My boyfriend and I broke up June 17 , 2006 and ..............?

Question

That day was our nine month anniv. ...........anyways he still wants to do things we me though like call me and make out and just be with me ,...... What does this meen ? we really loved each other but whats odd is he broke up with me cause he said he just got tired of me ....... i dont even know why i do everything for that boy ......help me i nedd to know what yall think it is he is thinking ............does he miss me alittle or does he just want it .

i know he doesnt want to have sex with me cause we arent having sex till marriage ....i promice he likes the thought of haveing sex and stuff but he wont ever get that fare

Answer 1

theres a better man out there for you who wont dump you on an anniversary and who will never get tired of you. keep strong, move on, hese not worth your time. youre better then that.

Answer 2

If you are really Lucky, you'll thank God that the boy left you and you'll move on.

It's a control thing with some guys. They want you until they don't want you but they don't leave you alone because if they did, you'd realize what a loser he is/was and you'd find someone better to take his place. Men have this inate sense of when we're starting to get over them. They call, they ask us how we're doing, they do things with us, if they're bored or lonely they make out with us or worse take us to bed. As long as we allow them to keep sucking our emotions dry and keep our focus on them, they know we will NOT get over them and we will NOT look/find the newer and improved boyfriend/lover/husband that could be lurking around the next corner.

Lucky, my sister, please put the frying pan/seewing needle/sexy lingerie down and back away from the Ex. He's using you to get what he's not getting from his current girlfriend (trust me, there is a new one-she just hasn't rolled over yet) and he knows he's got you wrapped around his little finger; ready, willing and able to do ANYTHING he wants you to because he knows you're hoping he'll come back full-time. LET HIM GO. He's not worth it.

We woman are stronger than men give us credit for and you WILL survive this break up. It will happen faster if you stand up for yourself and remind him that he was tired of you and now you've come to realize that YOU are tired of him and his crud. I know it's hard but in the long run, you'll be so much happier.

One last piece of advice: remember what was bad about him and how he treated you. WAtch for the same potential junk in the next guy. If you watch for what you DON'T like, you won't get stuck latching onto some guy you like a LITTLE even though there is a LOT you don't care for.

You can do it, I know you can. I will say a prayer for you and whatever you decide to do. God Bless!

Answer 3

It sound like he is just using you for sex. All men get tired of sex, after a while, but he will hold on to the one he has until he finds the one he wants. If he does not offer you a marriage proposal within the next 9 months (give it a year and 6 months total), then you should never see him anymore and find someone who knows what he wants in a woman. Stop having sex with him. Then, you will find out exactly, what his intentions are.

Answer 4

hmm though call, I am in the same situation right now. Take some time off, don't talk , don't meet each other. Be alone for a while and think through what is the most important in this relationship. If you really love him and make sure about his feelings, may be getting back again will be good call. Good luck.

Answer 5

you don't know why...cause you did everything for him!
That's why! He got bored because you are not a mystery. Move on and next time be more mysterious. Don't ever every chase and don't give him everything he wants. Just a few things at a time. It's like fishing. That's why they say, there are a lot of fish in the sea. But how many do you throw back. Which are worth keeping? The ones that are hardest to catch are the ones worth keeping because they continue to be mysterious. This is coming from a woman who finally got caught, but it took a very special man and he needs to accept me for who I am because it's the only way I will accept him. I don't want to be in a cage and I don't want him to cage himself for me. Be one and be independent. Seriously!

Answer 6

I say put him thru a test, cuz men play so many games. When he wants 2 come over 2 do the damn thing tell him not 2nite that u have something else 2 do or ur not in the mood. Do it a few x's just 2 c what his reaction is and then u'll be able 2 c if he really cares or not.

Answer 7

boy are you asking a lot of questions. i wonder if hes asking questions and i sure hope you did not sleep with him,cause if you did then you might as well know that it means more to you than him one is pleasure and the other is feelings and once you cross that bridge there's nothing left except a good time for him.you will soon learn where all of the sayings come from, like why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.

Answer 8

I think that YOU need to know WHY. Why did he break up, really? And if he really meant it, how come he's playing around like he is?
I think he's got someone else on the side: and it's up to you: do you feel you shld have a relationship with this person?? What do you really want in a relationship: loyal behavior? Someone who doesn't break up and then come and go and so on??
Think about how he is using you. I personally think you need to "move on" good luck

Answer 9

First he is only intrested in you for the special privilages and he is a jerk.Tell him you want a boyfriend not just a guy who wants an easy time.You need to standup and say no you don't want to be treated like a doormat cuz that is how you are being treated.

Answer 10

in my past experiences i know that if a guy breaks up with you but then wants to see you and make out and other things that it is not b/c he misses you.. it is because he wants it.. if i were you i would move on.. right now he is using you and will continue to use you as long as you let him.. You deserve to be cherished not used..