Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

I am 6 months pregnant expecting my first child a son in October. My ex dumped me the first Saturday in June he said that I am to hormonal and I was to bitchy. He then had the nerve to tell me that he didnt think that the baby was his. Now he is sorry and he wants me to take him back but I feel that I shouldnt because of the way he acted. Should I forgive and forget and accpet him back? I have also decieded to give the child my last name instead of his is that a mistake as well? Please someone help me figure this mess.

2006-07-24 17:51:13 · 29 answers · asked by stacyda20 2 in Family

I love my wife with all my heart, please don't get me wrong but I am never satisfied sexually. I think she loves me equally too. I am now beginning to questioning the opinnion "one woman may never be enough for a man". I don't want to cheat on her. I don't think I need sex therapy because this problem happens only after having sex with my wife, it's like "where is the beef" you know what I mean.

2006-07-24 17:47:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my brother was bribed by his grandparents into moving in with them(he is my half brother).they said they'd give him a truck and ciggarettes.he left us.i was really close to him and i cant hardly talk to him when he does call which is seldom because i want to cry.the last time i talked to him he was in a bar and was coughing up blood.he said he would see a doctor.i guess he's okay now and is living with his drud addict of a mom.they are just alike now.ive been breaking down when i think of his betrayal and i know i shouldn't cry but i do.i'm not a drama queen i just break down thinking about it.he was my best friend then he abandoned me his own half sister.my sister is way stronger about this but i am weak and i tear up over what he did .do u have any advice?

2006-07-24 17:47:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I befriended a tenant in my building one day (small talk) in the laundry room and saw her from time to time. I really do not want anything to do with her anymore. She askes to borrow money because she is always short but has money for cigarettes and booze???? I suspect she is an alcoholic because I smell it on her breath everytime we speak. She is now knocking on my door upwards to 3 times a day and I just wish she would go away. I am tired of giving excuses i.e. I am tired, I was napping, I am cooking. What can I say to her to leave me alone respectively of course.

2006-07-24 17:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by littleflower 3 in Friends

2006-07-24 17:46:11 · 3 answers · asked by lvsshanom 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother and his wife are having problems concieving a child i discovered this unfortunately when i overheard it after a staying in his house (wish i hadnt) ... he spoke of the treatment being expensive i know he can afford it im in a possition to assist him financially in other words pay for it ,do i offer it to him i feel sorry for him and his wife .. my brother is the kind of guy who would be embarassed about it but i want to help as far as im aware these matters should be attended to as hastily as possible or should i mind my own

2006-07-24 17:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by jasonvdklooster 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

she says she loves me but broke up after i was late getting together

2006-07-24 17:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by alone again 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you be like??
What power would you have?
Would you be a good super hero?
Would you be a bad super hero?
Would you have theme music? If so what??

2006-07-24 17:44:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my bestfriend that is a boy ive been friends with him for 7 years .i love him now and im scared to tell him what should i do

2006-07-24 17:43:33 · 25 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Singles & Dating

There is one thing I've noticed about women, both ones I've been involved with and not. Whenever one of them left somebody who was a total jerk, whether it be that they were abusive, a cheater, deadbeat dad, or all of the above or other things, they will defend him until the end, but they over scrutinize and over analyze and hold the nice guys to a much higher standard. This is one thing I've never understood about women...can any serious responders shed some light on this??

2006-07-24 17:43:30 · 12 answers · asked by bigracingfan2002 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sick and tired of women lying that they don't care about penis size as much as what the man does with it. Do u really want to convince me that a guy with a 2 inch penis satisfy u, becuase the poor man try so hard to move it in and out so u can even feel it. I mean, c'mon. I don't want to be with a guy whose penis is too small for me to even feel it, no matter how hard he tries.

2006-07-24 17:42:57 · 16 answers · asked by jimma j 1 in Singles & Dating

You hadn't talked to your boyfriend for two days, and were supposed to meet up somewhere today but he never showed up and you keep calling and are told he aint home?

2006-07-24 17:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a pretty good job making $8.78 an hour and itll go up sometime within the next month to 9 something

but do you think i can afford to move out with a room mate??

how much does rent usually cost if you have a roomie and will nearly 9 dollars an hour be enough to cover the cost??

and

im also a full time student who can only work around 24 hours a week during the year

2006-07-24 17:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by Mj 4 in Family

heres the deal... Don't you hate it when you think a guy likes you but in the back of your mind you know thats not possible because of age, skool, siblings...then somthing happens and your all excited but after the magics ovr between you he pretends nothing ever happened...So i ask: Was i just part of his weird guy hormonious moment or did I really mean somthing to him?

2006-07-24 17:37:49 · 15 answers · asked by Andie K 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 23 year old wanting to know how I can get an older women to be interested in me. I think she already find me attractive but is reluctant to show her interest because of our age difference. I think she is in her late 30s or early 40s. I find her very attractive and want to know how I can approach her without making her feel uncomfortable. Please help.

2006-07-24 17:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 17:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by larry j 3 in Singles & Dating

my grandma died last night and when i heard that, i started crying cuz i wasn't very nice to her when she was alive... actually i was awful to her... and when i look back, she did so much stuff for me... she carryed me home and to places wheni was a baby, she did my laundry (and i said ewww to her ) =[ and she also gave me money to me on new years... and... she just died quietly last night... =[ what can i do to make it up to her?

2006-07-24 17:36:31 · 28 answers · asked by mizzang3la 2 in Family

i have had it with my sons father.i don't know what to do anymore i'm fed up with his bs he keeps on threating me about taking me to court,ghe exspects me to be scared of him he's even made threats to me saying that he is gonna slap me,kick down my door and other childish things.I'm wondering should i get an order of protection against him because of his threats or what i don't know what to do anymore.

2006-07-24 17:36:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am seeking more long-term friends, genuine and people who can be there at all seasons. I am a 31 single, African living in Australia Pursuing a Masters degree. I would like more friends from all over the world.

2006-07-24 17:34:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my B/F talk on the phone almost every night, and i have nothing to talk about with him. so we usually just sit there and both be quiet and he is the one doing all the talking, untill the conversation stops. I need somthing to talk about with him, and keep the conversation going so that he will want to talk to me more often, and stop wanting to 3-way ppl just so he can talk with someone who will actually have somthin interesting to talk about. I feel like im not being a fun enough g/f , he always seems to ask me why im so quiet on the phone and i say that I don't know why i am so quiet, but im already shy as it is. So can someone give me some interesting topics to discuss on the phone with him. (NOTHING GROSS)and also, how do I flirt ,and /or compliment him on the phone without overdoing it? I don't even know what to compliment him on, since i like everything about him but im afraid that if i compliment him too much then he will think that im overly obsessed with him.
THX =]

2006-07-24 17:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by jacquelinegrebos 2 in Singles & Dating

im just curious how guys knows if the girl is a virgin or not...comments pls

2006-07-24 17:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by sad girl008 1 in Friends

I'm 18 and my boyfriend is almost 20. We live in different towns. I have been able to visit him a few times where he lives. We are truly in love ( I know it seems we are young, but we both have had other relationships and we truly feel this is the one). Now on to the thing I need help with. His mother is very controlling. He lives at home with her, he has had his driving permit for 2 years and only driven 3 time b/c his mom says "you are not ready". She controls every aspect of his life; where he goes, when he goes, and what he does. We have tried to move out about 10 times to go to colleges, living together and in dorms and she deflates every opportunity. My parents have offered to let him to stay at their house until we can raise enough money for our own apartment. They even say they'll help him get his license and when he told her about it, just to visit not to live, she automatically said "no". he wants to come here, but he doesnt want to break ties with her. I need advice. Help.

2006-07-24 17:31:47 · 16 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

That day was our nine month anniv. ...........anyways he still wants to do things we me though like call me and make out and just be with me ,...... What does this meen ? we really loved each other but whats odd is he broke up with me cause he said he just got tired of me ....... i dont even know why i do everything for that boy ......help me i nedd to know what yall think it is he is thinking ............does he miss me alittle or does he just want it .

2006-07-24 17:30:52 · 28 answers · asked by Melanie<3 3 in Singles & Dating

We love each other to the max. Very loving, caring & we can cry for one another, it seems dat we wld die if we lose each other. But the thing is, he refuses to take pictures with me & display it on any of my website. And he seems to introduce me to his friends as "friends". Yes, we made a pact dat we would try dis out unofficially but Im starting to feel insecure. What sld I do?

2006-07-24 17:28:18 · 5 answers · asked by Ms_TruEviL 1 in Singles & Dating

bc i love u

2006-07-24 17:28:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can anyone help me???

2006-07-24 17:27:38 · 7 answers · asked by daddysgirl1650 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it was the frist time for us and only can i not do it again

2006-07-24 17:26:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved this girl with all my heart. I gave her everything I had. Just look at my past questions. I was faithful and treated her like a queen. She was my first true love. How do I get over this devistating loss? How can I get it across to myself that I'm not to blame? Any advice?

Thanks in advance.

2006-07-24 17:25:33 · 29 answers · asked by sg88 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 17:25:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im really mean to my boyfriend. I dont know why he is great, dont cheat, hes sweet, puts up with all of my sh-it, everything! I use to go out with a really crazy guy for a few years a while back ...he cheated and constantly verbally abused me. Im thinking that my behavior towards my current bf of 2 years has something to do with my ex. I WILL NOT put my guard down for anything for my new bf and he deserves for me to so much but I just cant, Im scared once I let go of being controlling that he will hurt me. Im getting to be a bi-tch to the point where were both in tears. Its not easy for me to just stop I need help and an answer :( advice?

2006-07-24 17:24:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating