I have this guy friend who seems to be obsessed with me. But he talks about other girls and stuff . Then he gets mad when I talk about other guys. He always tell me he loves me, how beautiful I am , and he will hurt himself if I leave his side. He is not my boy friend. He scares the heck out of me and also has a really bad temper. But he would never hit me. Then he also talks about throwing me agaist walls and doing random sexual crap to me. I can't seem to get it in his head that I don't like him like that. He has the ability to make or break my life. Also he really wants to get with me but I always say no. No matter how much times I say no he won't get the picture. Is he obsessed? What should I do?
2006-07-24 17:04:25 · 3 answers · asked by FirePhoenix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already have a guy that I like. He doesn't seem to understand that.
2006-07-24 17:06:43 · update #1
I'd steer clear of this guy. Don't let him control you that way. You need to have confidence in yourself that you can succeed without this guy. Run like the wind, and don't look back IMHO... Oh by the way, if he hurts himself, that's something he did to himself. It definately would not be your fault, and he probably won't have the courage to do anything that drastic anyhow.
2006-07-24 17:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by George C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he DEFINITELY sounds obsessed, if you do get with a guy you like, the will more than likely 'break you' just to get revenge for 'betraying' him like that. the fact that he says what he wants to do to you and how he'll hurt himself if you leave him is just one step short or going completely nuts. if you can sever all contact, trust me when i say you really don't want a psychopath that near you.
2006-07-25 00:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by crush the turtle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't have any contact at all with him.
2006-07-25 00:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋