Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

Honest, I can't find a single man in his 30's - 40's who wants a settled relationship and a baby. I have been searching high and low for ages. What do you imagine is wrong with these guys? What are they afraid of? I'm not scary at all..

2006-07-18 21:31:35 · 25 answers · asked by super_star 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its that bad that he doesn't hang out much with kids his age. Its been a problem due to his height he is short for his age and wont grow much more. As he is getting older its became a problem for him as he get comments and teased at school sometimes he over hears this comments from students. Also some family members laugh at him when they see him and tease. Not his siblings . but his younger sister is taller than him so that causes a problem as people like to remind him about it. I have talked to my son about this and he told me on a daily basis at school he is teased about his height. Its changed my son so much. From a happy well confident, full of laughs and character to a very sad and quiet boy in public and on family gatherings.

2006-07-18 21:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by She C 1 in Family

I don't have a lot of experience with the ladies. I've been hanging out with a woman for about a month. She's hot and a real "tease". She said I'm her "buddy"! She tells me all kinds of intimate stuff and we wind up talking about sex alot. I enjoy being with her and talking but couldn't handle being in just the "friend zone" anymore. Tonight she told me that one of my friends tried to put a move on her and she would maybe f**k him if he took her out or something. I told her I am jealous and could not hang out with her anymore and be her "girlfriend", ya' know listen to all of her emotional stuff and be her "buddy". After all I am a single guy...I already have friends to just hang with! I told her that eventually she'll find a guy and f**k him and when she starts telling me about it, I'll be hurt....I can't handle that! I told her I was just trying to be up front and honest with her. I did not want to wind up trying to put a move on her and make a fool out of myself...obviously she's not attracted to me...especially if she would tell me that she would f**k my friend! That's like telling me she'd **** him but not me!.. Geesh! She started crying and told me that I am just like every other guy, all we want is to f*** her! What the F*** ?? Took her home, not a word was spoken.. and she slammed the car door. Doubt she'll talk to me now! Now I feel bad that I have hurt her feelings. I guess I should just distance myself from her, except we see eachother in social circles quite often. Don't know how to handle that. should I just try to aviod her or what. I know I am screwed up in the head...help!

2006-07-18 21:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by luv2bluvd 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in early 30s n not really desperate to get pregnant.Going to celebrate 1st anniversary soon this Aug06.Havent come menses yet .Me n Hubby early 30s

2006-07-18 21:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HelloeMy name is randy i am 28 i have 2 children i just found out that my wife of 8 years just cheated on me for the 2nd time the first was a month or so after we married With an ex-boyfriend but we were split up for a while and were living in different states i forgave her and i thought we moved on nicely with our marriage however 4months ago she did it again with the bread guy who delivers to the store she works I love her with all my heart but she hurt me and im afraid she will do it again also i think my kids need both a mother and a father im not scared to move on im a good looking guy with a good job but thats not what i want i want a family is this a lost cause?

2006-07-18 21:25:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 21:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What did you think i would do at this moment Whe you standed before me with tears in you eyes when u told me that you found you another and you just dont love me n-o more

What did you think i would say at this moment when i was hit with this nollege noing that you just dont love me Did You Think i would Curse You Or Say thinks to hurt you cuz you just dont love me no more

Did you think i would hate you or rase my hands at you. Now come on you no me Very well, How Could i Hurt you noing That i Love you and i no you no i would never hurt you

What did you think i would give at this moment if you say i have to crack one tear from my eye. I would get down on one nee and kiss the grown as u walk on if i can just hold you again, I'd Get down on one Ne and kiss the grown as you walk baby if could just hold you Ag-ain

2006-07-18 21:24:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have a guy friend whose now really confuse about his situation. He has an 8year relationship with her gf and got engaged last year. That time, things are that easy and going smoothly for him, until time came that he and his girl colleague became friends. Before he thinks that their relationship is just a plain friendship, but time came that they became closer to each other and through their friendship, they became lovers. He's really in love with this new girl in his life and almost forgotten of the girl he's engaged with.He's very happy being with his new girl because he realized that he's really in love with her deeply, he knew that this is the first time he became in love that much and that he never felt that way before.He became confuse abt his situation especially when the time came that he needs to choose among the two ladies he involved with. He choose the first one, but the result is that he is sad and unhappy because he's still very much in love with his 2nd gf.Pls help!

2006-07-18 21:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by HisAngel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 21:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by bidii 1 in Friends

I'm a butt man myself but I love the breasts too. Which is more attractive in a woman? If your a woman you can answer too because I know you all admire women's bodies almost as much as us men do.

2006-07-18 21:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by Sleepyguy 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 21:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The wife is a female dog and hardly gives him the time of day anymore. She should have taking care of her husband more better or he would have not seeked me!!!

2006-07-18 21:18:42 · 44 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just one person that could complete the entire party and why?

2006-07-18 21:18:18 · 2 answers · asked by cHaStiTy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 21:17:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 21:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i'm ONLY 14, but i have a problem my best guy friend, ran( his name is randall, but that's UNCOOL so everyone calls him ran ) i think i love him. we have been best friends since second grade. i mean, he's had girlfriends, i've had boy friends, it's never been a big deal. but i bumped into him in a store about the time school got out. we talked and before he walked away, he said " i guess i'll see you when school starts? " and i just seem him in a way i've never before. i thought about calling him and asking him to the movies or something, but i just couldn't. so, i'm gonna wait till school back in session. ( EXACTLY 16 days ) how do i break the news to him? PLEASE HELP!

2006-07-18 21:14:01 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 21:13:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been friends with my best friend for 17 years, and she is getting married on Saturday. She approached me to be in her wedding, which I said yes to. She said that when I got back from vacation, we would go pick out bridesmaid dresses. When I got back, I made several failed attempts to contact her, and because of it, she picked out the dresses, which were in the $200 range. She knows that I couldn't afford it, raising a child and going to school. I talked to her about it, and she just brushed me off like it was nothing, and made one of my friends a bridesmaid. I had asked her to be a witness at my wedding 4 years prior, and she never showed up. Then, to top it off, she came by my house tonight to rub it in my face about the dresses (she brought one over). What should I do? Should I go to the wedding, or should I talk to her about the very hurt feelings? I went to her bridal shower and bachelorette parties, and I felt so out of place it was embarrassing. What should I do?

2006-07-18 21:13:26 · 14 answers · asked by firerescueduck 1 in Weddings

I keep having these problems dealing with my girls past. She been wit a guy for a few years and i been with her for a year. I keep hearin about things she done already. She say she feels bad about it, and she doesn't even remember how many times she had sex with her previous bf. But she tells me, "I swear i haven't enjoyed none of those times she done it with him" cuz from what i learned, he's a complete jerk. But HOW??? If you don't enjoy something, u certainly don't continue to do it.... I'm confused... Cuz i honestly believe she doesn't tell me the truth about it, even if i told her. I just want a good relationship because i truly love her, but every once in a while, i find something new out that she "done" before. It makes me wanna go kill the dude who did this ti her.... Just offer me some suggestions on how to deal with this.... Anyone can help.

2006-07-18 21:13:08 · 5 answers · asked by Monster 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 21:12:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 21:11:40 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

no I feel kinda bad about it, should I keep it to myself or tell him what I done?

2006-07-18 21:10:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 21:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you were happily married for several years and one day an ex-girl friend calls you out of the blue to tell you she had a child that was yours and he is now 5.
And she tells you that he needs his father in his life and possible support. Let’s assume that the girl is well-adjusted, and not after a hand out, but wants you to help with the child in a father figure kind of way and yes, you are the father.
Yes, this is for the boys, but girls feel free to add your input. So how would you react?

2006-07-18 21:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by jaidecker 1 in Family

2006-07-18 21:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by echolily 3 in Family

2006-07-18 21:06:54 · 23 answers · asked by alib322000 1 in Singles & Dating

i take care of my financial necessities. i am thinking of leaving him. am i right in doing so?

2006-07-18 21:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if someone is fedup with life , is it better to end life or sacrifice everything and live.

2006-07-18 21:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by kk_epy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was looking for some marriage records on a friend of mine and i went to a few sites and there were none found do you think that is accurate enough?

2006-07-18 21:05:57 · 8 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Friends

afterwards? My boyfriend desprately wants to be married again. He lived with me in my current state and moved away to get away from a nasty drug habit and get a better job. He is clean and well now, 500 miles away. He wants me to move there now and marry him. I am in college and have 1 1/2 years left. What to do? I love him but he moved away. Should I leave everything and go? I feel like if I don't he will move on quickly--the long distance thing would be too much for him.

2006-07-18 21:05:42 · 5 answers · asked by Tell it like it is 2 in Marriage & Divorce