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Question

my bestfriend that is a boy ive been friends with him for 7 years .i love him now and im scared to tell him what should i do

Answer 1

im not even gonna lie that is hard because you have to worry that what if you guys try it out then somethin goes wrong then you have to worry about loosing your friendship but you have to think to i wanna risk are friendship and get with him or do i want him to have some one else and have him get married to somebody else. i dont know about you but i feel that best friends (guy with a gurl) is the closest thing ever i mean no matter what you will be there for him. when his girlfriend or wife is giving him probelms he will go to you and ask for help. i would rather be the one he asks for help then the one he is talkin about

Answer 2

Give it time. Time will tell.

Love is long-suffering and kind.
Love is not jealous,
it does not brag,
does not get puffed up,
does not behave indecently,
does not look for its own interests,
does not become provoked.
It does not keep account of the injury.
It does not rejoice over unrighteousness,
but rejoices with the truth.
It bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things,
endures all things.

1 Corinthians 13:3-8

Answer 3

My husband was my best friend of 4 years when I told him how I felt. We've been together for 11 years this August. Tell him. If he's your friend, you won't lose that even if he doesn't reciprocate your feelings, but if he feels the same way about you, you have so much more to gain. Good luck :)

Answer 4

Tell him and tell him right away. What happens when your girlfriend decides to ask him out and then you end up feeling worse. Except do not, do not, tell him you love him. That is too quick and will scare him off. Tell him you are attracted to him in many ways and want to persue a relationship.

Answer 5

nevr be scared of your emotions. be true to yourself. if u like him, or love him.. then tell him. if your friendship is strong this shouldnt effect anything. and who knows.. maybe the feelings mutual. so go for it. it may seem scary, but you wont regret it. telling him will lift this weight off your shoulders.... and seriously, this shouldnt come between you two if your that close. but love is a stron emotion.. so you might wanna be sure thats what your feeling in the first place... not just a strong connection.


well anywhoo. best of luck. and i do hope you decide to tell him..

i think its for the best.



=D

Answer 6

I've been there. The best advice I can give you is to tell him. He's probably already guessed anyway. When you tell him make sure he understands that no matter what you don't want to loose his friendship. Good luck

Answer 7

No I probably wouldn't tell him I've been there before and even went out w/him and unfortunatley it didn't work out and were not even speaking these days and I regret it. If u choose 2 do this I wish u good luck.

Answer 8

If you are his best friend then there is no problem in telling him that you love him. Well, you've been friends for seven years and surely he understands everything you say. It will work defenitely.
Good luck.

Answer 9

i have to tell u i was also in same situation..... she was my college friend.... u knw she also in same feeling abt me.... but finally i said it her... now I'm so happy bcoz i found the best thing i can ever find....

so my advise is don't wait.... tell him maybe he also in same feeling abt u and i think u have to first knw wht are the feeling of him abt...

dont wait that much time... otherwise u will miss the train . dont let it happen

Answer 10

communication, what have you got to loose but receive answers, if it does not work out then still be friends. the reason i am answering your question is because i am with someone i like, but we are not really good friends(married like in stuck)