Well i am 16 years old.... there is this girl i really really like and i have been talking to her for about 9 10 months...but the thing is that i dont know if she likes me back..and it seems she does but i dont know.....i know he easiest way to find out is to ask her..i know....but what if she doesnt...i am just going to be standing there like a fool when i ask her...its just weird..i mean i think she likes me to....but i dont know for sure...so help here plz...like what are some signs i could look for when i talk to her..i know flirting but like what type of flirting...or the signs of flirting..anything ike that......or anything in that area......if yall need more info on this here is my aim....elmozakky.....or my yahoo im.....elmo_zakky...or jus email me on yahoo....elmo_zakky@yahoo.com.... plz anyone....
also.....if i were like to give her hints bout me likeing her....how would i go about doing that....and one more thing....how would i ask her questions to see if she likes me?
2006-07-24 16:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by Zac d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tell you one thing....if you are going to be a wienie about it, she probably won't say yes. Girls generally like take charge guys, and if you hesitate she will see it as a weakness. Good luck!
2006-07-24 16:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Drill Sergeant J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, calm down a little.
Secondly look at her body language when you talk to her. Is she standing with her arms crossed over her chest or is she standing relaxed ? does she stand close to you or does she step back away from you? Does she touch her hair alot when talking to you? Does she laugh at your jokes?
You have to learn to read her body language signals. Also, you have to just dive in and ask her out. If she says no, its no big deal. One of the responders said it best, dont be a weinie about it, take charge and if she does say no act like it wasnt that big of a deal to you.
Its hard asking someone out at first, but you get used to it. By the time youre 21 you'll be a pro at it.
As for showing her you like her, talk to her. Show interest in things she likes to do, compliment her clothes, hair and perfume.
Good luck
2006-07-24 17:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you alot she will look you in the eyeswhen talking to you or vice versa, i think its alot easier if you get her e-mail and ask her to chat with you, then you dont have to be embarrased if she dont , ....? 's do you have a B/F ?? do you wanna go see a movie sometime ?
2006-07-24 17:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by transplanted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her already and get it over with. She'll either say yes or no. Either way you'll have your answer and you can move forward in your life.
2006-07-24 16:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ask her friends. if you got a cell ask her out through txt, that way you wont be emberrased
2006-07-24 16:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for it ! if she was willing to talk to you for a year im sure she likes you
2006-07-24 16:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋