that you ached from the very top of your head - to the very soles of your feet? How did you get over those emotions? Do you still love that person today?
2006-07-18 23:23:08 · 11 answers · asked by twinklecomfort 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm so sorry you are going through this, first of all. Unfortunately the only thing that helps is time. Well and talking to people who will listen- even if they cant fix it for you. Also writing about it helped too. If i was sad i cried on the paper if i was mad i wrote real big and sometimes ripped the paper w/ the pen. And yes i still love them- but its different. I think of them now and i hope they are happy and safe and loved and it doesnt hurt to think about them. You know a fabulous ex of mine once told me as i was crying about how i kept thinking back on all our awesome memories together- he said you get to keep all those memories and you go forward and you accept in someone new someday all those things and more- you deserve nothing less. I hope this helps you. Hang in there it will get better. I wished i could give you a hug. Take care.
2006-07-18 23:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by sick of it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 9 years of marriage, I watched my first wife get into the car with someone while I stood on the steps with 3 kids. That was many years ago. Life goes on and so will yours. It's unfortunate but you can't let their lack of love for you destroy you. I now have kids and grandkids and am happily married. The best cure is to get in a good environment and find another love. There are many out there that any one of us can be happy with. Someone else is looking for you. Hang in there!
2006-07-19 06:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure most everyone experiences this at least once in your life. you do get over it. Depending on the circumstances you may always have a place for that person in your heart. Sometimes you hate them. The emotions do settle so that you can continue living, pain free. I'm so sorry that you are unhappy now. Just remember that it won't last forever.
2006-07-19 06:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I CAN TOTALLY RELATE TO THIS. I met this guy and he was so perfect with his dark hair, pale skin, and hazel-green eyes. To put it simply he was so perfect and such a gentleman! There were many times when i questioned if I was good enough.........for him. We connected in a deep level . HE was the guy i spent my whole life looking for. I thought it i was dreaming because it was too good to be true....And it was. He ended up breaking my heart. I found out he had cheated on me with my best friend. I have never felt that kind of pain my whole - entire -life. It was like someone was burning me from the inside and it burned and burned. I didnt think i was worth living anymore. i had lost the most important two people of my life all in the same day. You should have seen me. I would cry myself to sleep every night. I woudnt even get out of bedin the mornings because it would hurt too much knowing that they were no longer part of my life. I have never been so angry, sad, betrayed, and burned this way. I wanted him so terribly. i had worked so hard for him to notice me, to just know that I was alive. And there he was, he listened, and it didnt take him that long to leave me as i took me to get him. It was over just like that. My fairy tale life ruined. But now I have moved on and decided to forgive my best friend. I still dream about Mr.perfect though. I still yearn to once again kiss him under the the moonlight and marry of in Paris and have lots of kids and live happily after. But i realize that would never come true. There is someone out there better for me just waitning for me to find him. I know that i deserve better and put of those feelings of feeling sorry for myself because i know the the ONE is out there. But as for Mr.Perfect it was all a facade. When i dream of him or have a desire to see him again, I just say to my self.................It wasnt ment to be.
2006-07-19 06:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost a love very close to me about 15 years ago, thought life was over, very depressed, wanting to end it all, as a matter a fact,i tryed, and i thank god i didnt succed, cause i moved on with my life and found my soulmate, ive been with her now for 10 years, and i couldnt be happier,i didnt think it was possible, but by god if you put your mind to it, it is,i wonder what it would of been like if it had of worked out sometimes, but id never change my life for nobody now,to me it wasnt to be,and im glad now,it takes time but you have to be strong
2006-07-19 08:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i understand its really terrible when u luv someone n lost him/her.it hurts.but this is life we cant stick to our past.when we see others with their partners around us we feel lonely n depressive.but what ever is written in our destiny we have to face.its upon u face it with smiling face or crying one.but u have 2 face u cant ignore it.only remember good n positive things.forget bad ones.i know this is not that easy.all this will take time.have a break.God is there 4 u may be he will send someone better than him/her.
2006-07-19 06:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jaswinder k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i still love that person in my own way...but only time will ease the pain..
2006-07-19 06:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still love him but all that helps is time and the love changes, but it awakens every time i have seen him since so all that will help you is time and distance.
2006-07-19 06:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way...
If he/she loved you he would have not lefted you
if you loved him alot
then tyr not to think bout it
2006-07-19 06:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaw i do but in a corner but never forget her for my life time
2006-07-19 06:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋