't think it's going to go anywhere even if you do fix the problems, end it now, otherwise it will just make it harder for you both.
Today my boyfreind and I have been together for 9 months too! =)
Good luck!
2006-07-24 15:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my bf for over 4 years and we have never argued on disagreed and never any name calling, we have always talked it out and worked it out
2006-07-24 15:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it takes two to argue, so next time just walk away. You will be much happier.
2006-07-24 15:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋