My husband and I have a date planed this weekend and I have to be the one who plans the part when we get back home behind closed doors. He wants something wild and crazy. I am not sure what to do. If you have any stories or suggestions please help. I want it to be something out of the blue. We are not into inviting anyone else if you know what I mean.
2006-07-18 18:45:12 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly71086 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what schenzy said, with a toy or new trick or two thrown in. maybe a sensory exploration, anal play or just a kinky new position, depending on what the two of you have and haven't done before. he wants you to take control and be creative. in other words, he wants a bit of dominatrix and a bit of experimentation on your part. have fun with it and he will LOVE whatever you come up with.
2006-07-18 19:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by smack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be great if more married couples had dates like yours. My wife would screech if I suggested something like this. I'm glad you guys are still willing to have some fun and romance together.
So wild and crazy huh? Well, what would you like to do? I have a feeling that if you took control of this part of the evening you would get no complaints. You choose the lighting, the music, the candles (or not). You decide what you and he will wear (or not). You decide what, and when, and where. Just do what YOU want to do for a change. Make it all about you this time. And no, don't invite anyone. Marriage doesn't need to be perverted to be fun. Whatever the two of you do in the privacy of your bedroom is entirely up to you though. There are no rules as long as no one is forced to do anything or gets hurt. But it doesn't usually need to be too bizarre when two people are in love. Although a little fun never hurt... I admire you guys. Well done!
2006-07-18 18:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Wild" means different things to different people.
Easy tricks:
Strip tease/ lap dance. (Make sure you practice in heels!)
Make a rule that he can't touch you until you say so and then tease him till he begs. If you're into it, make him ask nicely. If you're really into it, tie him down. (Use soft rope or silk scarves and, again, practice your knots. Don't use handcuffs.)
Costume! This one would be a real surprise/ treat for your hubby. Get yourself a short schoolgirl skirt (they sell them everywhere online, the company "Lip Service" is particularly good). Pair it with a tight white blouse and do the naughty schoolgirl thing (all guys love this). You don't have to roleplay, just look cute and be saucy. Other options: cheerleader (tougher to get a cheap costume together), sexy librarian/teacher (gotta do a garter belt with that).
Or, give him a bath. Make sure it's not too hot cuz he's going to start to sweat. Have his bathrobe or a big towel ready. Tell him to change and meet you in the bathroom. When he enters, either leave a note instructing him to enter the bath or just be there to greet him. You don't need to talk a lot, just get him to relax. (Ideally, you should wear as little as possible. Maybe just a necklace or a sash around your hips.) Soap him down. Tease like crazy. Leave the naughty parts for last or don't touch them at all. Consider sitting on the edge of the bath behind him so he can rest against your legs as you rub his shoulders and soap his back. Finish up by drying him off and hit the bedroom. You can add a sensual massage if you like or just go to it.
Whatever you do, stay relaxed and make sure that you feel sexy. If you're having fun, he will, too.
This is all pretty tame by my standards, but I don't know what you guys are into or have done. Oh, and BTW, I seriously doubt your hubby expects you to bring another girl into the action. Yes, that's a fantasy for most men, but the reality tends to freak them out, especially if they're really in love. They worry about feeling jealous, about making you feel jealous, about hurting the relationship. And yes, I speak from experience. Just my two cents.
Good luck!
2006-07-18 19:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures.They like to look.There are very sexy corsets with thigh high stockings that are sexy.Something that pushes your breast up so they look like they are ready to come right out of the bra.Crotchless panties.Body stockings that are sheer.Go to AdamandEve.com or Fredricks of Hollywool.Even Playboy has lingerie catalogs.But before all that let the fun begin during the week with kisses that leave him weak in the knees.Then rub your hand softly against his crotch but no more.Give him a sensual back rub-lots of body lotions out there that taste good.Use your hands and your breasts on his back and front but hold off on the sex til your special night.Most of all think about it all week and tell him to do the same and by the time the night arrives you'll both be very excited.Maybe even get a sex board game.It just depends on your personalities.My husband is up for just about anything.No other partners here either.Good luck!!!
2006-07-19 09:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Flaming40s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Butterfly, try this, on your way home, make sure that you are kissing and touching him at every stop sign or stop light.
Once home, have him stand in front of your bed while you slowly remove all of his clothes. Have him lay on the bed with you still there fully dressed. Put on some music that you enjoy, something with a good beat to it. You now start to remove your clothes in a strip tease dance for him! You know what he enjoys the most so have fun with it and just dance around while removing your clothes. Believe me, you don't have to be a strippeer. Guys love it when their wives do this for them.
My wife does this for me and it's incredible! If you want to take it one step farther, have him sit in a chair while your doing this and give him a lap dance! Again, you don't have to be an expert and you won't even finish the song before he is all over you!
Have a great time! My wife and I have regular date nights and they are the best. I'm happy to hear that other couples are doing this also.
2006-07-19 02:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie him up and make him watch you pleasure yourself and use toys for starters. Then just go from there. Surely he's told you about fantasies that he may have. Three words VERY SEXY LINGERIE. Make sure that before you go out he knows exactly what you're wearing under your clothes. We love sexy underthings. If he wants you to plan what he'll be doing, don't let him forget for the entire eveing that you DO have something planned. Keep him on the verge of attacking you for the entire evening, and when he gets you home and wants to do just that, put on the brakes, and that's when you break out the restraints. He'll love it. Also he may very well be referring to a 3-some. If you're game maybe this is the opportunity to introduce that into your play. If not then it is a very bad idea. That has to be something that you BOTH agree on and want. Whatever you do, make it hot and lose ALL inhibitions. Turn him into your own personal love slave, living breathing sex toy. Decide what you want from him and take it. I believe he wants you to completely cut loose and show him the tigress in you. Have fun.
2006-07-18 18:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow there are some interesting answers Here!!!!!! If that was the situation that I was in I'll tell you what I would do. When you are getting dressed pretend that you are going to meet someone for the first time. You know, make sure that you are waxed or shaved in the appropriate places, wear sexy clothes, go all out! Make sure that you are the seductress......... Have the handle on all things at all time, Make sure that you are pleased then make sure that he is pleased too for all of the hard work! Ask him about his wildest fantasy, pretend that you are a high paid call girl, what ever trips your fancy!!!!! He is giving YOU the reins! Take them and ride into the sunset honey!!!!!
2006-07-18 19:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
French maid, Catholic school girl, wood-be-thug that's broken into home finding middle class woman in bed
On the other hand not only do I like to dominate at times, but I also like to be dominated. An aggressive woman can be very exciting. Boss lady in low cut business dress calls lowly male worker into office and turns him into slave.
Dirty filthy animal like behavior with lots of filthy naughty language...
Hey the best advice I can give is disabling the filter that you have between your mind and your mouth, you might be surprised at what happens.
Master and servant is always a blast.
2006-07-18 18:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by bolillo_loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you be the queen of the wild and swing from your vine, And catch your man and tie him up,And have alot of fun,Doing what ever you like and turning him and yourself on,For a great time of sex...Hey,enjoy your parnter and enjoy life with you love, as much as you can...Life is to short,So take and do what ever pleases you and your mate...
Clowmy
2006-07-18 18:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off mildly.Kiss him everywher and then start bite ears,lips and thn start licking his dick ,long long time and then let him do what he want.At last try the reverse position,be a wild horse on him,make him cry out of immense pleasure
2006-07-18 18:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋