Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

seriously... i wanted to ask this to a person in particular, but i don't want her to know that i'm even thinking about her. she put up with soo much i never would have. they messed around after work in the restaurant. never got to go on dates. couldn't have a real relationship. couldn't talk on the phone except on his drive to and from work. couldn't text each other. had to hide thier relationship from everyone. did she really beleive that we had all of these problems before her. why didn't they think that maybe they were making problems that were allready there worse. then they couldn't talk on the phone at all because i got the bill. it went on long after the paper trail disappeared. why would a woman love a man that wouldn't bring her out in the light of day while he went home to pretend to be faithful to his wife. what kind of love is that? why did she "wait" for him, only to have him leave her, because he couldn't respect her enough to deal with how the world judge him.

2006-07-18 18:25:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You like a man that is 8 years older than you, but you tell yourself that he seems a little bit too old for you. I have mixed feelings. Not sure what to do... Some advise please...

2006-07-18 18:24:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is 2nd being felt up? What are the others. And please don't be afraid to include lotsa detail.

2006-07-18 18:24:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 18:24:08 · 5 answers · asked by Styles7714 1 in Singles & Dating

How would u feel when a 4 yr younger den you been trying to go after u but failed... coz you know it's Impossible plus he's not mature... can't click....

e next thing u know is... he's attached to someone probably 3 yrs younger den him.... and he's boasting abt his new love to u... and saying to you that "You should catch any opportunities dat comes along... coz you're no longer a young lady!!!!..."

Well, he's trying to tell me that I should ve accept him...????

I was rather piss with his kinda attitude and told him that I woun't be any how choosing a Tom Dick Or Harry right?

Anyway... less den a month, he broke up with his gf... haha

2006-07-18 18:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by Shironu 1 in Singles & Dating

The parents planned poorly for retirement. The kids have helped by continually sending money and paying some bills. The parents have assets they could sell, but choose to take their kids' money. Is this wrong? Is it wrong for the parent to call and ask the kid where the money is when it's late?

2006-07-18 18:23:39 · 13 answers · asked by shygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This great debate is still going on with my sis and I. I

2006-07-18 18:22:34 · 29 answers · asked by ROCKER CHICK 4 in Singles & Dating

just got out of a bad relationship then went into my first hookup within a week. and i basically went from doing nothing to goin to 3rd base...i just feel so confsued right now. still good friends with my ex, he hooked me up w/ his friend (which explains the hook up situation.) he says how givin head on my first hookup bothered him...and I never gave my ex head we only made out cuz we were never alone..our relationship was unsuccesfull twice! he made out with our friends older sisiter tonight when the power went out. im just really pissed! goin away tomorrow on vacation, hoping to find another guy there to maybe fool around w/...sick and tired of relationships and i have only had two....he made me bitter towards relationships

2006-07-18 18:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by well_its_life 1 in Singles & Dating

Your significant other will let you have sex with someone of your choice. He/she does not want to know who it is. No threesomes. He/she will not hold it against you... ever... and you believe him/her. It is truly a free pass to have sex with another person, then go on with your life as if nothing ever happened. No strings.

2006-07-18 18:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by yer daddy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want my kids to be able to swim, they are 6 and 4 and are both terrified to put their heads under the water, which is making it slightly difficult to teach them....any ideas for things we can do at home in our pool to help them?

2006-07-18 18:17:47 · 2 answers · asked by ndussere 3 in Family

i cant tell my mom cause she is dead and i dont want my dad to get involved cause hell kill him and im an only child what should i do

2006-07-18 18:17:42 · 21 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Singles & Dating

Like doing nothing "bad"

2006-07-18 18:16:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am interested in small business from home.I can do liasoning with foreign companies.I have p.c. fully equiped.I will devote my full attention to accomplish the target assigned to me for our mutual benefit.I am prepared to under take travel as business trips all over the world.

2006-07-18 18:16:10 · 1 answers · asked by rehmath a 1 in Friends

I loved my boy friend of 3 years dearly but he refused to get married and I have broken all contact with him...but i'm immensely upset now and ever since ive broken up, i seem to have developed a habit of eating all the time...somehow ive been high on coke, ice creams, burgers and m eating morning, noon and night..in office or at home...and cos of that i'm putting on weight n spoiling my figure and that's not helping me ! Y have i become like this and what should i do?

Tried exercising but have'nt been able to develop the habit yet..

2006-07-18 18:14:36 · 9 answers · asked by Nisha 4 in Singles & Dating

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me =]
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2006-07-18 18:14:30 · 28 answers · asked by pussylicker j 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not the typical break-up/ex-boyfriend-wants-me-back kind of situation. We still talk on the phone and see eachother once in a while, and he is fully aware of the fact that I still love him, so he's not totally on the wrong track by thinking that we might have a chance. But the truth is that I don't think we can ever work it out. We're very different people, and we've already tried working it out many times.. we've broken up and got back together like 5 times in the past.. so it's just a waste of time to repeat that whole cycle again. I want to move on with my life. I tried telling him all that yesterday but he kept telling me that I should be more optimistic and that things can be different because we're more mature now.. he admits that he doesn't have things figured out but he knows that I'm the one and he doesn't want to lose me. It was really hard for me to tell him that I just don't want it anymore. What should I do?? Please help!!

2006-07-18 18:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband proposed to me two days after our first date and we were married 6 weeks later. We have been married for 2 years and have never even had a fight. Not to say that we never will of course! A lot of people thought I was crazy but it turned out to be the smartest thing I've ever done.

2006-07-18 18:13:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 18:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by shygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 18:12:47 · 3 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family

2006-07-18 18:11:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it when i ask a question i get a lot of good advice but there is always someone who just says something mean that doesnt help me at all.

2006-07-18 18:11:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 18:11:37 · 4 answers · asked by marketting27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it seem like I can't find a good sister nowhere

2006-07-18 18:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by rahsaan m 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriends been acting weird and i want to know did i do some thing hes friends with my cuzin and he said ever since his dad die he hasnt been the same i want to ask him but his dad i mean he told me his dad died but not why

2006-07-18 18:10:43 · 19 answers · asked by unkownfemale 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He lives in upstate NY, likes sports PS2, PSP, TV, movies...

2006-07-18 18:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by darkforrestt 2 in Friends

At my husband's bacholer party, his dad and uncles pretty much planned the night around watching a "girls gone wild" video. This was the night before he was supposed to swear his life to me, does anyone else think this was dsisrespectful of his family?

2006-07-18 18:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by I can see you... 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I like one of my guy friends (i've liked him for a year now) and i really want to tell him how i feel. we were going to have lunch today and i had finally built up the courage to tell him. we're in college so we were eating in the dining hall. when i got there, he was already there sitting with one of his best friends who was halfway through his lunch. my friend and i went to get our lunch and then went back to sit with his friend (he was by himself and we didn't want to leave him alone). it was still a fun lunch and i got to know his friend a little better but i didn't have the opportunity to tell my friend that i want to be more than friends. then, when we were leaving the dining hall, it was just the two of us but the walk was too short to tell him without being awkward and just blurting it out. i still really like him but i don't know what i should do now. he's really busy and i hardly have a chance to see him so i'm afraid it will be awhile before i can tell him in person.

2006-07-18 18:06:46 · 3 answers · asked by krazykat8111 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are trying to get rid of a woman you just met that night, to ask her if you can borrow some money? It's always worked.

2006-07-18 18:05:53 · 28 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband builds foundations, and the weather kicks his butt. But I go to school 3 nights a week, and work on the weekends, while raising 2 girls. I need him to pitch in more but, he is always soo tired. Any Ideas on how to keep him alert enough to watch our kids?

2006-07-18 18:05:15 · 11 answers · asked by momof2borninmarch 3 in Family

It has been like this for the past 3 years after I had a severe auto accident, as well as going thru menopause. Nothing seems to help and he seems angry sometimes and sarcastic. I simply feel empty and not humane, lacking these feelings. I have tried seeing a doctor about this to no avail and am wondering if I will ever get my life back. Does anyone else feel this way? What have you done?

2006-07-18 18:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by j h 1 in Marriage & Divorce