Family & Relationships - 24 July 2006

I have this guy friend who seems to be obsessed with me. But he talks about other girls and stuff . Then he gets mad when I talk about other guys. He always tell me he loves me, how beautiful I am , and he will hurt himself if I leave his side. He is not my boy friend. He scares the heck out of me and also has a really bad temper. But he would never hit me. Then he also talks about throwing me agaist walls and doing random sexual crap to me. I can't seem to get it in his head that I don't like him like that. He has the ability to make or break my life. Also he really wants to get with me but I always say no. No matter how much times I say no he won't get the picture. Is he obsessed? What should I do?

2006-07-24 17:04:25 · 3 answers · asked by FirePhoenix 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone believe in their dreams because i had a dream last night that me and my crush fell in love

2006-07-24 17:03:42 · 3 answers · asked by Brittany P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 17:03:40 · 14 answers · asked by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3 in Friends

I think she is cute !

= )

2006-07-24 17:02:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 21, and it seems that I may have a guy that is interested in me, for example; he cuddled up with me, shows interest in my friends and family, let me know that he thinks I'm attractive, told me to call him when I went on vacation (kissed me on the cheek when we said goodbye), etc. But then last Sunday he said he's not wanting to rush into marriage, or dating....which totally confused me. I thought we were dating....maybe he just meant 'serious' relationships?? I'm not wanting to rush n2 anything either. Still workin on college....I just wish he'd call more or text me.
I'd like to get to get to know this guy better, and maybe eventually date this guy. Should I play hard to get to keep his attention? but to me, it just sounds so juvenile...dating sucks :) haha

2006-07-24 17:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Dazed&Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 17:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by deathtolove 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he loves me even though he has a gf n he says that he will break up wid her to go back out wid me but he did that to me b4...but one reason we broke up is cuz he was usin pot n i didnt want to b around that shyt n he says that he will stop if i go back to him so wat should i do?

2006-07-24 17:01:16 · 8 answers · asked by I_LoVe_HiM!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

gay stooped crap

2006-07-24 16:59:39 · 21 answers · asked by love_helper68 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like my brothers are always verbally abusing me. I have tried to tell my parents but they think that it is just them calling me names and that I am over reacting. However, I find myself actually believing them and I am changing who I am so that they will stop. I mean I do things like obbsseive exercising and I am not eat like I used to. Even when I don't eat anything all day, they still call me mean hurtful names and I find myself becoming more afraid of what other people have to think about me. My boyfriend worries about how much weight that I have lost in the last week, about ten pounds in one week. I am almost 6 foot tall and I am about 140 pounds. I don't look fat, but they still call me "a fat lazy *** cow who does nothing." It is everyday that I hear that and all day, I find something else to do so that I am doing something while they are sitting infront of the tv. I do play sports all year long and they say that I don't have anything to do. What should I do? PLEASE HELP!!

2006-07-24 16:59:20 · 14 answers · asked by J-Bird 2 in Family

2006-07-24 16:59:06 · 12 answers · asked by F E D UP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get this guy i been dating for bout 6mos a nice cologne for his bday in 2 weeks. Any suggestions of what colognes are good?

2006-07-24 16:58:43 · 30 answers · asked by sharon 2 in Singles & Dating

What kind of cute messages would you like to hear from your girl tell me?

2006-07-24 16:57:54 · 11 answers · asked by daddysgirl1650 1 in Singles & Dating

i like personality but sometimes to much makeup turns me off i feel like i cant see who she really is.

2006-07-24 16:57:30 · 14 answers · asked by ter_erd 1 in Singles & Dating

Gothic seems to be so popular.But when they meet that speciel person they don't seem to understand why he won't take her home to meet the family .

2006-07-24 16:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by Elaine814 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are in our middle age and we are blessed with two children. My husband is basically a good person but does not value the family. Freinds and other relations matter a lot except his immediate family. Most of the time he is with others and when he is in the house he watches the movies/listen to music but does not spend time with his children. He has got the inner feeling that if he gives the monthly allowances to the family then he has done his duty. Family and its ties do not affect him. Since this suits the interest of his other relations and freinds, nobody comes forward to guide him. I am a working lady and cannot bring the completeness of the family all alone by myself. I have tried advising him but to no avail. I cannot express this to others because they may chide me saying that since my husband is not aggressive, booser or volatile I have no reason to complain. But I want him to involve in the family so that there is good relationship+fulfillment within.

2006-07-24 16:56:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

think about is there really n difference besides the sex i don't think there is

2006-07-24 16:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by activision 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i just got out of a relationship, i want to be in another but i dont want to seem to desperate, how do i get into another one quickly?

2006-07-24 16:56:32 · 3 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-24 16:54:52 · 11 answers · asked by soniaelizabethann 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does a hunch back matter?
fat or skinny?dont matter?
if guys have hairy legs and hairy thighs it turns u off?
if girls have too much makeup?
and does size matter?

2006-07-24 16:54:46 · 3 answers · asked by ter_erd 1 in Singles & Dating

Any guys out there really into domination? i'm really submissive and i'm just wondering if anyone else out there shares my fetish.

2006-07-24 16:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by R-Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

why was my Question removed I was i trying to be nice today . my Question said Ineed your answer if you need 2 pts?????? 2 free pts. I just wanted to help you out ! why was it removed?

2006-07-24 16:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In three words....

2006-07-24 16:53:55 · 41 answers · asked by Elle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well i am 16 years old.... there is this girl i really really like and i have been talking to her for about 9 10 months...but the thing is that i dont know if she likes me back..and it seems she does but i dont know.....i know he easiest way to find out is to ask her..i know....but what if she doesnt...i am just going to be standing there like a fool when i ask her...its just weird..i mean i think she likes me to....but i dont know for sure...so help here plz...like what are some signs i could look for when i talk to her..i know flirting but like what type of flirting...or the signs of flirting..anything ike that......or anything in that area......if yall need more info on this here is my aim....elmozakky.....or my yahoo im.....elmo_zakky...or jus email me on yahoo....elmo_zakky@yahoo.com.... plz anyone....

also.....if i were like to give her hints bout me likeing her....how would i go about doing that....and one more thing....how would i ask her questions to see if she likes me?

2006-07-24 16:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by Zac d 1 in Singles & Dating

place? I think that I have noticed a pattern . . .I think that whenever I look like I might not depend on her for happiness. . . she gets nervous and tries to agitate and control . . .thru lies . . .misrepresentation . . . exageration . . twisting of the truth. She often will say , unbelievably . . "Oh, Aunt/Cousin so and so say this or that" when she says it, not them. She will try to make me feel like the other relatives are rallying around her like she is special -just out of the blue . .not for any particular reason - . . and as though suddenly she is not the loner loser she has always subjected me to her being . . and as though suddenly though she has raised me with "You and me against the world" . .suddenly . .guess what, "It's just YOU against the world" . .and the relatives (who are never in the picture) suddenly ARE and suddenly are showing concern over (issues that would be to her benefit if they cared about) (or would be stuff that serves her interests).

2006-07-24 16:52:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im a 18 year old girl, I love my family a lot and they are very very traditional people who sees gay people as "freaks" (this is the reason for why got a boyfriend at first).
2 years ago I had my first girl-girl experience and I realized I was gay, of course I freak out but a friend of mine help me to accept it.
Time pass and now a days I have a boyfirend (I think the only man in the world that i find attractive( but I start to date him because of my parents)) and I love him very much, he know my "secret" and he accept this, at the begging he also let me be with girls!!!!, but now he is jealous and he starts to act weird when I say something nice about women (of course he don't let me be with one now), and he ask me to forget i like girls forever but my problem is that I´m a lesbian (except 4 him I ONLY LIKE GIRLS), and I cant give up on this, I LOVE GIRLS, but I really care about him...
and if I decide to live as a lesbian and my parents find out they would kill me..
help!!!!!!!

2006-07-24 16:51:47 · 24 answers · asked by Laura G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-24 16:51:41 · 10 answers · asked by stars 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she doesnt want to get back with me and thats all i want is to get another chance. she says ill never get to be with her again so i tell her not to call me ever again unless she wants me back. did i screw up by telling her that. the only way ill ever feel better is by not talking to her or be back with her. what should i do

2006-07-24 16:51:16 · 2 answers · asked by texas boy 3 in Singles & Dating

do you think that my guy is trying to see what i am doing all the time? he is getting me a cell phone. Hmm i am not sure what to think about this one. we have been together for 13 months and we never talked about me getting a phone.

2006-07-24 16:50:53 · 47 answers · asked by suepooh23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we went out all year, and i miss having him to go back to!! but now that all these boys know that I'm single they won't leave me alone!! and if he finds out that I gave 3 boys my number he might get mad @ me AGAIN! what do I do..... please help:(

2006-07-24 16:50:43 · 25 answers · asked by kayla 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I am in a relationship with a 16 year old and I am 20. Reguardless of whether you think that is gross, the age of consent in CT is 16. We both want to have sex, and she says she has had sex before, and says she is ready to have sex with me. Can I get in trouble? The law says 16 for consent...

2006-07-24 16:49:18 · 6 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Singles & Dating