my grandma died last night and when i heard that, i started crying cuz i wasn't very nice to her when she was alive... actually i was awful to her... and when i look back, she did so much stuff for me... she carryed me home and to places wheni was a baby, she did my laundry (and i said ewww to her ) =[ and she also gave me money to me on new years... and... she just died quietly last night... =[ what can i do to make it up to her?
2006-07-24 17:36:31 · 28 answers · asked by mizzang3la 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Her spirit will always be with you. Just remember her fondly and say nice things about her and she'll hear you.
2006-07-24 17:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she would have wanted you to be a good person, get an education, find someone to love and that loves you back and have a better life than she might have had. You are mourning her passing which is normal. It may take a while for you to adjust that she is not physically here but she will always be in your memory. Never forget her and all the good times you had with her and all the nice things she did for you. Peace to you.
2006-07-24 17:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things for other people that you wish you had done for her. If you have it in you, get a blank journal from the local bookshop and keep it hidden for yourself. Inside the front cover inscribe your Grandma's name. Whenever you think of her, find something nice to do for someone else. When you do those things, record what you did in your journal. After a while you will have pages of wonderful things you've done for other people in her memory, and, even better, you'll probably find that you will have passed on her legacy of being nice by becoming a better person yourself.
2006-07-24 17:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by LooneyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss dear, but trust that your grandma knew you loved her. If you're religious say a prayer and ask that it be conveyed to your grandma...that's what I did when my grandma died last year. I felt alot of guilt also. But I know deep down in my heart that she knew how very much I loved her. The best thing you can do to honor her is just to simply be the best person you can be.
I hope you find peace. Best wishes! :)
2006-07-24 17:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Simple, Repent, Pray and ask God's forgiveness. The bible say's, "every man fall short of the Glory of God." God is a forgiving God, and He will wipe all your sins away.
Don't let the devil come into your conscience and make you feel bad or quilty. (Remember that's his job here on earth.)
Based on what you have said, it seem as though your grandmother loved you very much. I'm sure she wouldn't want you o feel guilty.
However, there is a lesson for us to learn when we do things. I think your lesson is to be kind to all people. Jesus is Love.
2006-07-24 18:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by onechild2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your grandmother, it is hard to go through. Now that she is gone, what you do is not going to be noticed by her. Instead, just try to live your life as the best person you can be. Try to return the favors she did for you by doing things for others. Offer to babysit for a friend, go help your mom or dad out with something around the house, just because....
2006-07-24 17:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by tg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very close to my Grandma and I cant tell her enough how much that I love her and am very grateful to have her as my friend. To late to tell grandma now, but you can still tell her that you are sorry and tell her how you feel. She is listening to you always. Let this be a lesson that life is to short and everyday you should love the people that are dear to you.
2006-07-24 17:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweet candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make it up to her personally now, but I am sure she knew you loved her. Do what the other people have suggested and honor her memory, be kind to those around you. I lost my grandmother some time ago, and we all have regrets, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope things work out okay for you. If you need to chat email me at mysweety@charter.net. I will be praying for you and your family.
2006-07-24 17:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people I love have died I write them a last letter..and put it in thier casket ( then it is always with them) They already know what it says..but this is a symbolic way of letting go.
She understands everything now..
go to her service,dress nicely, bring a flower or donate money to her fav charity.
These are just ideas...I am sorry for your loss. " Ask not for whom the bell tolls it tolls for thee."
2006-07-24 17:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the good things that she did for you and go out and do the same thing for someone else. She is part of you and any good that she did you can find in yourself and her life and spirit will live on through your actions.
2006-07-24 17:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by nuro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to her even though she's not here. I believe loved ones who've passed on still look down on all of us and watch over us. Just pray for her and she'll forgive you. May she rest in peace.
2006-07-24 17:47:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋