My girl was mad at me today and i was trying to find out what was wrong. I had ask her but she wouldn't talk to me. I was trying to find out what on her mind Because She wouldnt speak her mind. So she have a journal that she write in. She write everything in the book that on her mind that she couldnt speak on. So i had read her book because i want to know what was going on her mind and try to work thing out.
Am I right or wrong what i did?
2006-07-24 16:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by bxscooby85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. She'll tell you when you're ready. Until then, let it go.
2006-07-24 16:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're right man,, I just answered your girl's question whether she's right or wrong for reading the journal. I told her she shouldn't be mad... and I'm telling you, you are not wrong.. You have all rights to know what's going on to your girl. otherwise, she's not honest. If she's honest and tells everything, she shouldn't be mad if you read her journals there's nothing to hide. Unless there's something up that she doesn't want you to know....
2006-07-24 23:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by JoToCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard to get some people to talk. my wife use to have journal and she putt all her feeling in it. i started reading it and from the good and the bad i tired to make up for my short comings and by using her journal i was able to change myself and now she talk to me ever night and no longer need a journal i keep my mind and hart open to her that she come first in my day every day. just don't tell her that you are reading it. then after you and her start talking then tell her that the only way i was able to see what was going on in your life was to read and now that you talk to me i do not need to read it anymore.. my wife was surprised and very happy . let just say i save my marriage ..
2006-07-24 23:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were wrong in looking in her journal. you disrespected her privacy. i think when she was ready she would tell you what was upsetting her. did you find out what you were look in for.? i hope next time you don't do that again. when she is ready she will talk good luck,
2006-07-25 00:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, kinda sorta, but she had it coming....idk, that's kinda invading privacy and all...and if you dont know what you did, then its probably not that big of a deal, over all. Just to her, just chill relax, let her know you care how she feels but dont dwell on it. just keep changing the subject and she will eventually be driven to talk about it. 2 points and hopefully a successfully talk.
2006-07-24 23:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you were only trying to help her but you should not have invaded her privacy like that! it was wrong. I am married and my husband has done this to me several times i hate it. as far as i am concerned it is wrong.
2006-07-25 01:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong.
You need to give the girl some time!
When your really mad, you don't wanna talk to someone, you wanna think things through, and figure out what to say.
2006-07-25 00:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Xenjn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong. She'll tell u when she's ready! don't go invading her privacy. that'll make things very bad!
2006-07-24 23:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong
if she wanted u to know wshe would tell u
repect privacy mon
2006-07-24 23:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by doley4711 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋