I've been with this guy on-off for 3 years since I turned 18.A month after we broke-up the last time he came over and we had sex.After a while it became a habit of him coming over every few days and when we were done he'd leave.Now,after 3 months of this routine he says he wants more and doesn't want to keep having meaningless sex with someone he's in-love with.I was like WTF?I don't want to be a relationship with anyone right now and am just after some fun.I thought as a guy he would have thought he hit the jackpot scoring every few days without having to make any kind of commitment.What is his problem?Why is he going all gay on me?
2006-07-18 18:52:55 · 15 answers · asked by Veronica B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are funny.Like you said you would expect the guy to be the one that wants to have meaningless sex but in your case I guess not. There maybe few reasons for it.
1) he is falling in love with you;
2) he has friends who are in relationship while he is not
3) he has matured and wants to settle down sooner than you expect (oops!)
In any case, i don't think you have something to worry about.Unless you wanna date other men then even saying OK we are bf/gf again should not change things much. Eventually will...but not in the beginning of the relationship. Learn from the past.
2006-07-18 19:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Maybe you don't know men as well as you thought - we're not all into cheap easy sex. Do you really want to be a source of that for the rest of your life? It's a lonely existance...
2006-07-18 19:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he realises that all meaningless sex will get him is possibly an STD or a pregnant chick who doesn't even like him...maybe he just wants someone to love him. maybe he doesn't have anybody in his life to trust? i think you're being really dick about the whole situation to tell the truth
2006-07-18 18:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by SG22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he doesn't feel any commitment, is when it is only sexual, I'm sure you can do better, by getting someone who, really cares. He's a waist of your Preciuos time.
2006-07-18 19:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the matter with him?!? He's a lucky guy, I trade myself for him anytime. Well, I think his emotions kinda get invloved on those moments you had with him on bed.
2006-07-18 18:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Spurs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are hopeless jerks that just want sex other guys can be sweet and if you ever find someone like that hook a girl up!
2006-07-18 18:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what you done, you made him vagina whipped. Since you let him in he got used to it and developed feelings. That happens to us guys. By the way did you swallow??
2006-07-18 19:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, they want to sex with you. Nothing do love with you. You make him love not sex. He has fullfilled his demand by ******* you. Not loving you. So, tell him to love you
2006-07-18 19:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by rumie2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** come meet me ill have meaningless sex with u
2006-07-18 19:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋