Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

I was adopted at birth. It was set up by my adoptive dad's boss and his wife. We are still in contact with them, and they said whenever I'm ready, they'll tell me everything. I'm 18 years old. Last week, I found out for the first time that my birth mother wanted to have an abortion but it was too late. I feel incredibly hurt. I used to think that my adoption was because she loved me and knew she couldn't take care of me, but now I know that she would rather have killed me. No one else understands. I am now contemplating contacting the couple that set up my adoption because I'm tired of not knowing and want all of this to be behind me. I guess what I'm looking for here is support and suggestions on what to say to my adoptive family- who is the best I could ask for, by the way- from people who actually know what I'm going through. Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2006-07-24 16:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can't help it I love a big rack. I see them everywhere I go. I wished my fiance had them. I think I will not be satisfied with a small breasted woman. Should I ask her to get a boob job?. I know this sounds very shallow but I can't deny what I really like. Help!

2006-07-24 16:47:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's more of an artificial means of showing intelligence. An attempt to deceive those, into thinking they are knowledgeable.

2006-07-24 16:47:09 · 10 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

I know it's a rather old question, but I've never really gotten a solid answer... I like a friend of mine but he likes another friend of mine. He acts like he likes me, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't... Like, he flirts and everything, but I'm pretty sure that's just how he is... What do I do?

2006-07-24 16:46:37 · 2 answers · asked by mysticrose1989 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a BF, and i love love love him, but theres another guy who has it in 4 me!!! whenever he comes around, i feel all wierd and like nervous 4 some reason!!! help! explain plz

2006-07-24 16:46:35 · 5 answers · asked by NiChkoLe 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey all,

How do I ask a gal out that is currently my best mate?
we always bounce ideas off eachother and am always there for the otherone whenever they need it, I said that I want to take her to aussie post xmas sales and get her some things and she sobbed "ohh dude" cause it appears that i am the only guy that really cares bout her atm, sounds fair in this case.

But still my question is how do I go about asking her out without making a fool of myself?

answers from both guys and girls will be accepted for this question.

thanks
Mitch
Launceston, Tasmania
Australia

2006-07-24 16:45:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well there's this guy, and we've been friends for bout a year now, and i really like him, and a couple of my friends think he likes me, but it really doesn't seem like he likes me like that. so should i make the first move, or should i wait and see if he makes the move!!!!????!!!!

2006-07-24 16:45:32 · 12 answers · asked by luvin_life 2 in Singles & Dating

Today is my birthday,25/7/1984.

2006-07-24 16:44:13 · 22 answers · asked by ally 1 in Friends

what is the most romantic thing your spouse, gf/bf has ever done for you that has become a memory of a lifetime?

2006-07-24 16:43:53 · 19 answers · asked by babieshay27 3 in Marriage & Divorce

You've told me to ask him out, the guy that I've grown up with, but I'm not sure how...he's one of my best friends, like my brother! I need clever, calm, and cute ways to ask him to be more than that!!

2006-07-24 16:43:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

little stupuid white lies, silly s*** that shouldnt matter, but does.

2006-07-24 16:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes i feel bored, need someone to talk to as afriend

2006-07-24 16:42:40 · 4 answers · asked by Andy 663 1 in Singles & Dating

We had dinner at his parent place. Normally, after dinner, less than 5minutes, we will leave and return home. But last night, they stay and talked for long time. But I wan to go back take shower. he had taken his at his parent home le. I try to hint to him that but none of them take notice of me. soon, I got very angry and show my "Black" face to them. now my hubby is angry with me, saying I dun respect him. But I already apologise and explain to him. However, He dun accept. He sound as if he wan a break off.

What should I do?

2006-07-24 16:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by ping_er_18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-24 16:41:09 · 10 answers · asked by camjamal 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if you found out your sister talked to your boyfriend of 6 years x-wife for a hour about you and him

2006-07-24 16:40:43 · 26 answers · asked by smileaway25 2 in Family

2006-07-24 16:40:24 · 9 answers · asked by strawberry shortcake 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 16:40:09 · 27 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl was mad at me today and i was trying to find out what was wrong. I had ask her but she wouldn't talk to me. I was trying to find out what on her mind Because She wouldnt speak her mind. So she have a journal that she write in. She write everything in the book that on her mind that she couldnt speak on. So i had read her book because i want to know what was going on her mind and try to work thing out.

Am I right or wrong what i did?

2006-07-24 16:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by bxscooby85 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 16:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by Sheetal 1 in Friends

THERE IS THIS GUY THAT CALLS AT MIDNIGHT AND HE CALLS PRIVATE BUT HE DONT ANSWER HE JUST STAYS THEIR I ASK HIM A QUESTION THEN TELL HIM IF THE ANSWER IS YES PRESS YOUR PHONE ONCE AND IF THE ABSWER IS NO THEN PRESS TWICE AND HE DOES BUT THEN LATER HE PUTS A LOVE SONG AND I ASKED HIM DO YOU LOVE ME TAHT MUCH AND I TOLD HIM THO PRESS ONCE FOR YES AND TWICE FOR NO AND HE PRESSED ONCE FOR YES THEN I ASKED IF WE HAD GONE OUT BEFORE AND HE PRESSED ONCE FOR YES ALSO SO DOES THIS MEAN THAT ONE OF MY EX'S STILL LOVES ME

2006-07-24 16:39:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a family member (who's age I won't tell, but it's over 40) who's never lived by herself. She's always had someone to cook her meals, clean her laundry and fix her messes when she gets into trouble. Unfortunately the person who did this for her passed away a few months ago, and she's on her own.

Now, here somes the hilarious part.

I'm 19. She's now looking to me as if she wants me to be the 'replacement'; to clean for her and cook for her and fix all of her problems. Now, what do you think is the best way to tell her to 'leave me alone, take care of your own self' in a nice way? I don't want to anger her; it wouldn't help. I just want to get her to start depending on herself to run her own life. Any advice?

2006-07-24 16:39:24 · 8 answers · asked by Bluejay 1 in Family

I caught my wife sleeping with a black guy from next door, she assured me that is would not happen again but the other day I come home and early and she was walking from next door. She said she was only taking muffins to him, yeah right, she was all sweaty and her hair was a mess. So I told her sister and she said , well we should go have sex in your bed while she is working and lets hope she catches us when she comes home, or you can just tell her we did it. Should i do this? I am kinda scared my wife might divorce me over that.

2006-07-24 16:38:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 17 year old girl and I always get approached by much older men or psychos (threatening to stalk me) anyways...what is wrong with me? I have always been known as the nice, Christian girl with good morals and who is always friendly but shy around those I don't know very well but I laugh a lot smile a lot. My guy friends tell me I am beautiful, which I know isn't true, but I know they think of me more as a sister. I like to do well in school and I really don't enjoy the crazy party scene and I would rather hang out with my friends than drink a lot. There have been opportunities I have had with guys, but I wasn't for sure if they liked me and I was too afraid of rejection so I just let things go. I just get so tired of people asking if I have a boyfriend and then asking why I don't have one, like I have to explain myself. Then I feel that something is wrong with me. Is there something wrong with me? Thanks so much for any advice and God bless!! :)

2006-07-24 16:38:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Mom has been having dreams that i had a baby and it's a girl and i name her Jessica My mom said she has been having this dream every nite , what do you think about this?

2006-07-24 16:38:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really, really like my best friend. Everybody says he really likes me to and that we'd make such a cute couple, and he sorta acts like he likes me. I've asked him out before and he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. After that incident we were sooooo much closer. What should I do?


oh yea, it's like a weekly thing i go over to his house with another of our friends and her boyfriend, which is his neighbor. we almost always play truth or dare, my girl friend said that she was going to dare us to kiss eachother, neither of us ever back down from dares, and both swore we never would.

2006-07-24 16:38:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would this love be true? depending on time

2006-07-24 16:36:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Collagen in lips, but implants, belly liposuction with fat transferred to butt and hips, tanning beds too.

2006-07-24 16:36:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i have a HUGE probble okay I have finnaly found a guy that i like he has every thing i want in a guy and he is hot and funny he is just perfect well there is one probble he is two years younger than me should i go out with him or leave him alone

2006-07-24 16:36:06 · 8 answers · asked by hot chik#1 2 in Friends

if i took of all my close infront of u and tuched and kissed u all over?
just wondering ♥

2006-07-24 16:35:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 16:35:30 · 4 answers · asked by Douglas Merran 2 in Singles & Dating