me and my BF broke up ,and he still likes me and I think i still like him, what do I do???

Question

we went out all year, and i miss having him to go back to!! but now that all these boys know that I'm single they won't leave me alone!! and if he finds out that I gave 3 boys my number he might get mad @ me AGAIN! what do I do..... please help:(

Answer 1

Always ALWAYS remember that love is not enough. It is only the foundation on which to build a relationship. The most important things are compatibility, trust, honesty, and respect. You learn through experience what are your dealbreakers. You must never never waste your time pursuing a relationship where the other person has one of your dealbreaker traits. If you broke up, most likely one of you has a trait that the other person cannot handle. The love will keep pulling you back together, tempting you to try and try again. But do not waste your time with incompatible relationships. There are so many people out there who will love us, if we only give them the opportunity. Give yourself time apart to find out what it is you really can't have in a relationship, and do not spend even 5 more minutes pursuing a man that breaks those rules. Love is never enough to last throughout all the years.

Answer 2

Don't tell him anything, but you might want to get those three guys phone numbers for back-up. You didn't say why you broke up, but it could happen again, so why sit on the sidelines agonizing over woulda-shoulda-coulda. OR, you could just tell him flat-out that your singletude is not going unnoticed, and if he doesn't make a move, you will.

Answer 3

be honest with him and tell him how you feel and and the fact that in the time you were broke up you gave your number to 3 guys.If he is genuine he will forgive you and let stuff like that not bother him.If its a problem he is not worth it so you might have to move on with your life with some one else.Good luck

Answer 4

Maybe it's a good thing you broke up. Try out dating somebody else to see what's out there. Who knows? Maybe you might like what you see after all. This way, at least there's variety in your perspective.

Answer 5

i had the same problem, im not sure how old u are but, this depends on u... no offense to anyone but i think most guys are pigs, they think with there penis's and so he prolly just wants to get some, that was what happened to me, so just be careful and if u truly loved him u wouldn;t be askin other ppl if u should go back out with him

Answer 6

If you gave out your telephone number to three boys, it's probably a sign that you shouldn't have a steady boyfriend.

Answer 7

Sounds like your too young to be attached to one guy anyway. Play the field and remain good friends. Who knows where it will go from there.

Answer 8

you have to think about what you want to do...i mean i am going through the same situation with my boyfriend...i mean you have to think will we keep going through the same thing over and over again?....do i really see myself with him in the future? or do i want to try and see what else is out there for me? i mean girl you just have to think...dont just jump back into the relationship because you miss him ask yourself do you love him ! is he still going to get mad over petty things?....

Answer 9

well if you really care for him and he cares for you try to work things out between you 2 and I wish you the best of luck in the relationship

Answer 10

Sounds like you love the attention......tough dilemma. You just don't answer when they call. Unless, of course, you just want the attention, then it's your call. But he may be getting the same attention, too.