im finally brave enough to leave my bf who beats me and i like my bffs bro is it wrong to go out with him
2006-07-18 18:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by pregant help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im mean my bestfriends bro not my ex bf bro never hes the same way
2006-07-18 18:54:08 · update #1
No.
Go for it.
Just make sure that your best friend's bro is right for you.
Don't just take him for a rebound. :}
2006-07-18 18:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good that you're leaving your battering boyfriend, but stay away from your friends bro. 1) Both you're friend and their bro will view it as a rebound, not matter what they say 2) never wise to mix in with friends' relatives. You can risk destroying your friendship and not be welcomed by the family for it
2006-07-18 18:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by esko1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clue in kid
If your BF is beating you, then get out and fast, he is no friend.
Simply switching to his brother fails to get you very far off.
Make sure that you ULTIMATUM a no hitting policy,
and leave the FIRST time it fails (no matter why).
Being hit is NOT your fault.
Sticking with an abuser IS your fault.
Altogether too many girls go from one abusive situation to another and fail to understand why they are abused.
2006-07-18 18:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANY guy is better than a wuss who beats you. Go for it. I would see if he's interested first, though. And if so, then make sure you guys are open about it with your friend early on, b/c it will be 10 times worse to keep it secret and have her find out later.
2006-07-18 19:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mister_Shhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going out w/ my bffs bro so i say go 4 it hon!! rock on! and im glad that u r leaving the loser that is beating u. god bless and good luck w/ the other guy!
2006-07-18 18:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by cassie ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not.. but please give yourself some time before you go out with someone else... or it mat make things complicated with your new friend, epically if your ex is abusive.. just give things time to settle down a bit then enjoy your new life without that asshH0le..
2006-07-18 18:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no go 4 it im glad ur getting out of an abusive relationship good luck 2 ya!
2006-07-18 18:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop calling that boy ur boy-frnd. if he beats u, he cant love u. 'nd can u assure,the boy u r roaming with currently will not b harsh to u in future as the 1st one? u r going wrong again. stop playing wid urself
2006-07-18 18:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women that are abused almost always find another man that abuses them.
The fact that you're already planning another relationship while you're currently in one sends up all sorts of warning flags for me.
2006-07-18 19:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont let him beat you or mistreat you, and as far as your ex boyfriend goes he needs his *** beat by a real man
2006-07-18 18:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋