have a guy friend whose now really confuse about his situation. He has an 8year relationship with her gf and got engaged last year. That time, things are that easy and going smoothly for him, until time came that he and his girl colleague became friends. Before he thinks that their relationship is just a plain friendship, but time came that they became closer to each other and through their friendship, they became lovers. He's really in love with this new girl in his life and almost forgotten of the girl he's engaged with.He's very happy being with his new girl because he realized that he's really in love with her deeply, he knew that this is the first time he became in love that much and that he never felt that way before.He became confuse abt his situation especially when the time came that he needs to choose among the two ladies he involved with. He choose the first one, but the result is that he is sad and unhappy because he's still very much in love with his 2nd gf.Pls help!
2006-07-18 21:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by HisAngel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, I admit, im the second girl.
2006-07-18 21:24:21 · update #1
well..you see at first you should not have gotten on their way but on the contrary it was not planned. It is a diificult decision for the guy but in the end I suggest he should choose you, if he is really happy and in love. His gf for 8years will feel really bad ( and im sure somehow you will feel guilty about it ) but if the guy is no longer happy with her then chances are their marriage will be a failure. Pray for it. Hope this helps. God bless!
2006-07-18 21:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. I'm sorry. Honey, the life lesson that every girl has to learn is :: Love hurts! I think that an 8 year relationship should hold some value to the guy, especially with an engagement. Is the guy married yet? Maybe he should explain to the girl he's engaged to that he thought he rushed into a commitment too quickly, and admit that he is in love with another girl. What I'm about to say may sound like a movie quote, but it's really from personal experience: If the girl he's engaged to really loves him, she'll understand and let go. She'll find a new love, and he's got you. I was in a similar situation once, but as the position of the first girl. It hurt, but I just wanted what was best for him. I moved on and found an amazing boyfriend. Hopefully it will all work out. Good luck!! â¥
2006-07-19 04:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by ;; dirty little secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor girl. It must be terrible... Well, if he's not happy with the other girl, why doesn't he just leave her? And why did he choose her instead of you? Are you sure he was telling the truth?
2006-07-19 04:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you are a statistic...never mess around with another womans man cause you never win....
2006-07-19 04:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by valerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋