and we have not had sex sence. Neither of us has had sex sence. This was over 30 years ago. Over the years it has hurt me so and still does to not have a sexual life. We love each other but will never be lovers again. The fantasy was harmless and I don't think I wanted it to happen. It was 2 women together. It still turns me on for some inexplicable reason. How can I find a lover?
2006-07-18 19:42:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How about apologizing to your wife for making such a selfish recommendation and living a normal, monogamous lifestyle with the woman you married?
2006-07-18 19:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try apologizing to your wife. At a young age you probably scared her bad with such insult to your marriage. Romance her and do little things for her and let her know how you miss HER, not a hole to satisfy yourself in.Keep on being the man she loved and married and do not stop romancing her if she does consent to making love. You are both in the habit of no sex but habits can be broken. You evidently love each other to have stayed together so long. Try to love her completely as the young woman you fell in love with.Do not get a lover because you will not be respecting yourself, your wife or your marriage.I wish you both happiness and the fullfillment of a complete marriage.
2006-07-19 03:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so unfair of you!
Everybody has one or two "strange fantasies" that could seem harmless to us. Yet they could (and yours probably would) seem as an insult to your wife or girlfriend! You should have gone to a marriage councilor and sorted that out firsthand.
And another thing, Why after 30 years, as you state, do you choose YahooAswers to find a lover???
2006-07-19 02:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by memory_of_flight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a liar and if you are NOT, then you have some SERIOUS ISSUES! I can NOT believe you would hurt the woman you CLAIM to love! You married her, and then sentanced her to a lifetime of sadness and lonelyness because of your stupid selfish fantasy! They make girl on girl porn you know! Buy one (or 10) of those, get over the fact that it will never come true, and make love to your wife. IF she will have you now after all the B.S. you put her through!
2006-07-19 02:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by pink_phish22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should apologize to your wife everyone has their own fantasy's but most NEVER happen and that is something that you have to respect . If your wife is uncomfortable with the suggestion then you should recognize that and be appreciative that she wants you and only you
2006-07-19 02:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetest Tragedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gross! I think that it a common male fantasy...but most men are smart enough to turn down the temptation when it arises because, in the end, it is nothing but trouble.
2006-07-19 02:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by benjilove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanted a 3some and 30 yrs. no sex? Ur a ffucckin' LIAR! Go somewhere and DIE!
2006-07-19 02:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. I have a good idea. If you let her to watch you done by a man she will probably let live your fantasy.
2006-07-19 02:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by tapsev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry to her once again as its now almost 30years of repentance if you really regret it.
Show her all the answers you recieved against your open confession in public
2006-07-19 02:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by ksunil r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ure imposible!
2006-07-19 02:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by HisAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋