I'm 21, and it seems that I may have a guy that is interested in me, for example; he cuddled up with me, shows interest in my friends and family, let me know that he thinks I'm attractive, told me to call him when I went on vacation (kissed me on the cheek when we said goodbye), etc. But then last Sunday he said he's not wanting to rush into marriage, or dating....which totally confused me. I thought we were dating....maybe he just meant 'serious' relationships?? I'm not wanting to rush n2 anything either. Still workin on college....I just wish he'd call more or text me.
I'd like to get to get to know this guy better, and maybe eventually date this guy. Should I play hard to get to keep his attention? but to me, it just sounds so juvenile...dating sucks :) haha
2006-07-24 17:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Dazed&Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like you both need to focus on what is most important to both of you. If you like this guy, let him know. If you want to be with this guy, let him know. Otherwise, he's gonna be standoff-ish.
2006-07-24 17:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by King Matthew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing hard to get can be a dangerous game...... if you are in college then you are an adutl and adults do NOT play games...... ask the guy what he means..... ask him if freind is a better term to use when it comes to the 2 of you..... be up front and grown up....... you may be surprised at what you find out about this guy.... either he is into you are he is not...... one way or the other you will know if you should even waste your time on thinking time....... God bless
2006-07-25 00:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be confusing or send mixed signals. It is hard enough to try to read girl's minds without being thrown curve balls. If you like him just ask him out and talk about it since you seem a little unsure about his feelings.
2006-07-25 00:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bugs Malone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just said. You and he should marry, but gradually progress to it. Get engaged and then agree to have the marriage in maybe 4 years. Or even 8,
2006-07-25 00:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah a little but not too much cuz too much makes guys just think you dont want them.. guys are dumb..
ask him if hed be up for a relationship cuz u dont want to waste your time for al ong time then he doenst want it..
2006-07-25 00:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by LORLF ROFL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im confused!
2006-07-25 01:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Novato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋