Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

I found out last year that my wife had an affair. It was a combination of me snooping and investigating and friends who told me what she was doing. When I found out I slapped her on the leg out of anger. I had suspected she was cheating but I trusted her when she said she wasn't. The past year I hoped that we could begin building trust. I love my wife very much and we have two very beautiful children. I am currently deployed to Iraq, and I have begun to suspect that she's cheating again. This time I have been investigating much harder, hacking her e-mail, listening to her voicemail, and when I confront her with things she lies to me. I have hard evidence that I am confronting her with and she still lies to me. She blames me for not respecting her privacy, and threatening her friends. I think she is just trying to blame me for her behavior. I'm calling her on the things she's doing wrong trying to keep our family together. SO I pose the question am I wrong?

2006-07-18 23:55:55 · 35 answers · asked by letsohhostel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would'nt it be cool to have a list of lovers for those lonely nights?

2006-07-18 23:55:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My supervisor & I have become kind of close friends here lately...nothing sexual....& he asked me last night if I would go to dinner with him this weekend....

We both agree that it is seperate from our job..but I am kind of leery about this....I met my Ex Husband at work....but he wasnt my Supervisor....we were together for 12 yrs.

My Sup. hasnt promised me anything special if I do...or any kind of punishment if I dont.....I am just curious....

2006-07-18 23:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by mysticfairy74 5 in Singles & Dating

the world has been ending since i was 10 been a long long time since then!!!

2006-07-18 23:51:42 · 8 answers · asked by liltexas36 3 in Friends

Go to Greenwich park and sunbathe or go to my local pub sit in the beer garden and get drunk?

2006-07-18 23:50:32 · 19 answers · asked by pig m 3 in Friends

My dad was married to my mum in march 1964,i was born october 1964,my dad.s xgirl friend came to visit my mum's and dad's house,i was three weeks old.When my mum seperated from my father,because he hit her badly.My dad went to his x-girl friend. or his mother's,house to stay.
Then in March 1966, my dad raped his xgirlfriend.then in November a baby girl was born. I would like to know if i have any other half brother and sisters,out there.

2006-07-18 23:50:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother made fun of me because he found out i still have videotapes and a VCR. I have a DVD player, too, but whats wrong with a VCR? does anyone else still have one?

2006-07-18 23:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife works in close contact with a young girl whom I would call "confused". She was married once, to a boozer, and now divorced. She now hangs with mostly women, and has confided to my wife, that lacking a good man, she has been intimate with women, although just lightly. My wife has told me that she thinks this girl has some interest in her, and kind of makes a joke about it. We have done things together, and she treats me very well, very warm and freindly. I remark to my wife that she is attractive, and such a shame she has "gone the other way". She agrees with me, and says " a good hard man would be able to bring her back around. We all three enjoy each others company, and I see some sparks. I think we all have the same thing in mind, what should I do. Married for 23 years, same sex partner, just each other. Time to give a threesome a try???

2006-07-18 23:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 23:47:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to find my father Tony Bicknell or Bignell who worked for Theiss on the Banket mine in Zimbabwe 37 years ago, anybody who can give me any sort of information would be of great help.have tried for years with no results. I believe he was from England in the North but do not know where. and thats all the information that I have not much to go on but hope it helps,my mothers name was Carmen Dechazal from Que Que

2006-07-18 23:47:25 · 1 answers · asked by janet n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have child with him. he treated me badly, and took in my friend, who is pregnant with him now. and they are also living together in one apartment.he disappointed me after all the promises he gave me and all the pains i passed through.Should i hurt him back or should i let him go.?????

2006-07-18 23:47:14 · 31 answers · asked by Abi nana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 23:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by jon69dave 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 23:41:31 · 11 answers · asked by 77THEODORE C 1 in Family

2006-07-18 23:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by frozenrose 2 in Friends

2006-07-18 23:39:08 · 20 answers · asked by smily 1 in Family

Give your own opinion!

2006-07-18 23:34:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

"enemies are better than friends"?????
serious answers plzzzz !!!!

2006-07-18 23:34:33 · 23 answers · asked by Dr Surabhi :) 3 in Friends

2006-07-18 23:33:07 · 3 answers · asked by sweetbeckyluvu 1 in Weddings

i called the police on monday to report someone who is spreading mallicious rumours about the child abuse i suffered at the age of 9yrs old.she is going around saying i had sex with him when i was 17 when she knows dam well my parents committed suicide togethrer when i was 16-17.the police still havent come......

2006-07-18 23:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Somebody, help me. I don't need anyone to save me......but, just a little help would be so good!. I know this can't possibly make sense......I just felt compelled to write this.

2006-07-18 23:30:53 · 16 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 23:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by irppat 1 in Family

i wanna marry foreign somone person muslim....im arabic girl.

2006-07-18 23:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by ally 1 in Singles & Dating

I divorced my hubby, who emotionally mistreated me for years. I started seeing someone when we were separated.....when I finally realized it was over. After that, I found out I had lupus, lost my job, and my boyfriend.

My mom tellls me that it is Gods way of punishing me for the divorce. She thinks that now ex hubby has seen the light, the past is all erased.

I want to die. I have no one. Let me rephrase that. I have no one who cares to take care of me. But , lots who want me to take care of them

Please, God......let someone tell me something.....that will prove to be a miracle falling from the sky. I do believe in miracles.

2006-07-18 23:27:57 · 23 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Family

how do i know if he really loves me.

2006-07-18 23:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by jamila h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Being American...Would you or would you not date an Iran man or woman? and why?

2006-07-18 23:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by liltexas36 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have cute male sex partner with 3-4 hr sex encounter

should remain with him or go back to hubby.huby has no interest in sex.i m40 yrs old.

2006-07-18 23:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by adi s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

that you ached from the very top of your head - to the very soles of your feet? How did you get over those emotions? Do you still love that person today?

2006-07-18 23:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by twinklecomfort 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 23:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by frozenrose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 23:22:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-18 23:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by vicky_ratlam 1 in Friends