my ex-boyfriend whom i havent spoken to in 1 year just came back into ma life nd asked me 2 come back.i still have feelings 4 him but im afraid he'll hurt me again.what should i do?
2006-07-18 18:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should give him another chance, unless he cheated on you or something, because thats just low and people like that rarely change. But if your feelings are still strong enough, tell him that you still like him, but that whatever it is he did wrong is lame, and that he can't do it to you again because you deserve better.
_hope i was some help_
2006-07-18 18:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did he do to u? was it really bad? did u forgive him, or are u still feeling some type of hate for that?
Ask these questions to yourself
If even though what he did to u, u r still in love with him, then give him a chance
But this time, be more careful, don't fall too fast for him
Be sure u'll be in safe ground before completely steping in
Always be alert!!!
The bad part of the idea of starting all over again is that maybe u lost trust in him... That is very important in a relationship, if u can't trust him, then don't even try it, ti won't work
2006-07-19 01:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by sweet-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK U REALLY DO NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS LONG AND HARD. I MEAN U HAVENT SPOKEN TO HIM IN A YEAR AND NOW ALL OF A SUDDEN HE WANTS U BACK NOW WHY IS THAT. THATS WHAT U NEED TO ASK UR SELF?.AND PLUS HE HURT U THE FIRST TIME THAT DOESNT MEAN HE WANT HURT U A SECOND TIME.AND LOOK HERES SOME MORE ADVICE FOLLOW UR HEART IT WILL LEAD U IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION AND IT WILL NEVER LIE TO U.
2006-07-19 01:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by ive_lost_my_m1nd_i_cant_find_it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he won't hurt you again. Take your time to find out. Anyways, a year has gone by and you don't know if he is the same guy. Just be careful. Good luck.
2006-07-19 01:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends if he is the same person he was or if you are involved with someone that you really care about. If you are not. Take it slow. Don't him control the pace. You keep control. Watch everything he does and if you see no change in him. It will definitely be the same as before.
2006-07-19 01:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY EX DID THE SAME THING LIKE A MONTH AGO...HE KALLED ME OUT OF THE BLUE TALKIN' ABOUT HOW HE WANTS TO BE 50/50 NOW...I STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM BUT I TOLD HIM STRAIGHT UP YOU KAN'T KEEP RUNNIN' IN AND OUT OF MY LIFE...I'M NOT PUTTIN' MY SH* T ON HOLD BEKUZ HE DOESN'T KNO WHAT HE WANTS!THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IS GET ON...DON'T PUT YOURSELF AT RISK AGAIN...YEAH HE PROBABLY HAS CHANGED BUT WHY WASN'T HE ABLE TO DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO NOW A YEAR GO!I KNOW IT'S HARD BEKUZ YOU'RE FIGHTING YOUR FEELINGS BUT YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU!GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2006-07-19 02:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by KALIASH562 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back to him if he's hurting u... even if u still have fellings for him that doesnt mean u should go back and get hurt... u'll get over him eventually and u'll find someone to treat u right :)
good luck
2006-07-19 01:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "im over you and i need to move on same with you." he cant just come back and get his leftovers again find a better guy then him ok. best of luck :)
2006-07-19 01:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kalysta A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up with u he finally realize what he had good now he want to come u should go for it he want another chance give it to him he will do rite trust me
2006-07-19 02:07:36 · answer #9 · answered by smoothpimpone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it out again if you still have feelings, but just be prepared for heart break
2006-07-19 01:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by esko1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋