Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

They are 7&3 yrs.old.The older one has autism and I have been his security all his life. My daughter has lived with us off and on over the yrs.I took a leave of absent for 3 1/2 month to get him evaluated and started him in a special education class.
The mother has 2 other children, 20m & 9 months, a husband(stepfather of the 7&3yrs) in and out of jail & a very unstable relationship.It is getting to the point that I don't want to talk or be around her with all the drama in her life. I need to do this for the boys

2006-07-18 18:55:58 · 15 answers · asked by Dee S 2 in Family

I am pretty sure my friend has contracted the HIV virus. She has become very ill the past few months and lost a lot of weight without reason. She is a premiscuous person which leads me to think this way. I think she is trying to hide the truth from me in fear that I will look at her differently. How do I approach the subject without offending her???? I could be wrong.......

2006-07-18 18:55:06 · 4 answers · asked by UlickNme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with this guy on-off for 3 years since I turned 18.A month after we broke-up the last time he came over and we had sex.After a while it became a habit of him coming over every few days and when we were done he'd leave.Now,after 3 months of this routine he says he wants more and doesn't want to keep having meaningless sex with someone he's in-love with.I was like WTF?I don't want to be a relationship with anyone right now and am just after some fun.I thought as a guy he would have thought he hit the jackpot scoring every few days without having to make any kind of commitment.What is his problem?Why is he going all gay on me?

2006-07-18 18:52:55 · 15 answers · asked by Veronica B 1 in Singles & Dating

One cannot make a mistake that is translating from another language because onegets bombarded by hateful people and in turn they attack back and say we are the hateful racist bigots. I am not a bigot. But there are sure people here that love to blast others and tear them down to make themselves feel good.
ITS MISUNDERSTANDINGS IN WRITING THAT CAN LEAD TO WAR. My mistake by not stating the word "some people in usa" when asking why so much hatred in USA by some people towards Mexicans and latins.

All i've ever watched on yahoo posts after the news is hatred to the max against other races and here the patriots post me as the villain ! ha! nothing could be further from the truth.

I got so much hatred from this mommie to 3 asker here that it just answered to me that there is plain hate rampant njo matter what or at who. Zero tolerance and inability to clarify mistakes or misunderstandings, and one is the enemy tothem. Ustedes creen que todos aqui quieren a los imigrantes de Mexico

2006-07-18 18:51:59 · 3 answers · asked by noteparece? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 18:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by bluepittexas 1 in Singles & Dating

Hahahahh seriously I get so annoyed!!! Make's me want to become an alcoholic!!! hahaha
I dont have any kids. YET! but i would look at those rugrats the way they act. And say to myself...my child will never be like that!!!
Little babies, loud *** toddlers with bad manors, parents let them run around and don't even watch them. Theyd be flashing a flash light in your face when you are trying to watch TV for example or try to play with you when you head hurt, they step on your food or spill something on your expensive shirt. you smirk. when you really want to strangle the kid. (but you can becase it's not yours) and the parents dont say ****. or just play it off and laugh like its cool. **** that! hahahaha grrrr They make my blood pressure go up the roof!!

2006-07-18 18:51:20 · 11 answers · asked by blah blah 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wonder..
before i pods and side kicks
before VCR'S became DVD'S
before we knew about yahoo, aim, myspace, or msn ...
before family guy!

before most ppl had more than 150 channels on t.v.!
before your life got mature!....\\


there was once a thing called child hoo..
like getting your first kiss ment having coodies
or havin 3 best friends was enough to have

or watchin tom and jerry every morning

or crying b/c you cant get on the big kid rides!

or watchin i love lucy and the three muskateers!

just try to remember that life you had!

DO YOU MISS IT? (i do!)

2006-07-18 18:50:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 18:50:22 · 36 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 18:49:08 · 2 answers · asked by mani 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm new at this ; )
and confused.....
Step by step, pleeze?

2006-07-18 18:48:35 · 5 answers · asked by goldylocks11 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a date planed this weekend and I have to be the one who plans the part when we get back home behind closed doors. He wants something wild and crazy. I am not sure what to do. If you have any stories or suggestions please help. I want it to be something out of the blue. We are not into inviting anyone else if you know what I mean.

2006-07-18 18:45:12 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly71086 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-boyfriend whom i havent spoken to in 1 year just came back into ma life nd asked me 2 come back.i still have feelings 4 him but im afraid he'll hurt me again.what should i do?

2006-07-18 18:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 18:43:41 · 18 answers · asked by gabriel r 1 in Singles & Dating

im finally brave enough to leave my bf who beats me and i like my bffs bro is it wrong to go out with him

2006-07-18 18:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Singles & Dating

my name is preeti rawat & my date of birth is 26.08.79 for your information

2006-07-18 18:41:00 · 1 answers · asked by preeti_bisht2003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do i kiss butt or stand my ground and not care if she likes me?

2006-07-18 18:40:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

while you're making love to someone or masturbating or just daydreaming... who do you imagine your with? don't give me lame answers about how you fantasize about your actual lover. it's natural to imagine you're making love to someone else in your mind while making love to your lover (sometimes). it's natural to daydream about someone else once in a while. some would say it's all part of having a healthy sex drive. so who is it... your neighbor... a celebrity... the ups man... your mom's sexy best friend... your teacher... your boss... who?

2006-07-18 18:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by yer daddy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 18:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I had the perfect marriage for 15 years. He went to Iraq and began an affair with a woman. When he had R&R, he went to visit her in Germany and then came home to the US. He confessed when he was home and wanted to work it out with me.

This affair has gone on for over a year and both are in the States now. He has tried ending things with her, but they always manage to find a way back to one another.

My husband says that he regrets what he did and I forgave him because he was in Iraq. I see a lost, confused person and I don't want to abandon him when he is in such a fragile state of mind. Plus, I don't want to give up on my family. When he left before, our daughter tried cut her wrists. He tried to end it with the woman, but she manipulated him to stay.

My husband said that he wouldn't have started with her if they met in the States. He says he doesn't have feelings for her and doesn't love her. He always comes back to me and things seem normal.

2006-07-18 18:38:51 · 37 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for 3 years, he needed a break b/c we're young and he wanted to experience being single, but we were pretty sure we were going to get back together at some point. During the break, he called me constantly and just seemed unable to live without me...but at the same time, he was "trying to get to know" another girl. I was aware of this (thats why we took the break, afterall), but what i was unaware of was that they kissed. He lied to me for a month, and always said he never even touched her....this isn't the first time he's lied about major issues. i broke up with him for lying, but hes begging for me to take him back. (After the kiss, he realized i was the one he wanted to be with). do i take him back?

2006-07-18 18:35:56 · 38 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to have her write them all for me cause I like to imagine that it is me in the stories that I am reading. Is that wrong? I do love her very much, I don't care about her past relationships. I don't need the names of previous boyfriends, just the details. Am I weird?

2006-07-18 18:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by Hawaiian_Kine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

to get over his young daughter's murder (unsolved case) and his beautiful wife's recent death of ovarian cancer....i feel that family has had more than their share of crap to deal with...And I feel some people are given too much, regardless of what religious people think...Tell me what ways would help...Bless the Ramsey family...it such a tragedy...the whole family!! whew!

2006-07-18 18:33:35 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family

the ones that spit their moms , kick , use bad language and are not disciplined by their parents, do you think they will be contributors of society in the future?

2006-07-18 18:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am surrounded by a great group of friends, and yet every day, every moment, there is an overwhelming loneliness, so bad it physically hurts sometimes. and every week there's some new rumor goin round that im goin out with some different guy (small town) like no one can figure it out and that in itself is wrong(the single-ness). is there something wrong with me?

2006-07-18 18:30:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are both 33, have been married before, and have children from previous marriage. He is an immigrant from Mexico and I met him at a local resteraunt where he works. He says that he doesnt understand why I like him because Americans hate Mexicans. His English is poor as are my Spanish skills, but when we are together I feel as if I have known him forever. I work as a nurse and make good money and sometimes I feel that my financial stability may bother him. I feel like I found my soul mate but my gut tells me he is a player.

2006-07-18 18:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by Mindy ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I was heart broken to find out the amazing high percentage of people who are in the last years of their life and in convalescent homes and abused. Some of them raped, money taken, not well fed or clothed, it has to stop as during their youth years they gave us everything they had now why all it's beign taken away?

2006-07-18 18:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by claudia91701 3 in Family

My name is Patty Amaya my number is (209) 883-1558. I am going through hell right now because my ex took my house away from me and my kids. He moved his girlfriend in and kicked us out. The house is mine but now I finally have money to sue him for my house back. I need to locate him. Benito Ybanez is the most important item in this case because we both bought the house but he moved and put the title undeer my name only. Please help me find Benito C. Ybanez. He was living in Patterson, Ca. and now he is living in Amarillo Texas. His wife is Juanita. My number is (209) 883-1558. I need to locate him.

2006-07-18 18:28:07 · 3 answers · asked by once-again@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our sex bwfore marriage was great now it just dies.

2006-07-18 18:27:43 · 20 answers · asked by bleurose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 18:26:32 · 9 answers · asked by Docblueskies 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my gf and it's been almost a year. I tried dating other women after and still thought about her. I miss having her around. Should I email her or call and say hi and try to get back?

2006-07-18 18:26:27 · 6 answers · asked by Blue_Falcon 2 in Singles & Dating