I don't have a lot of experience with the ladies. I've been hanging out with a woman for about a month. She's hot and a real "tease". She said I'm her "buddy"! She tells me all kinds of intimate stuff and we wind up talking about sex alot. I enjoy being with her and talking but couldn't handle being in just the "friend zone" anymore. Tonight she told me that one of my friends tried to put a move on her and she would maybe f**k him if he took her out or something. I told her I am jealous and could not hang out with her anymore and be her "girlfriend", ya' know listen to all of her emotional stuff and be her "buddy". After all I am a single guy...I already have friends to just hang with! I told her that eventually she'll find a guy and f**k him and when she starts telling me about it, I'll be hurt....I can't handle that! I told her I was just trying to be up front and honest with her. I did not want to wind up trying to put a move on her and make a fool out of myself...obviously she's not attracted to me...especially if she would tell me that she would f**k my friend! That's like telling me she'd **** him but not me!.. Geesh! She started crying and told me that I am just like every other guy, all we want is to f*** her! What the F*** ?? Took her home, not a word was spoken.. and she slammed the car door. Doubt she'll talk to me now! Now I feel bad that I have hurt her feelings. I guess I should just distance myself from her, except we see eachother in social circles quite often. Don't know how to handle that. should I just try to aviod her or what. I know I am screwed up in the head...help!
2006-07-18 21:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by luv2bluvd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u c u became the guy all the girls want as a friend only. so yeah she told u bout all these guy who wanted to bone here cuz ur like her girlfriend. so yeah now u developed feeling and want her as a gf. she might just want to have fun but eventually she will want a bf. so dont think that ur out. u guys had a fall back. u need to call her and tell her why u did that. tell her that u like her and dont want to c her get hurt. to give u a chance. ur not like the other guys cuz u dont just want her for sex u want her. ur not screwed up dude. we all make mistakes but u were bit harsh on her. still i get it u just couldnt bare to hear it no more cuz slowly it was hurting u. so before u give up how bout u just make sure that ur doing the right thing. try to make sure ok. i know u rather just leave her be but dude she crying so soemthing might be there. why not find out. i would and if not just be friends thats it. no like close gf stuff just friends. good luck man
2006-07-18 21:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 14⤊ 4⤋
Sorry but this was a very selfish move. If you really wanted to be with this girl you took the wrong approach. Now that you have told her this you can't just simply avoid her. You need to let her know that you didn't mean for it to sound the way it did. Explain yourself more celarly to her. Let her know that you are sorry and try starting over.
2006-07-18 21:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were surely attracted to her...but u did something that hurt her cuz u were her confidante. Girls dont usually share such intimate details with a male friend...
If u really wanna make it up to her, offer her your sincerest apologies, and state gently that she not share such details wit u.
Warning - avoid making any sort of a move.
2006-07-18 22:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. There are better people to spend you time pursuing.
Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't care enough for you.
2006-07-18 21:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word my friend. COMFORT SEX. Just try it.
2006-07-18 21:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by apakejadahnyaini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋