Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

2006-07-18 19:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well wat do u ppl think I sud do if yesterday my bf told tht he doesnt luv me anymore & 2day tht it was just a whimsical statement.Is he playing games with me sud I stay or take a break & come back or sud i leave him 4evr?Plz help me.I m very very confused.I dont know wat 2 make of him.We hv been 2gether 4 6yrs.but this is probably d 1st time he is acting so strangely.I m 17.
plz plz help me.i luv him a lot but i dont know wat 2 make of this kind of attitude of his.plzzzzzzzzzzzz help me.

2006-07-18 19:45:30 · 12 answers · asked by madonna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend and I were together for 1 year. She was only on top twice during that year, and both times were extremely brief. She kept saying she was too heavy, which she wasn't, and I assurred her of that. We broke up for a couple of months and then got back together. She told me that she slept with one guy, once, while we were apart. I asked about it, and she said she was on top the whole time. I've told her that this bothers me and she doesn't seem to understand. I think this is f***ed up. Can anyone give me a reasonable explanation for why she would do this?

2006-07-18 19:44:43 · 7 answers · asked by notquitesure 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband seems distant. He does not get intimate with my anymore. If I ask him to do something, go to eat, watch a movie, etc. he makes excuses not to go. He says he still loves me, but I can't figure it out.

2006-07-18 19:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by sweet cheeks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he tells me he is not and is really experienced but how excactly can i tell he aint lyin? guys w/ experience plz answer! he tells me he wants 2 have sex in the shower n hot tub cuz he never has b4 but hes done it 3 times. he claims first time was for 1 hr and a half! 2nd was for 2 hours...is he lyin?

2006-07-18 19:43:47 · 15 answers · asked by side_ways_sittin 1 in Singles & Dating

and we have not had sex sence. Neither of us has had sex sence. This was over 30 years ago. Over the years it has hurt me so and still does to not have a sexual life. We love each other but will never be lovers again. The fantasy was harmless and I don't think I wanted it to happen. It was 2 women together. It still turns me on for some inexplicable reason. How can I find a lover?

2006-07-18 19:42:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanna have sex

2006-07-18 19:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by heyywatsuppplss:P 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this person since we were in 5th grade. We also went to highschool together for most our years. She's abit strange (gothic kinda) and I'm not. Not sure if that matters at all, but I myself am a VERY shy person. I've only dated twice and I can't see myself with anyone else but with this girl.

She means more to me than she could ever guess, but we've been friends for a while now, but we don't see eachother anymore since Highschool, but chat once in a blue moon online.

What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel, or have I passed that point and should I forget about her? I can't see doing that, but please, any suggestions would help.

-Thanks
Brandon

2006-07-18 19:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by brandonedbishop 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 19:36:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Or is that asking for trouble. I'm not married, but I was talking with my mother about taking a Reformation Tour later in life, without my spouse if I ever get married. The trip is more of a time of reflection and I want to be left alone during that time. She said I'm being selfish and I'm going to hurt his feelings. Am I? I figure I am an adult that has a mind and interests of my own, but I also don't want to go around hurting people's feelings.

2006-07-18 19:36:30 · 15 answers · asked by i_luv_the_irish23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 19:36:29 · 12 answers · asked by sweathearts4u _ 1 in Friends

I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first boyfriend) who was controlling and verbally abusive. Everytime they broke up he said he was sorry and that things would be different this time (yeah right). They broke up about 3-4 times over. Her friends and parents hate him. She always used to tell me about how she could never be friends with him again (unlike me) and how she hated so many things about him. Now we've broken up and they're friends, however she isn't dating him nor really hanging out with him that much. She's basically shut me out of her life, although she really wanted to be friends and still hang out. I still get the feeling she really misses me (she has to!).

So now what? Move on yes, but should I leave her alone & let her come to me? Should I try to be friends? I think confessing my feelings will only drive her off...wouldn't it?

2006-07-18 19:35:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 19:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by rahul k 1 in Weddings

I was told tahat AA memers can after 1 year of sobrity

2006-07-18 19:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by speciial3 1 in Friends

My gf of 5 yrs has always referred to this guy as her friend when talking to me. She has gone and spent the whole day with him, which I didn't protest, even though I didn't like it. She has also let him spend the night at her place when she said he called and needed a place to crash after drinking too much. Thru recent conversation w/her I found out that this guy is actually her ex-boyfriend. Am I wrong to feel betrayed? She also lied and said she broke up with him, and the opposite is true, which makes me think that she may still have feelings for him. Cell phone records also show that she lied about him calling her that night, she actually called him after spending over an hour on the phone with me and saying she was tired and going to bed. She swears nothing physical, or anything inappropriate happened and that she didn't tell me bcuz I would get upset. What is the truth here??? One last thing, she also told me that he proposed to her that evening in his drunken stupor..?

2006-07-18 19:34:33 · 11 answers · asked by runninfool 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 19:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

Here is the porblem. Seeing this girl for a while and after a good relationship she leaves. The reason for her leaving was that I am an international student who decided to transfer to another school. THe whole scenario was affecting that I was not staying in the USA and so she just disappeared on me. I called her to see what's up and her dad said that I should stay away ( the dad was urging her to break it off with me for about a month). So she spoke with my room mate as of recent ( to collect her things) and he said she sounded sorry and that the way things are right now and are happeing because it has to. I have gotten into school and now preparing to continue. Should I tell her that I am staying or should I just toss her things and forget about her? What do you guys think?

2006-07-18 19:31:52 · 20 answers · asked by Adrian W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 19:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by kenth_35 2 in Singles & Dating

do any of you ppl have more then 7 piercings,and what do u think is the max limit 4 them?

2006-07-18 19:30:17 · 13 answers · asked by FLIRTY GIRL 1 in Friends

Many times people get a feeling about something or someone that defies reason and logic, but, a sixth sense says othewise, where do you put the weight of your final decision, logic or instinct ?.....

When logic and instinct clash, which do you choose...?

2006-07-18 19:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by marnefirstinfantry 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 19:29:34 · 12 answers · asked by misty_blue2u 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife says she loves me and I am a wonderful person but she just does not feel the love from me. I have put up an admirable effort I think since she had an affair last year. She says she just wasnt getting the attention and the love that she needed from me. Classsic case of the husband works hard and the wife has to much free time on her hands so she has an affair blaims it on me casue I dont love her and give her attention all day casue I'm at work uses drugs goes into depression and says I am the reason for her life being a mess. Well she left to her parents and says she is not coming back and she sounds serious. She is so mad I dont even want to talk to her but I still love her.

She says there is someone out there that we be happy with me and I agree, not to be arrogant but I am a pretty good catch everyone tells me even her. I just cant give her enough and I cant make her happy and I dont think anyone can.

Am I better off to just let her go after 4 years of marriage?

2006-07-18 19:28:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 19:27:54 · 8 answers · asked by Monica B 1 in Friends

can i have a imagination person in my life will it effect my marriage
and why

2006-07-18 19:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-18 19:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by thapelo m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i am 26. Just meet this girl and we have been out 3 times...I have come to the conclusion she is not the one for me. Never will be anything more than a friend. I think my biggest problem with her is she has NEVER said thank you for anything...like dinner/movies.

Anyways...had the chance to have sex with her tonight...but we were tight on time and I was like...lets just wait until we have more time. I really made that excuse up...I wanted to have sex with her obviously. She did ask me to promise "not to take her for granted". I said likewise.

Why would I hessitation to have sex with her because I feel like i would be wasting my time?

Thoughts?

2006-07-18 19:26:35 · 9 answers · asked by Tom 2 in Singles & Dating

Will I been with this boy about 4 or 5 months and we broke and now we are back together??? I really want to be with him but I dont cause its hard being with somebody that you use to care about and now I just dont know how to act around him no more...

2006-07-18 19:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by cartoonnet01 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really confused bc i like brothers right now and i am datin one but also instron really strong like with the other the one. the one im datin im not sure if he really likes me but the other 1 told me he loved me wat do i do?

2006-07-18 19:24:21 · 2 answers · asked by daddygirl310 1 in Singles & Dating

is it at 34

2006-07-18 19:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl I work with talked me into stealing some money at work and she said if I helped her she would be my girlfriend,now the money is gone and all she lets me do is hug her at work and now she wants me to get more money for her,I don't want to get fired I just wanted a real girlfriend

2006-07-18 19:23:05 · 13 answers · asked by badmts 4 in Singles & Dating