Here is the porblem. Seeing this girl for a while and after a good relationship she leaves. The reason for her leaving was that I am an international student who decided to transfer to another school. THe whole scenario was affecting that I was not staying in the USA and so she just disappeared on me. I called her to see what's up and her dad said that I should stay away ( the dad was urging her to break it off with me for about a month). So she spoke with my room mate as of recent ( to collect her things) and he said she sounded sorry and that the way things are right now and are happeing because it has to. I have gotten into school and now preparing to continue. Should I tell her that I am staying or should I just toss her things and forget about her? What do you guys think?
2006-07-18 19:31:52 · 20 answers · asked by Adrian W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your main focus right now should be school and not that girl. If she really, really cared about you she would have supported your dreams and stayed with you all the way. Plus, no one says that long distance relationships, can't work. This girl obviously was not right for you and my personal, honest opinion is that you deserve somebody better than her because you are trying to do something positive, and you need a girl who wants to do something positive too. Even if your ex was in school, she still back stabbed you and that's not cool at all.
Anyways,I'm very happy that you are in school and I wish the very best for you. Good Luck, and I hope that you accomplish whatever your dreams are!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-18 19:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Lady E 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let her find out that your staying. She left you without telling you what was up. I say live on with you life and some other lady will come in your life. If she still has the feelings then she will come back but the sounds of it you would have a hard relationship because her parents are in the mix. The worst thing to do is cause family problems between the lady and the parents. Well if you get married they're paying for the Wedding!!!! JP
2006-07-18 19:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by da skoolar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately do NOT toss her things. That would be totally innapropriate. You should return her things to her respectfully. Forgetting about her is not a choice. I can only speak for myself but it's not that simple. You should be honest with yourself. If you care for her you won't be able to simply forget about her. It may be that your paths must part at this time. It's not for us to know for how long we have with anyone we walk with in this life. You should cherish the time you had together and tell her that. If you end the relationship as you know it to be then do so maturely and respectfully because you may look back and see how special you were. If you act like she doesn't or didn't matter then you may live to regret your own attitude. Remember , no matter what the problem, love is the answer.
2006-07-18 19:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there might be something else going on here. Unless she is just really close to her family ---to allow her dad to lock her up in a tower. Honestly man, if she didn't even want to stay connected with you at least as friends (or trying the long distance thing)---i think maybe she wasn't really serious about your relationship. If she doesn't think you are worth sticking around for ---then why are you?----you deserve better than that man!....good luck
2006-07-18 19:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro the truth is has she told u the reason y she lef u
if the answer to this is no then by no means u should tell her the reson of staying
y u care when she never did?
u cant just hurt some one and say sorry after and expect them to forgive u
she did that let her realise it
let her see u that u still there dont tell her
and see how she reacts
2006-07-18 19:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in your situation her father had been wanting her to break it off with you for a while now, and if the only way she could think of doing it was waiting for you to be gone. I say toss her things to the curb. There's more fish in the ocean, evidentally she wasn't the right one.
2006-07-18 19:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not just the break up thats effecting her. Its the move and her dad pressuring her. you should just tell her to come and get her things and nicely tell her you still want to atleast be friends with her still . If she says no well just say ok then forget about her lol
2006-07-18 19:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem, and I think that you need to move on. Overseas relationships are difficult to manage, so you just have to let it go and start from scratch. I would recommend that visit webdate_dot_com and find yourself another girlfriend that's nearer and more convenient for you!
2006-07-18 19:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
until she says so...she must still have feelings for u..and by the sounds u do for her...if u love her go get her hun...love is hard to find ...true love is...and the only thing we regret is the things we let go...maybe u should find out for sure if she still cares...maybe she has sum 1 else and u dont know?...is all have to be answered by her im afraid...not her dad...so go find out...and tell her how u feel...keeping emotions bottled up is no good...let her know u still love her and see where it goes from there...good luck hun...go get her!!! : )
2006-07-18 19:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by angel_of_ur_heart35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋